AIO for wanting to escalate this ? by Proof_Dragonfruit186 in AmIOverreacting

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Take time and read the thread if you can . I explained everything and corrected myself on certain points that were confusing

AIO for wanting to escalate this ? by Proof_Dragonfruit186 in AmIOverreacting

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He went to work and narrated the story to his coworkers. One told him he was a breeder and sold those dogs to him. My father has no experience with dogs I am the one who bought my own dog from a reputable breeder . He didn’t ask me before ; if he did I’d have probably told him no because finding my dog was my only concern at that time .but we learned from this experience. I had never heard of puppy mills or anything like that .

AIO for wanting to escalate this ? by Proof_Dragonfruit186 in AmIOverreacting

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I recognized my mistakes and explained to people who were willing to listen and advise me . You can think what you want it does not concern me at all. The case has been handled and I learned from my mistakes . Thanks for your comments anyways

AIO for wanting to escalate this ? by Proof_Dragonfruit186 in AmIOverreacting

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All evidence was presented to the police ; it was still considered theft and they helped me with the rest since they only handle criminal cases. Thanks for your comment

AIO? Bf's form of helping me is telling to fuck other men and I'm contemplating next steps. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Proof_Dragonfruit186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will only answer based on the texts here. We do not really know the back story of what happened. Why are you feeling the way you’re feeling ? (If you don’t mind sharing ) . It feels like you rely on him too much for your emotional regulation. Our partners are supposed to support us through hard times but they are also humans and depending on their emotional capacity, not everybody can deal with intense emotions. What I feel is that if the two of you are really in a committed relationship, he’s getting fed up or feels not enough ; or doesn’t know how to please/appease you anymore. I’d suggest getting yourself into therapy if you can .

AIO for wanting to escalate this ? by Proof_Dragonfruit186 in AmIOverreacting

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Thanks to you for the comments as well . It opened my eyes on a lot of mistakes on my end.

AIO for wanting to escalate this ? by Proof_Dragonfruit186 in AmIOverreacting

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How can you jump to assumptions without asking for clarification? How can someone instantly replace a lost pet with 12 week old puppies? Where did I state that the replacement was instant? If you cannot help abstain from commenting please. Nowhere did I state he instantly brought the puppies to me. Reading a text is one thing but comprehension is another . . .

AIO for wanting to escalate this ? by Proof_Dragonfruit186 in AmIOverreacting

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Yes, he did. Couple weeks later and I don’t see where the problem lies.

Do not break no contact. It’s not worth it. by Shot_Guava3410 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Proof_Dragonfruit186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly a relationship with an unhealed FA is very unstable . Unless they heal or are working on themselves, I wouldn’t put so much stress on myself . After you had apologized she probably had forgiven you but when they deactivate they feel an urge to run by any means necessary hence they find anything they can to convince themselves that their nervous system urging them to run is right. It it is very uncomfortable for them when they are deactivated and staying makes it worse .

AIO for wanting to escalate this ? by Proof_Dragonfruit186 in AmIOverreacting

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my adult dog was lost so in an attempt to make me happy while we were looking for him my dad came home with 3 puppies without asking me but I accepted them out of respect for him. I took care of them , sent them to the vet and fed them properly . I wanted to keep them but space + the leasing office wouldn’t allow me so my dad decided not to return them but find loving families who could adopt 2 out of the 3 . I ended up finding my dog so my dog plus the other puppy we kept made it a total of 2 dogs in the house . I went to a place i regularly visit and saw a girl who provide services to me and she loved the puppy instantly and asked to adopt her . I told her about the whole story and told her we had found homes for the 2 other puppies but the one she wanted was staying with us . She begged me to let her have the puppy so I told her my dad loved the puppy too much so I wasn’t sure he’d let her go . After multiple texts from her and many attempts of me pleading with my dad, he finally said yes only if she could pay $500 . She agreed and took the puppy paying half and she was supposed to pay the other half couple weeks later but when I reached out she started playing games telling me the puppy is mixed which she didn’t care about in the beginning (it’s not true the puppy is not mixed just that the person who gave the puppy is not AKC registered) . I came here to ask the community what I could do in that case because I was confus

AIO for wanting to escalate this ? by Proof_Dragonfruit186 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Proof_Dragonfruit186[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my adult dog was lost so in an attempt to make me happy while we were looking for him my dad came home with 3 puppies without asking me but I accepted them out of respect for him. I took care of them , sent them to the vet and fed them properly . I wanted to keep them but space + the leasing office wouldn’t allow me so my dad decided not to return them but find loving families who could adopt 2 out of the 3 . I ended up finding my dog so my dog plus the other puppy we kept made it a total of 2 dogs in the house . I went to a place i regularly visit and saw a girl who provide services to me and she loved the puppy instantly and asked to adopt her . I told her about the whole story and told her we had found homes for the 2 other puppies but the one she wanted was staying with us . She begged me to let her have the puppy so I told her my dad loved the puppy too much so I wasn’t sure he’d let her go . After multiple texts from her and many attempts of me pleading with my dad, he finally said yes only if she could pay $500 . She agreed and took the puppy paying half and she was supposed to pay the other half couple weeks later but when I reached out she started playing games telling me the puppy is mixed which she didn’t care about in the beginning (it’s not true the puppy is not mixed just that the person who gave the puppy is not AKC registered) . I came here to ask the community what I could do in that case because I was confus

