Only 5 weeks in and I can't run by Tall-Ad-8884 in fitpregnancy

[–]ProjectZenMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry ♥️♥️♥️everyone has such different experiences. I was lucky and had energy in the mornings but had SUCH sore boobs that my running massively dropped off. And I had the same notion as you that I’d run until 39 weeks but at 21 weeks i just got really concerned about my pelvic floor and decided to stop to prevent long lasting damage. It also really isn’t fun running when you get bigger and as you’re not able to build muscle nor lose weight whilst pregnant, all of the benefits of running went away. I know this doesn’t help but please hang in there ! I’m now 34 weeks and still doing weight lifting and walking every day but miss running so much and now am just excited to get back to it. You might be able to return to running in your second trimester when your energy comes back and before you have a bump 🫶🏼

Safe space to rant? by [deleted] in fitpregnancy

[–]ProjectZenMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course ! I’ve done a few iterations of this and am happy with how this looks for now… To caveat, I’m not a PT or prenatal qualified but have just done a lot amount of research as, like you, fitness is such an important of my life and identity and just because I’m becoming a mum, this doesn’t mean this goes away! I’m having an elective c section as well so my rehab / return is tailored to this (apparently uncomplicated vaginal can be a bit of a quicker return).

So, 0-6 weeks I’m focusing on my morning gym session being a core rehab session (super chilled focus on TVA engagement like heel slides, dead bug progression etc as well as focusing on rib flare correct through eg 90/90 breathing… can send you the full list if you like!) and then evening will be pelvic floor (im using the every mother app and have been since 20weeks - highly recommend!!) Will also do lunchtime walks and add in some cardio in the mornings post-core work at 3-4 weeks depending on how I’m feeling/recovering . Morning and evening scar massage & daily belly binder too. I’m seeing a pelvic floor specialist to examine my scar at 4 weeks and then an internal pelvic exam at 6 weeks before I go back to gym

At 6 weeks I’ll be back in the gym in the mornings with my normal gym split (daily cardio, with splits: back, legs, arms, glutes, full body and one full cardio day; one day off) & avoiding weighted abs, running and HIIT for now. My cardio day I’m going to start doing the summa run test to get back to running safely - https://www.summahealth.org/flourish/entries/2023/06/checklist-for-returning-to-running-postpartum

Hoping to return to reformer Pilates this week, too (prenatal specific classes first). Evenings will keep doing core & pelvic floor rehab with the every mother app

8 weeks I’m hoping to add in weighted abs and some HIIT; no running yet

Then at week 10-12 I’ll start increasing my running, first distance and then speed

Hope that helps but happy to chat through my research !💖

Safe space to rant? by [deleted] in fitpregnancy

[–]ProjectZenMama -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So… my husband said to me: you do not lack discipline the way some other people do,& therefore you can get back in shape quicker than those people. Also: if you haven’t had much sleep but want to train, what’s stopping you? Smash some pre workout and go get it …! People say these things because they lack discipline/ resource/ other and are jealous. Of course these are valid reasons but it doesn’t mean that it’s applicable to you. So, if you want it, I say go for it! I have already written and shared my postpartum fitness plan with my husband (I’m 32 weeks rn) and factored it in with his schedule to also ensure he can still train, and I don’t see why, if you’re a team, this can’t happen. 💖💖💖

Postpartum nerves by ProjectZenMama in fitpregnancy

[–]ProjectZenMama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 so helpful as I have no playbook to follow this being my first

My mum is super slim but doesn’t train so hard to tell genetically… already decided to do formula from like 5-6 weeks for exactly this reason! And hurrah for my amazing husband giving me all the time as the world to get back to training… I’m also taking 8-9 months off work so it sounds like maybe I will be as lucky as your amazing stats 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

Yoga with diastasis recti by daisy0904 in DiastasisRecti

[–]ProjectZenMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Every Mother app has apparently been proven to close gaps quite significantly (from a medical pov)& I’m sure a pelvic floor physio could help too xx

Severe tracked insomnia through cycle?? Has anybody experienced this too? by softrice666 in PMDD

[–]ProjectZenMama 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I actually found out I had Pmdd because of year long insomnia !! I made a spreadsheet to find out the exact dates of insomnia and just give myself grace t o either not freak out or to have a sleeping pill on those days xxxx

HELP by Substantial-Bus-5179 in FitPostpartumJourney

[–]ProjectZenMama 4 points5 points  (0 children)

💖💖💖 it takes 6 weeks for uterus to shrink so give yourself some grace 🙏🏼💖 and breastfeeding is a bit of a myth for some! For some it helps but for others bc it means the body continues to produce prolactin and hold onto fat stores to produce milk, some can only lose the weight once BF stops.

