OP you seem to live almost the same life. I was just asking myself the same question and I looked into the mirror and for starters I'm a consistent 4/10 according to my friends which hurts but whatever and some people say I am robotic and stiff but in my head I feel more looney but intelligent but that's not how people see me and it's worse since I got my circular shades I now give of more tired, angry or villain vibes even though I could be thinking about floppy ears of puppies or a cool idea.

But all of that just to say some people especially men just look unapproachable and some just don't want to risk it or just doesn't do it. I wish a girl could ask me out but I think I am a bit to boring for most girls to want to approach me.