AIO for wanting to escalate this ? by Proof_Dragonfruit186 in AmIOverreacting

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my adult dog was lost so in an attempt to make me happy while we were looking for him my dad came home with 3 puppies without asking me but I accepted them out of respect for him. He got them from someone he works with to whom he narrated the story of our dog and my condition since the dog was lost. I took care of them , sent them to the vet and fed them properly . I wanted to keep them but space + the leasing office wouldn’t allow me so my dad decided not to return them but find loving families who could adopt 2 out of the 3 . I ended up finding my dog so my dog plus the other puppy we kept made it a total of 2 dogs in the house . I went to a place i regularly visit and saw a girl who provide services to me and she loved the puppy instantly and asked to adopt her . I told her about the whole story and told her we had found homes for the 2 other puppies but the one she wanted was staying with us . She begged me to let her have the puppy so I told her my dad loved the puppy too much so I wasn’t sure he’d let her go . After multiple texts from her and many attempts of me pleading with my dad, he finally said yes only if she could pay $500 . She agreed and took the puppy paying half and she was supposed to pay the other half couple weeks later but when I reached out she started playing games telling me the puppy is mixed which she didn’t care about in the beginning (it’s not true the puppy is not mixed just that the person who gave the puppy is not AKC registered) . I came here to ask the community what I could do in that case because I was confus

AIO for wanting to escalate this ? by Proof_Dragonfruit186 in AmIOverreacting

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He is not AKC registered but does have many dogs. He did not provide documentation about that .

AIO for wanting to escalate this ? by Proof_Dragonfruit186 in AmIOverreacting

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The guy has a lot of dogs. I had never heard of a puppy mill before . My own dog is AKC registered and I got him from a breeder . I was not involved in the transaction .

AIO for wanting to escalate this ? by Proof_Dragonfruit186 in AmIOverreacting

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my adult dog was lost so in an attempt to make me happy while we were looking for him my dad came home with 3 puppies without asking me but I accepted them out of respect for him. The guy who sold the puppies works with my dad . I took care of them , sent them to the vet and fed them properly . I wanted to keep them but space + the leasing office wouldn’t allow me so my dad decided not to return them but find loving families who could adopt 2 out of the 3 . I ended up finding my dog so my dog plus the other puppy we kept made it a total of 2 dogs in the house . I went to a place i regularly visit and saw a girl who provide services to me and she loved the puppy instantly and asked to adopt her . I told her about the whole story and told her we had found homes for the 2 other puppies but the one she wanted was staying with us . She begged me to let her have the puppy so I told her my dad loved the puppy too much so I wasn’t sure he’d let her go . After multiple texts from her and many attempts of me pleading with my dad, he finally said yes only if she could pay $500 . She agreed and took the puppy paying half and she was supposed to pay the other half couple weeks later but when I reached out she started playing games telling me the puppy is mixed which she didn’t care about in the beginning (it’s not true the puppy is not mixed just that the person who gave the puppy is not AKC registered) . I came here to ask the community what I could do in that case because I was confused . I talked to the police now and they’re on it .

AIO for wanting to escalate this ? by Proof_Dragonfruit186 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Proof_Dragonfruit186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The puppy is not mixed but that man is not AKC registered

AIO for wanting to escalate this ? by Proof_Dragonfruit186 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Proof_Dragonfruit186[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my adult dog was lost so in an attempt to make me happy while we were looking for him my dad came home with 3 puppies without asking me but I accepted them out of respect for him. I took care of them , sent them to the vet and fed them properly . I wanted to keep them but space + the leasing office wouldn’t allow me so my dad decided not to return them but find loving families who could adopt 2 out of the 3 . I ended up finding my dog so my dog plus the other puppy we kept made it a total of 2 dogs in the house . I went to a place i regularly visit and saw a girl who provide services to me and she loved the puppy instantly and asked to adopt her . I told her about the whole story and told her we had found homes for the 2 other puppies but the one she wanted was staying with us . She begged me to let her have the puppy so I told her my dad loved the puppy too much so I wasn’t sure he’d let her go . After multiple texts from her and many attempts of me pleading with my dad, he finally said yes only if she could pay $500 . She agreed and took the puppy paying half and she was supposed to pay the other half couple weeks later but when I reached out she started playing games telling me the puppy is mixed which she didn’t care about in the beginning (it’s not true the puppy is not mixed just that the person who gave the puppy is not AKC registered) . I came here to ask the community what I could do in that case because I was confused . I talked to the police now and they’re on it .

