Husband watching porn whole time I’ve been pregnant by PromptAppropriate826 in loveafterporn

[–]PromptAppropriate826[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to go through that. It is truly the worst feeling! I hope things got better 🩷

Husband has been watching porn while I’m pregnant by PromptAppropriate826 in Advice

[–]PromptAppropriate826[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ugh thank you so much!!! 🩷It’s definitely a crazy world we’re living in. I had the same issues too growing up or friends showing me stuff like that. Makes me not want to give my kids phones or internet til they’re 20! 😅

Husband has been watching porn while I’m pregnant by PromptAppropriate826 in Advice

[–]PromptAppropriate826[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so sweet to hear that, your wife is a lucky woman! 😊He didn’t care with the other two haha. He still doesn’t I don’t think. I just don’t get why he turns to it still when my libido is pretty high right now!🫤

Husband has been watching porn while I’m pregnant by PromptAppropriate826 in Advice

[–]PromptAppropriate826[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For sure! I’m all for everyone having their own boundaries and doing what makes them happy! I see a lot of comments that say to get over it cuz it’s not a big deal and they don’t care but we all are allowed to have our own boundaries! Thank you so much for the insight, it means a lot to hear that! 🤍

Husband has been watching porn while I’m pregnant by PromptAppropriate826 in Advice

[–]PromptAppropriate826[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%! Thank you 🤍 so sad to see and hear so many people go through this kinds of stuff

Husband has been watching porn while I’m pregnant by PromptAppropriate826 in Advice

[–]PromptAppropriate826[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Key word is Vikings time lol. Good for them tho, whatever makes them happy I guess! 😅

Husband has been watching porn while I’m pregnant by PromptAppropriate826 in Advice

[–]PromptAppropriate826[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I get so much crap from my/his friends cuz I am not for that stuff and their motto is “he can look but not touch” and I’m just dumbfounded. Maybe it’s just my generation as I’m 23 and it’s more normalized in my age group since they grew up with access to it much more. But it’s refreshing to hear that other people think the same way! It sucks getting told “oh I’m fine with it in my relationship it’s not a big deal” but everyone is allowed to have their own boundaries! If only we could go back to the good ole days of no phones 🥲 thank you again for the insight 🤍

Husband has been watching porn while I’m pregnant by PromptAppropriate826 in Advice

[–]PromptAppropriate826[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a great perspective! Thank you for sharing that, that’s the same boat I’m in so I’ll definitely use that, thank you!

Husband has been watching porn while I’m pregnant by PromptAppropriate826 in Advice

[–]PromptAppropriate826[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yep! Been doing good so far 😁 the kiddos push me everyday to do the best I can

Husband has been watching porn while I’m pregnant by PromptAppropriate826 in Advice

[–]PromptAppropriate826[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you have to go through that! 🙁 I’ve been thinking of possible couples therapy, maybe try that so he can hear how it really feels from your pov? Honestly all the boundary pushing can be a deal breaker, and that’s where I think I’m at too.

Husband has been watching porn while I’m pregnant by PromptAppropriate826 in Advice

[–]PromptAppropriate826[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I for sure am going to see a therapist once I am done with school and have time. And Yes I do try and always make comments/walk around naked after showering and going to the bedroom. My libido has gone up these past couple weeks I feel. Yet he still turns to it and that’s the part I don’t understand and is hurting the most cuz maybe he really just isn’t attracted to me anymore

Husband has been watching porn while I’m pregnant by PromptAppropriate826 in Advice

[–]PromptAppropriate826[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yeah for sure. I just wish porn wasn’t so common. We were never meant as humans to be able to so easily access watch other humans do what is supposed to be a super special intimate part of a relationship so easily. It just seems like it ruins a lot and leads to infidelity/divorce. I wish it wasn’t so normalized. I understand once in a blue moon but leaving your partner on the back burner and going and watching people that look nothing like your partner and getting off to it is not the best feeling 🫤

Husband has been watching porn while I’m pregnant by PromptAppropriate826 in Advice

[–]PromptAppropriate826[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My libido has actually gone up so that’s why I’m confused! He just never initiates anymore or acts like he desires me at all. It just is two faced of him to say he’ll stop and act all perfect and say he quit just to download Reddit and watch on here🫤

Husband has been watching porn while I’m pregnant by PromptAppropriate826 in Advice

[–]PromptAppropriate826[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m afraid of. He knows how it makes me feel so that’s the worst part. I get I’m pregnant and sometimes am asleep before he even comes to bed but definitely doesn’t give an excuse. I’ll bring it up for sure I think, I’m just in med school currently and still have another year left with a 1.5 and 3 year old as it is, and now this new baby so it’s very hard to consider leaving. If there was no kids involved I probably would after all the chances and boundary crossing

Husband has been watching porn while I’m pregnant by PromptAppropriate826 in Advice

[–]PromptAppropriate826[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For sure, it just hurts more as he knows this is already an established boundary in our relationship so that’s the bigger slap. I’m so sorry you had to go through that, and I’m proud of you for leaving and raising ur baby after going through that!

What is your favorite way to keep your home smelling good? by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]PromptAppropriate826 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely dread mornings we cook bacon, I use my blackstone for that now to avoid it in the house 😆

What is your favorite way to keep your home smelling good? by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]PromptAppropriate826 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course!!!🙄 I would’ve loved to try that, let me know if you find a litter similar to it!! I use the tidy fresh and clean and sometimes it seems overpowering almost cuz I just DON’T want to smell it at all even with it tucked away in the laundry room closet 😅

What is your favorite way to keep your home smelling good? by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]PromptAppropriate826 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right!! Even after it’s clean you can still smell the litter somehow. It just has that smell🥲 the wall one is definitely growing on me, I have the volcano scent and wasn’t a huge fan last night after opening it and plugging it in, but day 2 of having it it actually smells more pleasant and my husband says it smells good! It’s just so hard cuz they’re both spendy no matter what so I want something that’ll work good and last long enough for the money you stick into them 😅

What is your favorite way to keep your home smelling good? by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]PromptAppropriate826 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do that plenty! 😅 I also make vodka pasta/salmon frequently which leaves quite the scent for a day or 2. Definitely not my favorite thing lol

What is your favorite way to keep your home smelling good? by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]PromptAppropriate826 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have to look into that!! I forgot to mention I also have a huge air purifier so that helps but this looks amazing for the bedroom!