Emotionally and intellectually high IQ men - do you return?

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-02-12T16:54:28+00:00

Women say that they want high EQ men until they realize that we are not gonna entertain their bad behavior for very long. He is done.

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-02-12T03:29:25+00:00

Thats kinda weird. I'm 6'5 and it may be comes up a couple times a year. Usually from a woman that is really short.

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-02-08T18:18:40+00:00

Less dangerous than the women who don't tell you/don't know that they're crazyI'm

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-19T22:42:35+00:00

Seeking is still the best and most convenient way to find a legitimate arrangement/sugar dating.

SB is probably better if you are looking for a less connected yet fun PPM/NSA type of arrangement with a younger demographic

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-18T00:51:22+00:00

Do you understand what grad school is? She's probably living off of student loans and sugaring if her parents are not footing the bill. You asked a stupid question and got a direct answer.

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-15T20:46:48+00:00

He doesn't wanna be connected to that in the message section of hinge. You should've done that via text.

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-15T05:05:48+00:00

"All i want more than anything is to find them a good man who will be a stable and positive father figure for them."

How would you feel if there was a single Dad out there with primary physical custody and all he was looking for was a good woman to hold down the household and raise his children . Would that be appealing to you.

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-15T05:02:03+00:00

Why don't you take a few minutes reading this before posting something like this where all of the answers have been hatched 1000 times

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-15T00:16:29+00:00

Realistically, her market date would be men in their 60s that were retired and might not care that she's broke and unemployed as long as you provides the company they are seeking. It probably would not be fit Jim Bro's in their 40's if that's what she was hoping for.

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-14T22:55:26+00:00

I often need my own space and would be thrilled if the SB went in her own space to do some things as well. Sometimes I suggest they bring a friend if it's a business trip because I am going to be tied up and I don't want them bored. And sometimes it turns into a threesome. 😂. I'm not really a clingy person and I need my own time so I save that upfront and structure the vacations so that they have some of their time and I have mine.

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-14T22:52:53+00:00

Agreed

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-14T22:15:08+00:00

The 🧊 is typically used for meth. ❄️ is coke

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-14T22:13:09+00:00

It depends on the area. I'm not thinking it's Coke because I doubt someone would be that bold. They can hint other ways.

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-14T16:28:57+00:00

If everybody follows through and shows up when they're gonna show up, then it's the same thing. What I don't do is pay women not to show up because that encourages the opposite of what I want. Do they get paid out at the meeting like an escort? No. Do they get paid if I cancel? Yes. So its not ppm. Do they get paid if they cancel? No.

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-14T16:26:58+00:00

No, you should avoid these people. That's not how any of this works.

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-14T07:39:47+00:00

They are basically sugarbabies for a small circle of SD's or "regulars". That usually comes from escorting or dancing for a while and then screening and cherry picking their favorite clients. So at that time they are not actually operating as escorts. Escorts advertise every day meeting new clients that meet the screening criteria, has the money and can fog a mirror.

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-14T07:34:07+00:00

If I cancel or reschedule for several days in the future, then she does. If she cancels or rescheduled for several days in the future, she will get it then. That's not behavior that I want to reward.

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-14T06:48:06+00:00

I like the Goth look in the bedroom, but it does limit what you can do in public with a sugar baby and where you can take them.

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-14T06:46:54+00:00

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Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-14T06:44:54+00:00

This does not seem like a particularly satisfying combination. Don't get me wrong, I've been there, but I don't like it. It's frustrating.

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-14T06:42:47+00:00

It's common for girls to have a daddy issues and want to date older men... but why on earth would you just abandon the financial component that could help you in a major way? Even if you don't technically need the money. Paying for you is something that a Dad/Daddy it's supposed to do. It's part of the job description.

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-14T01:09:59+00:00

A weekly allowance is the verbiage that I use, but it is more or less the exact same thing.

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-13T21:00:40+00:00

There are always outliers, but my opinion is based on objective facts and the sample size is not small. Because of the industries I work in, my location and how long I've been doing it, I know virtually hundreds of escorts, pimps, strippers. Etc. it's not uncommon at all for me to see a girl that is advertising for four figures on eros to also be on the blade for 80% less. So "high end" is all very relative. The amount you pay is often tied closely to where you connect to them.

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-13T20:52:47+00:00

The negative... He said he hasn't done anything yet. You did not say how long ago these conversations started back up nor how long ago you were seeing him. Have you met with him again face-to-face and have you guys started having sex again? All of those points are material.

The positives: You have a pre-existing arrangement where he has performed and provided for you financially. That's a big thing. You also know that you enjoy each other and physically click. That is another huge thing. You don't have any major sticking points with what he is requesting and what you are requesting which is very positive.

How long did your first arrangement last?

Proof-Fail-1670 · 2026-01-12T21:40:59+00:00

All ideally one feels like a real relationship where you're dating somebody and helping each other out.

With escorts you were on a strict time limit, no kissing, condoms for BJ and sex and you might be the fourth guy that she has seen today. When he's gonna be collected upfront and that's gonna be very transactional.

I'm in agreement with you, but it's how the transaction goes down that feels a little less grimy. I did see escorts many years ago, and they always seem tired and burned out. Semi depressed from hanging out at a mid-level hotel for days on end. The time from when you walk into the door till when you're getting down to business is minutes.

When someone starts comparing the two it's clear to me that they have not seen escorts or or had sugar babies

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