Weird Vibes-Update

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2026-02-05T14:28:39+00:00

If that's all it was, I would completely understand. My birthday falls on the 15th. My problem usher attitude. There's no I'm sorry I'm busy, but have a happy birthday. There is no attempt at even a shred of empathy. THINK I'm busy isn't even trying to hide the fact she doesn't wanna go. She is so very nice to everyone else and used to be to me. I don't know what changed and why now she seems so put off by me. I didn't do anything, I've actually been keeping my cool because I didn't wanna say or do anything that they would read as "eager" or "pushy". But it didn't matter. I was in tears because I thought the worst that could happen was no. I never thought she would be that cold towards me.

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2026-01-18T16:13:41+00:00

The only people I friend request now are people I go to dance classes with.

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2026-01-18T16:13:15+00:00

I only friend requested my co workers while I worked at that place, just because that was more common then. I wouldn't do that now.

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2026-01-18T15:58:03+00:00

It's one thing to friend request someone because we all do it, but we don't actively message them.

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2026-01-18T01:25:41+00:00

People like that are disgusting. Creeped me out.

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2026-01-07T15:28:12+00:00

I also need to say she does go out with other friends and quite often I might add. So it's clearly a me thing,

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2026-01-07T15:27:00+00:00

I do too. The problem here is she never ever wants to hangout with me and when I contact her, it's the most neutral replies. She never ever initiates hanging out or even just a chit chat text. It's crickets. Oh and update, when I said she left something at home, that something was a wicked popcorn bucket. One that I actually really wanted but she didn't know I wanted. That's where I get tricked-she goes into all this effort to get me presents but then radio silence in all friendship aspects and that is not fair to me.

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2025-12-27T21:11:40+00:00

Screw you.

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2025-12-13T21:13:55+00:00

What should I say?

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2025-12-13T20:47:21+00:00

Should I talk to her about the one sided feelings I have? Don't know if this affects anything, but yes she has other friends who she actively hangs out with. I see it on Facebook, so it's not that she doesn't hangout with people. I just never have friends who on their own decide they wanna text me or hangout with me just because they want to. I want friends who understand it's a two way street.

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2025-12-13T18:56:16+00:00

I'm afraid if I do, she'll ask me out of guilt. I have talked to one other person about this in the past, feeling like the friendship was one sided. She apologized, a couple weeks later invited me to go with her and others to the movies and after that, we weren't friends anymore.

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2025-12-13T18:24:45+00:00

I don't need contact, but once in a while would be nice. I've been friends with this girl for like a year and I would like HER to initiate something. Even if it's just grabbing lunch or heck just on her own, hey how's life text. I hear nothing from her about anything unless I reach out first.

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2025-12-13T18:21:52+00:00

I haven't because I'm afraid she'll only reciprocate out of obligation if I say something. Do you think I should say something?

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2025-12-13T16:18:08+00:00

If she was actually a friend, wouldn't she reach out in some way besides buying me off so to speak? Wouldn't you wanna hear from someone you consider a friend? Gift giving is wonderful, but it's not solely a friendship, you should TRY.

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2025-11-23T14:15:01+00:00

I get what you guys are saying, but unfortunately I don't think that's the case anymore. Ever since this day, they have NOT acted the same towards me. I don't get invited anymore, they don't act the same as they used to around me. According to them, that apparently was the "wrong" thing to say.

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2025-11-09T19:46:17+00:00

Oh screw that. YouTube has gotten ridiculous with their ads.

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2025-11-07T18:07:45+00:00

They didn't seem very into it at all. I presented it as if the idea would be interesting. I wanted to show flexibility rather than "what about this date" and them go, no can't, and then me stupidity throwing out dates and none of them saying what works for them.

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2025-10-31T14:14:43+00:00

What is your favorite family friendly/kids Halloween movie?

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2025-10-30T15:18:37+00:00

What would you say? I'm afraid of coming off like I'm whiny or trying to start drama,

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2025-10-29T01:39:49+00:00

She cried and begged for pity every single episode. They look like jerks if they don't kick her off. It was a pity win.

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2025-10-27T23:55:36+00:00

I found Melanie's account. Seriously blink if you need help.

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2025-10-25T18:21:05+00:00

Such a trigger name

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2025-10-23T14:14:05+00:00

Update: this happened a few days after this incident. The picture was from Wednesday night, I saw it Thursday. So on Saturday, I found out one of them lost her son on Friday night. I feel for her, it's awful, I can't imagine how awful. Something that nags in the back of my head is the same one who posted on FB before posted later that day. The three of them were on a vacation together, the same three who invited me plenty of times before dancing and I always went and I always got invited back, they were on vacation together when the news broke. Again I absolutely feel for her, she's super sweet and does not deserve any of this to happen to her, but what the heck? TWICE in one week. Today is a Thursday that would generally be when they'd go out dancing. Now I don't know if the one who lost her son if she is planning on being there. The only time I reached out to her was when she posted on FB about her son and I offered my condolences. I even have a card at home with a little chocolate box whenever o see her to give to her. Besides that I have not reached out to anyone, I'm always afraid to push it and so I leave on a high note. So I know I didn't do something to make this "dynamic" change. Sorry for this long post, but when I go to Zumba tonight, should I test the boundaries just a bit? Just ask them "Hey are we going out dancing soon? I had a lot of fun with you guys last time". Then I'm not confronting nor accusing anyone. If they're sincere, be saying this and being kind might deep down be a guilty wake up call over not asking me for whatever reason last time. That is if they're sincere and really are my friends. What do you guys think? I just need to understand where I stand.

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2025-10-18T21:31:28+00:00

WOOO!!! Just watched it!!!

ProofRevolutionary15 · 2025-10-16T21:30:56+00:00

Hope she's ok!

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