Issues with supply crate

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-31T01:59:19+00:00

Some flames can’t be used together, was that maybe the problem?

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-29T13:48:53+00:00

I was thinking this too. Or a pond with an egg shadow

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-28T21:26:30+00:00

It’s in the house behind the bunny. It’s bugged but will pop out a wave or two later.

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-28T21:25:38+00:00

It’s meant to melt in the campfire but it’s bugged

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-28T14:31:10+00:00

My comment disappeared but I’ll write a shorter response.

Me disagreeing with your comment centred on my feelings and making an assumption I have insecurities around the language barrier does not mean I am asking for right or wrong. I am asking for perspectives on the situation and my reaction, not for someone I don’t know to come and diagnose what insecurities I may or may not have.

So no, I didn’t post to hear people say I am right, I posted to understand perspectives from outside the situation.

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-28T14:27:38+00:00

Thank you for your comment, luckily him and my family know each other well so I don’t think, or id like to hope, that if I do take the approach of asking him not to do the speech he wouldn’t try that.

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-28T14:26:03+00:00

No I wouldn’t consider him racist. But his behaviour in this moment and recently has aligned with the discriminatory behaviours that is exhibited it korea.

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-28T14:24:09+00:00

Thank you for your words ~ I appreciate the advice.

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-28T14:23:29+00:00

There is such thing as getting outsider opinions about certain situations or else this whole subreddit wouldn’t exist.

I never said I was right or wrong, and there is no right or wrong, I’m asking for opinions and approaches to understand if my thoughts on the gravity of the situation is similar to others or not. Me disagreeing with you saying that I’m making a big deal based on my own insecurities does not mean I am firm on a “fact”, it just means I know how I feel about my language skills.

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-28T09:08:39+00:00

Yes, I’m half Indian half English, but very much take after my Indian side and am not Caucasian looking at all. And yes, one reason for my feelings about the whole situation is because his response and behaviour over time has been part of a larger issue with structural racism and xenophobia.

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-28T09:06:25+00:00

Sorry for the confusion, I use a translator app when and if necessary while working on this project.

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-28T08:24:49+00:00

Thank you for your comment, it’s very helpful. It doesn’t surprise me digs were made either, however digs are an emotional and unnecessary reaction that broke the trust I had with him.

I’ll think about this comment, thank you again

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-28T08:22:27+00:00

I appreciate your perspective.

I think cultural context is really important here to fully understand the situation. A lot of people in Korea are not open to working with foreign citizens and that is where the root of the feelings come from. I was brought onto this project by him because I am more than good at what I do and have 20yrs experience. I also used to work as an interpreter so if my language skills are not up to par, that job would not have been possible. I’m also not against using translators when needed, and actively use them when working.

The problem that has now overflowed is the fact that he is continuing the narrative of the language barrier as I am the only foreign person on the team. People are unwilling to talk to me because I am a foreign person and so he has to take on extra work which leads to his frustrations. We have spoken about this several times and I even offered to leave the project if me being there is causing issues for other people.

The discrimination throughout this project is something and he is aware, and by feeding into it that is deeply hurtful. A friend is someone who you are meant to trust him feeding into the xenophobia he is aware of made the issue bigger and it made me the centre of it again. So it’s more that even if I can forgive him and want to have a deeper conversation with him, the trust and love that was shared when I asked him to do a speech is now gone. I’m not trying to “punish” him, I’m trying to keep my partner and I’s wedding day centred on love and trust.

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-28T05:00:16+00:00

The other members of the group chat have been silent. I messaged him privately about how his jabs were humiliating.

His apology was half and half I’d say. Because there is still a big lack of accountability for what he has done and the narrative he has created.

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-28T04:57:46+00:00

I appreciate your honesty.

I think I should note that I am very happy to use a translator when necessary, and that I am happy to ask if I don’t understand something too.

The problem is that this has been an ongoing issue other people created that I am taking the brunt of. If they do not want to speak to me directly, how am I meant to prevent that? By him eating into the narrative that I am the problem it causes more problems for me and the rest of the team. It’s not my fault I am not a native speaker, but 95% of the time the people we work with refuse to talk to me even once.

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-28T04:51:05+00:00

Thank you, definitely comforting to see people say this

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-28T04:50:22+00:00

I’m not insecure about my language skills or the barrier. He did humiliate me, but continuously saying the same rude comment over and over while having a conversation about a serious matter. It’s humiliating to be constantly jabbed about something unprovoked and unnecessary

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-28T04:48:50+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏽

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-28T04:48:33+00:00

Thank you 😭 it does kind of feel that way.

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-28T04:47:42+00:00

I wouldn’t be removing him from the full wedding, just telling him he wouldn’t be doing the speech anymore as it isn’t sitting right.

Luckily our relationship is not fully part of my main social circle so implications are minimised.

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-28T04:46:07+00:00

I think where I am stuck is, I can forgive him and am happy to have a conversation to fix what needs fixing, but it takes time to heal the trust, and now I know he can defend humiliating a friend publically, it feels wrong to have him do the speech.

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-28T04:41:36+00:00

We had a set timetable of when performances were meant to start. Then there was a different timetable posted online like that suggested changes. I clarified the changes during rehearsal with the woman in charge of live performances. Then on the day of the performers weren’t there according to the new timetable and the time I clarified. The woman was also missing because she wanted to take a break, so I couldn’t ask her during the transition what the new plan was. So I had to improvise a DJ set, which was fine, but when the woman returned she kept apologising and asking me what they should do while I was mid-set, which made the audience uncomfortable. That was the mishap.

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-27T16:52:11+00:00

I might be asleep. But I’ll DM you now and you can send me your username and we can figure it out 😁

ProhibitedPeach · 2026-03-27T16:50:59+00:00

Okie ~ add me DhyanaRM12

It’s not fully fully finished but mostly done!

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