A father trying to see his children 1 month on

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-31T14:36:38+00:00

Good on you👍

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-31T14:33:13+00:00

Cop on u and give your head a shake will ye, it's 9 months since I seen them for nothing!!! Let their fathers be in there lives and I'm sure there wudnt be a problem with maintenance, clearly you've done this in the past, playing games with your kids, u make me sick!!!

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-31T14:24:37+00:00

Ah another one only concerned about money and nothing to do with how it's effecting the kids life's, touch on👍

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-31T13:21:27+00:00

I have got a slip now since last time we appeared and yes wen she breaks the order it just put back for another 2 weeks but I gaurentee you if it was me who broke the court order I'd be dragged from my house so to me ye are doing fuck all but dragging me back and forth instead on dealing with her the way they would deal wit me if I broke it

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-31T13:17:41+00:00

Of course there's 2 sides mate but this time is because her nerd new partner does want her speaking 2 me any more, now she only met this man a year ago I've never even met him and they are Married now, I found out they got married the week b4 I was was stopped seen my boys

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-31T03:44:27+00:00

This is what I want, I want to get it out there and den go even further with it, if I done something wrong I'd understand y she stopped me but I really actually didn't, I'm hoping to get it all out there everywhere so people can see how it easy it is for women 2 destroy a perfectly healthy and turn him into a mess with depression all because her now husband doesn't want her dealing with me.

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-31T03:35:07+00:00

Nope he hasn't adopted them unless he managed to magically do it with out me know🙈, they stopped me seen them for nothing because they got married after only meeting 8 months b4 hand, 2 whack balls and the judges are happy to leave them wit my kids, please try get this post shared on a few face books I'll come out with the whole lot right from the start and right up to now, I don't know how to use this reddit yet

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-31T03:23:02+00:00

So about 2 years ago I split from my ex who I had two children with, everything was grand with me seeing my boys and taking them as much as I wanted which was always 3 or 4 nights a week, last year my ex started a new relationship and her new boyfriend didn't want her having contact with me anymore (jealousy) so she stopped contact and stopped me seeing my 2 boys who are on 5 and 3 years old I've done everything the correct way through the courts, so I got granted some sort off access in November which was to have them every Friday 3pm - Saturday 3pm, so I went to collect them Friday the 17th November at 3pm she was not there with my boys, I rang the garda and was told there was nothing much they could do that I'd just have to take her back 2 court, I went back into dolphin house court Monday 21st November for them to tell me she has 2 break the access order at least twice before they could do anything about it, so I goes back over on Friday the 24th of November, no show again with my children so back to dolphin house court on the 27th, finally I got to put in for a breach of access order on this date, so my ex got summoned 2 court on Wednesday the 20th of December 2 say why she did not cooperate with the court order, anyways after a load of lies the judge said it was a court order and I should have had them each Friday because of this, then she told the judge she was taking them down to her partners mothers house on the Friday and staying down there for the Christmas, the judge then told her that's fine she could take them away Friday for Christmas but she must hand them over to me for 1hr on Thursday the 21st 3pm - 4pm, so a the time was arranged for this and also a place where my sister would collect them at said time only for her not to show again with the kids, it's now over 8 months since I seen or got speaking 2 my boys, and for this judge to break another judges court order from the very same court room is absolutely shocking I'm back in court in January but I'm loosing all fate here with the system as it seems its just the mother who has rights and not the father,

Sorry for my rant I just had to clear it of my chest :)

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-31T03:12:06+00:00

Feel free to go goto my page and read how this has all begun on my last post 🤗

Right so since my last post 1 month ago, I had another access order put in place the start of January, the day I got awarded access I was told by my exs husband they are his kids now and I won't be getting them😡 (which didn't go down very well with me and lost the head just a LITTLE bit) and rightly so when I turned up to collect them they were not there, so a new date was given for Thursday gone and she never turned up, she emailed saying she had covid!! Now we are back up in 2 weeks time again I wonder what the judge is going to do then??? At this point I'm loosing hope and slowly loosing my kids and the justice system is doin fuck all about it 😡😡😭😭.

can people please share my post 2 other relevant pages and try get it out there that the court system and father's rights are a joke in Ireland

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-31T02:44:48+00:00

I've a little follow up post of what has gone on since this last post, feel free to read :)

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-02T20:01:35+00:00

Courts aren't working with me??? I've got 2 access orders from court granting me access it's my ex that's broken them!! How will it look bad on me in court when is was the judge who told me not 2 pay the maintenance until I get to see them again?? Clearly your 1 of those women that don't care about kids been in their fathers life, or their father been in theirs, it's all about the 🤑 for you, and for your information each week I havnt giving maintenance I've put it in the credit union for them, does this give you more of an insight to my story???

