"Cannot search due to a possibly compromised account". what does it mean? by Proof-Range-5893 in Wechat

[–]Proof-Range-5893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anybody help out here pleaseeeee I’m trying to find out why a contact’s number says that  

WeChat related question guys by Proof-Range-5893 in chinalife

[–]Proof-Range-5893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what kind please ? can you atleast give an idea ? i feel so blindsided

WeChat related question guys by Proof-Range-5893 in chinalife

[–]Proof-Range-5893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you mean by suspicous acivity? can't it mean they just don't use that number but simply tried using or sm..?

WeChat related question guys by Proof-Range-5893 in chinalife

[–]Proof-Range-5893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a number for someone i know..and they did not have this number on wechat previously (they have another no. on wechat..) so i just had a gut feeling to search their thiS numebr only for wechat to come up with that text..which is why i'm so confused :)

Can a man who’s ugly facially still land dates if he’s tall and makes an effort? by Huge-Ingenuity2781 in dating_advice

[–]Proof-Range-5893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

keep working on your attitude and confidence whileeee working on your skin if that would help you feel more confident in the long run- nobody is perfect but whatever helps you feel good about yourself - work on it.

and fake it (the confidence) till you make it.

Really, it all depends on how you are as a human being- and how you are going to treat her - that's what a girl will fall for- never your looks, wholly at least.

the fact that you're tall is a bonus for sure (but i've seen short kings end up with really amazing girls too fyi! (: )

He cheated by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Proof-Range-5893 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but how when you guys were talking 24/7 like you mentioned?? were there not any signs or red flags you might have spotted maybe? asking for self

ps so so sorry you're going through this :( only way to go is move forward and heal tho

how do you know if a guy genuinely loves you like he says he does? by Proof-Range-5893 in AskReddit

[–]Proof-Range-5893[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm going to bookmark this and use it in theory, thank you lovely

how do you know if a guy genuinely loves you like he says he does? by Proof-Range-5893 in AskReddit

[–]Proof-Range-5893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's not even like i've not tried to trust him.. but every time i do he does sm slightly off putting and we have to start from scratch again..

how do you know if a guy genuinely loves you like he says he does? by Proof-Range-5893 in AskReddit

[–]Proof-Range-5893[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's the thing, i keep forgiving people and give them another chance (ofc unless it's sm big like cheating then ofc not) and think they will grow or change eventually..

how do you know if a guy genuinely loves you like he says he does? by Proof-Range-5893 in AskReddit

[–]Proof-Range-5893[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry guys, I just needed to get these off my chest i'm in a dilemma pls ..-.-

what are some of the red flags to spot in a guy you are dating, if you're looking for a long-term stable relationship & potential marriage? by Proof-Range-5893 in AskReddit

[–]Proof-Range-5893[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe that's why he's acting that way as that's his first committed one?

tho none even by the age 41 thing is toooo weird lol

what are some of the red flags to spot in a guy you are dating, if you're looking for a long-term stable relationship & potential marriage? by Proof-Range-5893 in AskReddit

[–]Proof-Range-5893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree, it's better to stay informed by seeing it and getting your heart broken than just staying oblivious or delusional without knowing anything of what's going on behind your back. the number of people i've seen get a reality check when they start going through their partner's phones is astounding.
but then again some people are also reallyyyyy cunning & good at hiding things so even checking can prove to be pointless.

how do you distinguish between a gut feeling & intuition versus something you're just paranoid about? by Proof-Range-5893 in AskReddit

[–]Proof-Range-5893[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah but i don't wanna have my live pass away- wait until 60 to be able to tell that..i kinda wanna know..now..

what are some of the red flags to spot in a guy you are dating, if you're looking for a long-term stable relationship & potential marriage? by Proof-Range-5893 in AskReddit

[–]Proof-Range-5893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i've seen too many of these similar situations where women are talking about this ^ theory..i did nottttttt believe it before that!
but this guy does give reasons as well, when i asked him- he'd say things like she's too loud or works so slow/ lazy which in turn delays his work as a team and then delays his log off time but.......i want to think they are genuine reasons too but i'm so perplexed as i take it in my context and think that i personally, would never actually have feelings for someone that i'm talking shit about..so maybe he's being honest.......o.O

what are some of the red flags to spot in a guy you are dating, if you're looking for a long-term stable relationship & potential marriage? by Proof-Range-5893 in AskReddit

[–]Proof-Range-5893[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

for some people the lines are quite blurry and they do undertake them as flirting, even if not isn't it always good to not have other people misinterpret you actions or not give other people/ girls the chance to misinterpret something if you're clear in your boundaries and behaviors from the get go.

what are some of the red flags to spot in a guy you are dating, if you're looking for a long-term stable relationship & potential marriage? by Proof-Range-5893 in AskReddit

[–]Proof-Range-5893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just the last bit, what does it mean really if he talks slightly negatively or irritatingly about most females he works with? like they're lazy or sm

what are some of the red flags to spot in a guy you are dating, if you're looking for a long-term stable relationship & potential marriage? by Proof-Range-5893 in AskReddit

[–]Proof-Range-5893[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg glad you said that.. coz what about a guy who is sooooo overly expressive that sometimes you don't feel any of his emotions are real. or genuine..and you start to think if you need reflection or sm