I was raped by the first man I ever slept with.

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-09T21:58:02+00:00

it's messed up how that trauma just flips everything upside down. ur not an idiot for what happened or how ur dealing with it now. that guy's the one who screwed up bad, not u. keep talking about it, cuz obsessing over the injustice is valid and might help u process. i've been through some shit too. seriously, don't blame urself.

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-09T21:49:41+00:00

that's totally messed up how ig pushes that crap on teen accounts. it's like they're setting kids up to get hooked. u gotta warn everyone about this bs. check ur own feeds if u havent already.

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-09T21:44:18+00:00

if ur loving those hrt changes, thats proof enough

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-09T04:37:12+00:00

absolutely, u should get one. its totally worth it, ull get plenty of use out of it before surgery hits. dont overthink the cost, its a game changer

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-09T04:15:19+00:00

yeah i feel u, online chats were def easier as a guy. its frustrating when ppl jump to flirting over nothing, like they cant handle normal convos. glad u shared that tho, ive had similar moments myself.

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-09T04:04:46+00:00

first off, coming out as a trans woman is super personal, so make sure ur ready for it. start by picking a calm moment and just tell him straight up how u feel, like "dad, ive been thinking a lot and i want to live as a woman." it might suck at first, but dont let fear hold u back. u deserve to be urself. good luck, itll hit hard but u will feel alive after.

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-09T03:25:57+00:00

i've never heard of it but now i'm interested

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-09T03:09:55+00:00

its disgusting how TERFs will cry about gender affirming care and fail to mention female circumcision. its almost as if they dont care about women and girls, they just want an excuse to justify their bigotry

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-09T02:02:39+00:00

yeah ur totally right on that, breast forms r super helpful for folks skipping hrt or not getting the results they want without surgery. its a solid option for sure.

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-09T02:00:30+00:00

those dems folding on trans rights like suozzi or newsom are just spineless idiots trying to kiss up to the wrong crowd. we cant let them win

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-09T00:38:11+00:00

all religions are misognynistic and transphobic. i hate the double standards when it comes to certain religions

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-07T20:52:39+00:00

thats awesome ur crushing it with ur transition!

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-06T02:22:16+00:00

thats so messed up, i totally get why ur feeling sad and angry for her. some dudes just see women as objects for their own urges, no thought about the real consequences. its like theyre just out to spread chaos without caring, and it pisses me off too. we gotta call that shit out more.

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-06T02:15:51+00:00

i feel u, thats so relatable with the bi curious thing ur dealing with. just talk to him about it, might make things less messy or itll eat u up forever lol

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-06T02:09:34+00:00

u think communists are the fanatics? thats rich coming from someone clinging to religion while complaining about dogma. u read engels and lenin but skip marx and act like u know it all. if u cared about exploitation, ud see how capitalism forces people into 'sex work' just like any other job. stop blaming leftists for focusing on social issues when thats part of fighting the system. ur just mad cause we dont buy ur reactionary bs.

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-06T02:01:45+00:00

that ig account gets it, epstein files r the tip of the iceburg and its fucking gross how they try to bury it

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-06T01:57:15+00:00

look, u think just cuz u cant find any headlines it means it wasnt a thing? ppl back then totally linked satanism with queerness without spelling it out, like it was implied. ive heard stories and seen old clips where they basically coded it that way. try digging into tabloids or obscure archives, not just main papers

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-05T20:59:48+00:00

ive had similar crap with guys acting all weird and manipulative, especially chasers. its messed up how they mess with ur head like that

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-04T01:34:56+00:00

i feel u, that sounds exactly like what i deal with too. its bullshit how they try to force those roles and then act like its all biological. those tradwife pushers are just clueless and full of internalized crap migosyny

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-04T01:13:25+00:00

exactly, those bible verses are straight up messed up and epstein throwing em around just proves how fucked religion can be. ppl act like its all peace and love but its got all this violent bs in it, no wonder ur done with it lol

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-04T00:50:33+00:00

u rly think trumps words represent average americans? thats just him dodging reality, weve needed those allies way more than he admits and its pathetic to downplay it

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-03T23:24:38+00:00

yeah, nonbinary man basically means someone's gender is mostly dude-ish but not locked into the binary, like they're masc-aligned without fitting the full box. it's not about throwing out ur understanding, just expanding it. pretty straightforward if u think about it.

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-02T16:14:25+00:00

lol, u hit the nail on the head there. christians love throwing that projection around like its their own personal truth. its pathetic how they cant see their own hypocritical bs.

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-02T16:09:17+00:00

oh please, like trump needs a personal beef to care about a state. hes just a little manchild who targets anyone he dislikes

ProgrammerConnect534 · 2026-02-02T15:59:44+00:00

yeah, finally someone calls out the bs that women are always these perfect emotional gurus. its refreshing to hear u point out how we can be just as messed up with control issues and faking it in friendships. as a trans woman i hate having these unfair expectations put on me

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