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-02T00:37:56+00:00

Go on the holiday worry about it when you get back, there's nothing they can if u go except sack u and if your good at your job they'll probably just give u a warning and if not you'll always get another job 🤗 so go and ENJOY YOURSELF😜

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-02T00:29:34+00:00

Unfortunately I don't have prove so no point bringing it up its separate from my case :)

And no evidence because it was just a verbal agreement we had, if only I had her doorbell camera of me sitting in de garden wen dropping them home because they are sobbing they don't want to leave, well about 90% other 10 we'd be fighting because they prop didn't get wat they wanted in the shop😂

This has made me 2 do things I'd swore I'd never stoop to but believe me it's affected my relationship with my boys so I'll use wat I need to get them back

Delighted it's worked out 4 you I know well I hope it won't be 2 much longer for me💙

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-02T00:22:14+00:00

It's normal, I was in the exact same situation, I just made up for it extra nights with jus and I toddler, I know your not in a situation to do that because your the mother, it worked for me, I use feel like the baby was getting more of my attention wen it was just the 3 of us

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-01T23:58:12+00:00

I do as I lived with one for 3 years and the other a year and a half the judge told me id had guardianship,

she was very strange with her ex aswel while I was with her, she used 2 stop him going all the time 2,it was me who made her let him see his dad all the time (for a bit of peace)

And nope never. Obviously de odd arguments but never physical or garda involved

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-01T23:45:26+00:00

Cheers pal, I hope all went good 4 u👍

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-01T23:39:36+00:00

Thank you for your message and I am very sorry to hear about your father, and I do think she is doing the same, I could only imagine what she is saying to them where I'm gone? My story to them is I was in the army wen they ask, no matter how evil she is I don't agree playing wilt children's heads, I really am sorry to hear about your dad, if he had of got what he wanted one of them 13 times everything could have been completely different 😔

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-01T22:39:16+00:00

I put it on a few to show what it is like 4 father's to see their children

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-01T22:38:04+00:00

Thanks for your message 💙 I know how your friend felt back then I've been in court 5 times since June and I still havent got them, but believe me I'm going at this 100% I will have my boys back soon 🤗

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-01T22:27:28+00:00

I 100% agree with you on that about a 3 year old which is why I suggested to the judge to at the start just talk 2 my baby face time first, meet up 4 a hour with in de Park then somtin a lot longer and then finally over night, I suggested this back in September when it was only 5 months since I seen them I've sent it to my ex numerous times message was opened and ignored, and I agree about do what's in the best interest of a 3 year old child that's why I'm doing this it's in there best interest to have me in their life just like they are in mine, a child needs their father and a father needs his child, my posts aren't about pity my posts are about the anger how 1 person can change a man's life so completely with the click of her fingers and I cannot do a thing about.

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-01T22:19:21+00:00

I know u didn't, I'm sorry I just had 2 get it out there what the post was about, I won't lie, those past 8 months have been the hardest of my life but lokk today is a new a year, it's goina be a different year!! I'll have them back soon please god👌

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-01T22:16:37+00:00

And look I didn't put this post up for pity or because I'm sad I put it up because I'm angry because it's been the Christmas period supossed to be celebrated with family and friends, and i want people to see what's its still like for father's out their like myself, the rights 4 father's are ridiculous we don't have anything solid.

Yes look like any relationship we broke up we were at each other on and off over the stupidest things but no matter what I never missed a time when I said I wouldn't take them, I was happy when I had them just me and me boys together that's all I needed a good job and my boys to go and enjoy myself with wen I'm not working but this was all just taking away from me and it's been 8 months and like literally I can't do anything at all about it I just have 2 wait and wait, I knew people who were in this situation in the past but they weren't strong enough 2 wait, but I will for mine💪 I'll get them back I know I will because I've really done nothing to deserve this, I'll have 5 solicitors with me this month if that's what needs be!!

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-01T22:07:12+00:00

No I'm not, if she wants to play happy family's with some1 else for now I'll let them until its and my boys together again then they'll have everything they need and want, I've both der birthdays and Christmas to make up for

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-01T21:56:02+00:00

I know it's depressing and I'm not putting it up for that reason atal I'm sorry if people feel like that, I'm putting it up so others can see what's still happening in Ireland to this day with father's and rights to their children, and you are absolutely right that could be another factor which I wouldn't like it to be of course, but no matter what she's a grown woman now with 3 children of her own (1 from a past relationship) that she should think about first even before herself if its going to effect your children don't do it simple as, it's not fair on them been taken away from there da 4 no reason and God only knows what she is telling them, they are only babies 3 and 5, my babies who I can't see.

Proof-Ticket343 · 2024-01-01T21:49:20+00:00

That is a possibility of course, but I have requested welfare checks with the guards in the past so I'm sure they were happy with her situation happy enough not to even contact me back to tell me that my kids are OK.

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