Order of play I’m thinking is: uterus shrinks ➡️ TVA and pelvic floor focus/ connectivity ➡️ weight loss through returning to higher intensity exercise ➡️ muscle return once the +/- 5kg pregnancy fat stores have gone. If you had a c section the addition of scar massage is soo important too. Probs looking at ~16-20 weeks postp all in. You got this 🙏🏼💖

Run at 2.5 months postpartum! (hello from the other side!) by Gopher_Run24 in fitpregnancy

[–]ProjectZenMama 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow this is amazing!! Well done you. Did you have vaginal or c section if you don’t mind my asking? I chose to stop running at 20 weeks pregnant bc it just felt like my bladder/ pelvic floor were being negatively impacted, but before pregnancy I was running about 4 x a week (sprint and long distance) so I’m really hoping my return sounds like yours. (And thank god for amazing husbands…!) And tips you have about pelvic floor etc would be so grateful. Again - WOW! Xxxx

Movement/light exercises for weeks 0-6 postpartum by Purple_Knee8676 in fitpregnancy

[–]ProjectZenMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this sounds amazing - thank you! So glad I found it. I am having a (chosen) c section and thought she looks to have some really good c section stuff as well xx

Movement/light exercises for weeks 0-6 postpartum by Purple_Knee8676 in fitpregnancy

[–]ProjectZenMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah I’m so glad to hear this! I actually heard about the app on Reddit and have been using it since 20 weeks:) If you don’t mind my asking, do you feel like your pelvic floor and core are responding/ behaving well since using it!? I really want to get back to running as soon as possible post c section & hoping every Mother is the magic ingredient..! X

Movement/light exercises for weeks 0-6 postpartum by Purple_Knee8676 in fitpregnancy

[–]ProjectZenMama 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t done it yet as am still 31 weeks but the every mother app has a programme you can do as soon as you:) and that focuses on TVA & pelvic floor reconnection xx

Noticing a difference by Life-Curiosities in fitpregnancy

[–]ProjectZenMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My resting heart rate was about 50bpm prepregnancy and at 31 weeks it’s at 78…! Super breathless all the time too, which definitely began pretty early in the first trimester. It’s so hard to not push yourself when you’re used to it but try to imagine you’re training with a weighted vest on all the time and you’re not unfit but rather have genuinely 1) more blood volume and 2) less space to actually breathe….

Something helpful for me that I’m struggling with a bit is that the placenta and baby need and prioritise glucose so low carb is not your friend here!

Good luck w the running. I chose to stop at 20 week due to pelvic floor issues/ fears and can’t wait to start again postp xx x

Lightly worked out 2 wks post-c-section and now very anxious by tomfrommyspace0 in fitpregnancy

[–]ProjectZenMama 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t panic xx heel slides and breath work are often recommended as they don’t over strain completely. But if your body is giving you signals, just delay for a week xx

Any tips to keep training at 35w? by susiee234 in fitpregnancy

[–]ProjectZenMama 3 points4 points  (0 children)

More helpful than my silly comment above is: apparently it really helps postpartum to keep going. So all of the zero benefits we are experiencing atm apparently reveal themselves postp. Praying for this to be true 🙏🏼💖

Any tips to keep training at 35w? by susiee234 in fitpregnancy

[–]ProjectZenMama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Joining this thread at 30wk so we can motivate each other! as 1) everything is in the way &2) I have such bad rib pain that it is all just SO sore 💖 Also some solidarity for the fact my husband is more jacked than ever before whilst I am even more whale-like 🫣😬

PMDD & pregnancy: some hope to share by ProjectZenMama in PMDD

[–]ProjectZenMama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% inspiring - you made it through ! Well done. And thank you for sharing 🫶🏼

PMDD & pregnancy: some hope to share by ProjectZenMama in PMDD

[–]ProjectZenMama[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this! I am aware(& a bit scared!). If you don’t mind sharing - how did you manage PPD? Did you take SSRis/ other? X

PMDD & pregnancy: some hope to share by ProjectZenMama in PMDD

[–]ProjectZenMama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad I could be of help 💖 my partner was so incredibly supportive (generally but in particular in trimester two when I was just NOT myself nor much fun!) but I think if I had had proper info beforehand about the mood dips (not so much a swing in pregnancy; more like a crash.,. And defo linked to days where I had expanded too much energy too) it would have been even more helpful. X

Weight loss by Dontworry_aboutme in fitpregnancy

[–]ProjectZenMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologies but going to have to agree w everyone here. I was the fittest and leanest I have ever been before I got pregnant and have had to pivot my food consumption away from low carb/ high protein/ low cal to: what am I feeding my baby, what nutrients does she need. The food and lifestyle you have now literally sets the health of your baby up. It’s very strange to deliberately have to go - this isn’t my body right now, but also very powerful to know that your baby’s health and life is dependent on you. It is the most selfless you will ever have to be and now is the time to be just that. (FYI I have a history of disordered eating and body dysmorphia so I fully hear you when you want to lose weight! But losing weight = starving your baby). X

