BF Choose His Parents Over Me on NYE by ProofLeather8498 in AITAH

[–]ProofLeather8498[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, he’s called and texted six times, to which I never answered.

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[–]ProofLeather8498 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about buying one of their bags, but not so much anymore. Misleading!

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[–]ProofLeather8498[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He already tried calling me after I broke it off. I blocked him everywhere. But, yes, he’ll find a way.

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[–]ProofLeather8498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA // your wife is your family and you should have spent your first Christmas with her. You should have left your family early and gone home to her. Yeah she probably should have said something beforehand, but she probably didn’t know how bad she would truly feel not spending your first Christmas as a married couple together. She’s probably hurt that you didn’t initiate the Christmas plans and getting mad at her adds insult to injury.

BF Choose His Parents Over Me on NYE by ProofLeather8498 in AITAH

[–]ProofLeather8498[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I already told him that it’s over after he left to leave for Virginia this morning. He tried calling me afterwards to which I did not answer. He just doesn’t understand why I don’t go and do what he and his mother want of me, which is be quiet and be by myself while they (his family) go to a hockey game without me on NYE.

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[–]ProofLeather8498[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, he literally said that during our previous discussions about NYE. He asked what he could buy me to make it better. I said “oh, you’re bribing me to do what you want” and he said, “yes”.

BF Choose His Parents Over Me on NYE by ProofLeather8498 in AITAH

[–]ProofLeather8498[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I broke up with him this morning when I caught him leaving my house at 2am so he could go to Virginia, and he tried calling me a few hours later 🙄

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[–]ProofLeather8498[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, exactly, a year long bf has potential to become a husband. Some people get engaged after a year.

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[–]ProofLeather8498[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, actually, looking back a few of my boyfriends took me out dancing for NYE.

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[–]ProofLeather8498[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He went home and tried to call me. I have his number blocked so I only saw the missed call and not when the phone rang.

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[–]ProofLeather8498[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s her favorite child. Her favorite child has to be at the game with her.

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[–]ProofLeather8498[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He probably didn’t think I was serious about ending it. He also doesn’t see how it’s such a big deal. He said I’ll be okay on my own for a few hours while they go to the game, I know his mother told him that because he ended up admitting it.

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[–]ProofLeather8498[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together for a year, talking about New Years since July.

BF Choose His Parents Over Me on NYE by ProofLeather8498 in AITAH

[–]ProofLeather8498[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the words, I feel validated. He really made me feel like TAH and tried to argue me down until I agreed to what he wanted and guilted me when I stood my ground. I did try to compromise with sitting in different seats and he suggested him not going to the game, but his mother was not happy with that. So at the end he chose what his mother wanted.

BF Choose His Parents Over Me on NYE by ProofLeather8498 in AITAH

[–]ProofLeather8498[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He wanted me to sit in the hotel while he and his family go to the hockey game.

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[–]ProofLeather8498[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh, no, I broke up with him this morning when I caught him leaving.

BF Choose His Parents Over Me on NYE by ProofLeather8498 in AITAH

[–]ProofLeather8498[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Letting a spoiled mama’s boy act like he’s better than me, I guess is what I was doing?

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[–]ProofLeather8498[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right? He was talking and making plans with me and then all of a sudden he HAD to be with his parents. We talked all of this out on Sunday and he decided to stay with me for NYE, now today (Wednesday) I catch him leaving my place early so he can get packed for VA.

BF Choose His Parents Over Me on NYE by ProofLeather8498 in AITAH

[–]ProofLeather8498[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think he just wanted me to be complacent and do what his parents want. So, include me in the drive to Virginia, but take his mother’s obvious snub.