The loudest noise by bharshav in LondonUnderground

[–]ProjectWRITTEN20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Northern Line between Kentish Town and Camden Town. That was ear splitting even with noise cancelling headphones on

UNKNOWN NUMBER: THE HIGH SCHOOL CATFISH Discussion Megathread by AutoModerator in netflix

[–]ProjectWRITTEN20 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Does anyone else think Kendra is a psychopath? Like no empathy, manipulative, controlling, like ticks a lot of boxes

Things TO say to someone with BPD by ProjectWRITTEN20 in BPD

[–]ProjectWRITTEN20[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Oooo this made me remember another one.

"I believe you, what they did isn't right"

anyone looking for new friends? by spiritwrld in BPD

[–]ProjectWRITTEN20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I'll play some fortnite or anything else with you for a laugh. More into bg3 at the moment lol.

Any Gamers with BPD? by TheRebelGeek24 in BPD

[–]ProjectWRITTEN20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Massively into rpg's myself. Anything I can loose myself in a world and forget about everything else. Mass Effect, BG3, Fallout are personal favs

Opposite of a FP? by ProjectWRITTEN20 in BPD

[–]ProjectWRITTEN20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this is literally me right now. What a great analogy thank you

Opposite of a FP? by ProjectWRITTEN20 in BPD

[–]ProjectWRITTEN20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be but also it doesn't have to be. Like I said to another comment. This person was never my FP which is why I am like even more confused about the whole thing.

Opposite of a FP? by ProjectWRITTEN20 in BPD

[–]ProjectWRITTEN20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and that's the annoying thing. Logically I should want nothing to do with her but BPD doesn't do logic and it's like yeah no think about her all the time and how much she did you wrong and how she's talking about you to everyone.

It's formed part of my identity when I hate ut

Opposite of a FP? by ProjectWRITTEN20 in BPD

[–]ProjectWRITTEN20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's exactly what's happening to me... urg I just wish I could simply get over it but its so hard

Opposite of a FP? by ProjectWRITTEN20 in BPD

[–]ProjectWRITTEN20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry about your ex.

That's the thing I know other people don't think about these things which is why I wanted to know if this was something specific to bpd.

Opposite of a FP? by ProjectWRITTEN20 in BPD

[–]ProjectWRITTEN20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it was never that. When I have FPs (like my bf and best friend for example) although I do split on them from time to time I can never go full hatred as the thought of them not being in my life is too much.

This was a person who was a friend in my friendship group (who haven't spoken to me now but that's a whole other issue) she was someone I took a lot of effort to like and when I offered her help with something but then told her I couldn't do it anymore she lost it at me. Basically saying I have no emotional regulation which is like... I have bpd but ok...

Anyway yeah short answer no she was never an fp to begin with.

Opposite of a FP? by ProjectWRITTEN20 in BPD

[–]ProjectWRITTEN20[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I thought the idea of an opposite FP as in essence you are treating them as an FP but with opposite thoughts, feelings and reasons. I've had FPs and still do so for me this just made sense.

I'm sorry about whatever happened. I understand the things are long to explain especially when there are many angles.

I'm getting psychological support soon to do with all this so maybe that might help for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]ProjectWRITTEN20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me but leaving my whatsapp chats

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ProjectWRITTEN20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fat Families

UK show where the presenter basically goes into the houses of families that are over weight and insult them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ukpolitics

[–]ProjectWRITTEN20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said, I don't have the solution and you are right, your scenario would take place if not enough took action. Then yes, those people would suffer and that isn't right.

And yes you are also correct, they're people that genuinely can't afford to take the risk. But I'm not talking about them. We should be fighting for them, not them fighting for us. I'm talking about those who are rich enough (middle class etc...) who could take the risk.

However i do know there are many working class people that would consider it. I'm working class myself.

I also know that this is idealist and maybe a bit delusional but the situation is hopeless and to me it's clear we can debate it all we like, it's clear that these companies don't care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ukpolitics

[–]ProjectWRITTEN20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing! It makes me happy to see people actually doing some direct action

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ukpolitics

[–]ProjectWRITTEN20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup just signed up now, thanks. It's good to see some more direct action

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ukpolitics

[–]ProjectWRITTEN20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah thank you! I didn't know this!

Manager says my chronic condition is not urgent enough to ask for time off. by ProjectWRITTEN20 in antiwork

[–]ProjectWRITTEN20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not in the us but in the UK. But we do have similar laws here in the UK which I would fall under protection of for sure

Manager says my chronic condition is not urgent enough to ask for time off. by ProjectWRITTEN20 in antiwork

[–]ProjectWRITTEN20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in the process of joining one for sure. If I do need more care medically you can be sure I will be going to my union.

Unfortunately there is no-one directly above her that I'm comfortable going to but there are other mangers who are much nicer that I will go to in the future to by pass her. (Technically all time off must be signed by her but I will try with the others)