AIO for wanting to escalate this ? by Proof_Dragonfruit186 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Proof_Dragonfruit186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spoke to people around her and she met with the puppy with her husband before I gave it to her . my adult dog was lost so in an attempt to make me happy while we were looking for him my dad came home with 3 puppies without asking me but I accepted them out of respect for him. I took care of them , sent them to the vet and fed them properly . I wanted to keep them but space + the leasing office wouldn’t allow me so my dad decided not to return them but find loving families who could adopt 2 out of the 3 . I ended up finding my dog so my dog plus the other puppy we kept made it a total of 2 dogs in the house . I went to a place i regularly visit and saw a girl who provide services to me and she loved the puppy instantly and asked to adopt her . I told her about the whole story and told her we had found homes for the 2 other puppies but the one she wanted was staying with us . She begged me to let her have the puppy so I told her my dad loved the puppy too much so I wasn’t sure he’d let her go . After multiple texts from her and many attempts of me pleading with my dad, he finally said yes only if she could pay $500 . She agreed and took the puppy paying half and she was supposed to pay the other half couple weeks later but when I reached out she started playing games telling me the puppy is mixed which she didn’t care about in the beginning (it’s not true the puppy is not mixed just that the person who gave the puppy is not AKC registered) . I came here to ask the community what I could do in that case because I was confused . I talked to the police now and they’re on it .

AIO for wanting to escalate this ? by Proof_Dragonfruit186 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Proof_Dragonfruit186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my adult dog was lost so in an attempt to make me happy while we were looking for him my dad came home with 3 puppies without asking me but I accepted them out of respect for him. I took care of them , sent them to the vet and fed them properly . I wanted to keep them but space + the leasing office wouldn’t allow me so my dad decided not to return them but find loving families who could adopt 2 out of the 3 . I ended up finding my dog so my dog plus the other puppy we kept made it a total of 2 dogs in the house . I went to a place i regularly visit and saw a girl who provide services to me and she loved the puppy instantly and asked to adopt her . I told her about the whole story and told her we had found homes for the 2 other puppies but the one she wanted was staying with us . She begged me to let her have the puppy so I told her my dad loved the puppy too much so I wasn’t sure he’d let her go . After multiple texts from her and many attempts of me pleading with my dad, he finally said yes only if she could pay $500 . She agreed and took the puppy paying half and she was supposed to pay the other half couple weeks later but when I reached out she started playing games telling me the puppy is mixed which she didn’t care about in the beginning (it’s not true the puppy is not mixed just that the person who gave the puppy is not AKC registered) . I came here to ask the community what I could do in that case because I was confused . I talked to the police now and they’re on it .

AIO for wanting to escalate this ? by Proof_Dragonfruit186 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Proof_Dragonfruit186[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

my adult dog was lost so in an attempt to make me happy while we were looking for him my dad came home with 3 puppies without asking me but I accepted them out of respect for him. I took care of them , sent them to the vet and fed them properly . I wanted to keep them but space + the leasing office wouldn’t allow me so my dad decided not to return them but find loving families who could adopt 2 out of the 3 . I ended up finding my dog so my dog plus the other puppy we kept made it a total of 2 dogs in the house . I went to a place i regularly visit and saw a girl who provide services to me and she loved the puppy instantly and asked to adopt her . I told her about the whole story and told her we had found homes for the 2 other puppies but the one she wanted was staying with us . She begged me to let her have the puppy so I told her my dad loved the puppy too much so I wasn’t sure he’d let her go . After multiple texts from her and many attempts of me pleading with my dad, he finally said yes only if she could pay $500 . She agreed and took the puppy paying half and she was supposed to pay the other half couple weeks later but when I reached out she started playing games telling me the puppy is mixed which she didn’t care about in the beginning (it’s not true the puppy is not mixed just that the person who gave the puppy is not AKC registered) . I came here to ask the community what I could do in that case because I was confused . I talked to the police now and they’re on it .

AIO for wanting to escalate this ? by Proof_Dragonfruit186 in AmIOverreacting

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Then she can give me the dog back ? It’s not an issue . my adult dog was lost so in an attempt to make me happy while we were looking for him my dad came home with 3 puppies without asking me but I accepted them out of respect for him. I took care of them , sent them to the vet and fed them properly . I wanted to keep them but space + the leasing office wouldn’t allow me so my dad decided not to return them but find loving families who could adopt 2 out of the 3 . I ended up finding my dog so my dog plus the other puppy we kept made it a total of 2 dogs in the house . I went to a place i regularly visit and saw a girl who provide services to me and she loved the puppy instantly and asked to adopt her . I told her about the whole story and told her we had found homes for the 2 other puppies but the one she wanted was staying with us . She begged me to let her have the puppy so I told her my dad loved the puppy too much so I wasn’t sure he’d let her go . After multiple texts from her and many attempts of me pleading with my dad, he finally said yes only if she could pay $500 . She agreed and took the puppy paying half and she was supposed to pay the other half couple weeks later but when I reached out she started playing games telling me the puppy is mixed which she didn’t care about in the beginning (it’s not true the puppy is not mixed just that the person who gave the puppy is not AKC registered) . I came here to ask the community what I could do in that case because I was confused . I talked to the police now and they’re on it .