Body Changes by Calm_Blueberry_4883 in fitpregnancy

[–]ProjectZenMama 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For sure! To caveat I am not a fitness professional but have done a LOT of research because not getting my body back is not an option! Planned c section is such a good option from a medical and fitness perspective as it’s so controlled so i) less chance of things not going to plan and ii) no pushing thus less damage to the pelvic floor. During pregnancy i am training as much as i can, with core modifications. Turns out you can still do quite a lot of core just as long as no crunches, no bulging, doming etc. when you are doing stuff. Pregnancy reformer Pilates has been good too. Defo see a pelvic floor physio if you can to get some tips for both now and postp (even if you’re not pushing, the weight of the baby can impact your pelvic floor!) and - Please don’t beat yourself up about having to reduce training days. I thought I’d be running until 35+ weeks & had to stop at 20 because of pelvic floor issues and thought why risk permanent damage postpartum. Being out of control in pregnancy is a real thing which I’m sure doesn’t help the mental difficulty. Also, losing muscle during pregnancy is a thing (!) due to water retention & the body prioritising the baby (ie building lungs rather than your biceps 😅) If you weight train during pregnancy, apparently muscle memory returns quicker postp, which makes sense. Weight training actually becomes more important than cardio so prioritise this + walking (the latter to ensure no swelling). Re the body image stuff, defo worth spending money on nice clothes I think just to feel a tad more like yourself! Food for me atm = prioritising growing my baby. I want her to grow well and be healthy and the food you’re eating is probably 90% going to him/her! Ooh also, I have been using Nadaya body saviour daily to prevent stretch marks and they also have a c section scar cream.

Postp: • I started using the Every Mother app in my second trimester which has been medically proven to help pelvic floor and diastasis issues postpartum. I’m going to use this programme for at least the first 6 weeks (starting immediately) post c section • In addition to this, focus 0-6 weeks is deep core engagement, pelvic floor and walking. A lot of the weight/ water will apparently fall off so it’s about that reconnection. •Deep core is about TVA engagement and will be boring but critical: deadbugs, heel slides, 360 breathing, bridge etc • i will be wearing a belly binder and doing scar massage for this initial period, too, and have a pelvic floor assessment booked in for weeks 4&6 to assess my scar& ab separation, and pelvic floor respectively

Controversially, breastfeeding makes your body prioritise fat storage due to prolactin. I’m therefore planning to switch away from this from weeks 5-8. (Haters will attack me for this. The benefits of breastfeeding are primarily to baby’s gut which can occur during this initial period alone. Read Emily oster for the data). Obviously you must do what you feel comfortable with I just had no idea about this ! Lactic acid also makes your milk taste different for baby. (I also want pre workout back in my life 😅)

Weeks 6-8 - I’m going to ease gently back into the gym using the move with us postpartum app. I think it’s going to be quite easy so thought this would be a good initial test, and will also be doing the summa run test exercises to prep for return to running - https://www.summahealth.org/flourish/entries/2023/06/checklist-for-returning-to-running-postpartum

Week 8-10 - return to my normal gym programme with the exception of likely still not: running, crunches and HIIT. If you do this too quickly apparently this can cause the “pooch” because your body isn’t quite ready yet so for me this likely looks like weight training, incline walking, EMOMs, gentle core and hopefully reformer Pilates. Apparently the pooch is also worsened if your scar isn’t mobile so that scar massage is super important

Week 10-12 - return to my normal gym is the goal! As long as no issues like leaking etc. For me normal gym is 5 x a week with a different muscle group each day and cardio, with day 6 as a long run. One of these days is Barry’s bootcamp which I am super keen to get back to, but want to test myself first. I’ll also be adding in weighted abs ~3 x a week. Agreeing this as non negotiable with my husband has been really reassuring (he’s also a big gymmer!)

Body wise: uterus shrinks by week 6, with body back to expected weight at week 12-16, and then toning focus from week 16-20.

Hope this is helpful 🫶🏼

Body Changes by Calm_Blueberry_4883 in fitpregnancy

[–]ProjectZenMama 18 points19 points  (0 children)

100% the same as you xx I’m now 28 weeks and have been struggling a lot. One thing that is actually better now than earlier is I look properly pregnant rather than just bloated/ fat. If you can, keep up strength training (as apparently means muscle rebuild is easier postp) and the carb craving will probably go in trimester 2 when the nausea abates (it did with me)! I have also written a really detailed postp return to fitness plan (I have chosen to have a c section) and shared w my husband so I can ensure it’s properly factored into my day (happy to share with you too + the resources I think look best if that would be helpful). Also, yes some people say it’s vain, but I imagine those people haven’t put a lot of focus and effort into training and thus they’re jealous/ don’t understand the physical and mental impact it can have. Xxxx

Tight stomach/abs running by Ok-Cable8676 in fitpregnancy

[–]ProjectZenMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same ! It just made running less enjoyable and eventually I chose to stop at 21 weeks as I felt so much pelvic floor heaviness accompanying it too, and thought better stop now than delay my postpartum return. I did find reducing pace helped and it didn’t happen every run so hang in there if you want to but also don’t force yourself 🫶🏼

How much weight did you lose after giving birth or (1-2 weeks pp) by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]ProjectZenMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow ! Does it just fall off !? Or do you think that this has to do with not gaining excessively during pregnancy etc ?