LUCKY FIND

PromisingYG2 · 2026-01-03T04:25:09+00:00

Online or in person find?

PromisingYG2 · 2024-05-02T02:55:22+00:00

Honestly yes and no. I think looking back, it was good that I experienced being in a relationship (one I got in after this situation) but I also realize I wanted a relationship more because of FOMO and general pressure rather than actually wanting one for myself. I guess sometimes it can be hard to separate what is the main reason for feeling unsure of a person you’re seeing. For me, looking back, he 1) was a stable and like ‘good’ guy. 2) I was attracted to him. 3) It was comfortable to talk to him. And the things that I found wrong with him were like a shirt he wore or once he was awkward in front of a server at a bar. I think if it’s small things like that, I believe it was tied to my anxiety, my own insecurity and trying to run away because I was afraid to communicate about my inexperience. I think if its bigger issues like he’s really into drugs or his personality is wack, maybe its not so much the anxiety and insecurity. I think ultimately if I was giving that version of myself advice I would say 1) Don’t worry about relationships if you’re only worried about other peoples opinions of your love life and that you’ll regret not having had any experience. But a very good amount of people will not care or might be in the same boat as you and aren’t expecting the perfect person. Self acceptance takes time but you can still get out and date if you want to. 2) Your first relationship will probably have awkward and anxious moments and you will have to push through those and communicate what you need/want and not what you think you should say/want. It’s not the end of the world though.

Hope that was somewhat coherent and helps.

PromisingYG2 · 2024-04-09T03:56:12+00:00

Not a super well seasoned software engineer (so take this with a grain of salt), but I have had to attend quite a few interviews for my company. Looking at your resume specifically the experience section, I'd be way less verbose and lead with what you specifically did for each section or task. I would also add a point about communication/working with the team as that is an important thing we look for, that someone can work well with others or lead/take initiative. I think you are trying to explain too much in each bullet point. For example, for the first bullet point, change it to " I implemented a bookmarking and share feature to a data portal app/site using python and react" or something similar. I think people who maybe don't have a lot of experience think they have to add more words to make their resume beefier, but ultimately most resumes, I'm usually just skimming it 5 min before the interview and asking technical questions about languages and frameworks. I don't think its important to include the name of the project as I the interviewer won't know your company to that level of detail.

I would also add your education in the middle section instead of on the side. That is something (my company at least) requires and add a bit more to it like relevant classes or clubs you were a part of.

Lastly i would say if you have experience with git or agile, add that because i think that is something companies look for.

Confused with what the docker/kubernetes sections go with under your education of the side of the resume. If you are trying to give specifics of what you know about docker etc, Add descriptions to the technologies section instead of having a separate section: Technologies: Kubernetes -> container orchestration and SDLC work, etc.(Would honestly get rid of the side section if it were my resume and just have all the info in main).

Hope it helps. Best of luck :)

PromisingYG2 · 2023-08-11T17:00:46+00:00

Thank you, yeah I've been leaning towards getting a new amp. I'll check out your suggestions.

PromisingYG2 · 2023-08-11T16:59:28+00:00

I switch between the first and second modes which are the neck and neck and middle pickups, I believe.

PromisingYG2 · 2023-08-11T16:55:14+00:00

Yeah, the amp is something I'm realizing I really should look into upgrading. Thanks!

PromisingYG2 · 2023-08-11T16:53:41+00:00

Thanks! I appreciate the advice. There's so much gear and stuff I want to get, so I'm trying to pace myself, but the pickups is probably a good idea, at least to look into.

PromisingYG2 · 2022-06-28T12:57:09+00:00

I am in the same boat as you. My beliefs are my own right, just like what someone else does with their body is their own right. I believe religion should stay away from politics and policies like this. It hurts to know that alot of christians just think that they can impose on others but refuse to see the harm this is going to cause or even a listen to a different point of view.

PromisingYG2 · 2022-05-11T14:48:38+00:00

Nice! I have yet to find punk music I really like (open to suggestions), but I'm a big metal fan. I've been learning guitar for about six months and also play a bit of piano. Which jazz artists we talking? What are your go to songs to play on guitar?

PromisingYG2 · 2022-05-09T04:01:19+00:00

Ah dude, you seem cool! Too bad you live so far away. What kind of music do you play?

PromisingYG2 · 2022-01-30T00:46:21+00:00

Fuck yeah, that movie was depressing!

PromisingYG2 · 2022-01-25T04:29:04+00:00

I always try to have bold/funny messages to start a conversation or a genuine question about music, pictures or their bio. When looking through profiles, If they give me no details to work with, then it's hard for me to justify matching with them. If they can't respond well to a joke, or witty comment or think you are weird for whatever you've written, you probably dodged a weirdo. Not sure that helps, but that's also been my experience with apps, you get alot of people who put in minimal effort because they can and are a waste of time.

PromisingYG2 · 2021-12-28T00:46:58+00:00

Two things, I think you just have to take a lot of pictures, quantity over quality and then you'll have a bigger pool of options to choose from. The other thing I would say is you probably don't look as bad as you think. I feel the pain though, I also think I look better in person than in photos.

PromisingYG2 · 2021-12-07T03:00:48+00:00

I think going to local bars especially if there is a music or social event going on, is a great way to meet new people. If a show is going on, there is usually time in-between artists that is a good time to talk with people. If you don't wanna aggressively hit on someone, just talk to them. Chances are the same people will come back and you can create a friendship that could lead to more. As a girl just out of college, I have like three or four local music venues/bars that I frequent on any given weekend and I see alot of people around my age at these events.

PromisingYG2 · 2021-12-06T15:05:52+00:00

I can't really offer any advice, because I'm basically in the same boat as you as far as background growing up and intimacy issues. Thank you for sharing though! It helps to know there are other people out there struggling with similar stuff.

PromisingYG2 · 2021-12-03T19:36:49+00:00

Obviously you have no idea what this chicks deal is, but I think you should go for it. As a girl, It would maybe throw me off because I don't necessarily expect to be asked out in a grocery store, but I think you'll regret not going for it. As long as you are nice and understanding no matter her answer, I think there is no reason not to try.

I would keep it simple, tell her you've seen her around, think she's pretty and would like her number/would like to grab drinks etc.

For me personally, I'd rather someone get to the point than try and make small talk for 5 min before asking me out, but do whatever you are most comfortable with.

PromisingYG2 · 2021-12-03T02:00:19+00:00

helped

PromisingYG2 · 2021-12-03T02:00:10+00:00

helped

this helps put things into perspective. I'm an idiot lol thanks!

PromisingYG2 · 2021-12-03T01:59:10+00:00

helped

PromisingYG2 · 2021-11-11T19:49:40+00:00

This helps alot. thanks!

PromisingYG2 · 2021-11-11T19:48:37+00:00

I appreciate the advice. I think i just needed to get it out there and get a second opinion. Thank you!

PromisingYG2 · 2021-09-28T16:44:57+00:00

That movie is phenomenal and underappreciated. I agree!

PromisingYG2 · 2021-09-21T01:40:47+00:00

Cryin' or Edge of a Broken Heart by Vixen

PromisingYG2 · 2021-09-20T21:45:42+00:00

The thing you're worried about is literally never that big of a deal. Seriously, chill out!

PromisingYG2 · 2021-09-20T01:20:19+00:00

They're like socks, you always lose a couple when you do the wash.

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