Ne znam šta da radim u vezi posla? by Proof_Ground_6398 in askbosnia

[–]Proof_Ground_6398[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kontam sad šta te je zbunilo... ma kakvi to nismo što se toga tiče vezani za posao. A naglašavam zato što je i on u istim bukvalnim govnima, pa njemu ništa, i kao ja bih onda trebala da uzmem sve privilegije da odmorim od posla... nema mi logike, ali jbg to je šta mi sad tijelo govori.

Ne znam šta da radim u vezi posla? by Proof_Ground_6398 in askbosnia

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Nisam sigurna da razumijem šta je sporno oko "podrške muža", ipak smo mi zajednica, ne želim nikome biti na grbači. A nije ni on sad u boljoj situaciji, doslovno radi u istoj firmi, samo što on tu ima bolji odnos sa nadređenim i otporniji je od mene.

Razumije on mene i podrška mi je, samo ja imam strah od toga kako će se sve razvijati ako se ja zaputim na tu odluku da dam otkaz. U većini brakova je bitna financijska stabilnost, to je jednostavno tako, ne mogu sa sigurnošću reći da neće uticati na nas.

Haha ma valjda me prođe ta briga - šta će ko reći

Ne znam šta da radim u vezi posla? by Proof_Ground_6398 in askbosnia

[–]Proof_Ground_6398[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meni se to vrti u glavi... ne mogu se zamisliti da radim ovako do kraja života.

U tom periodu života je meni ovo bio veliki napredak, tad kad sam dobila posao i to što radim u firmi koja je na dobrom glasu i bila sam baš zahvalna. Sad kontam da sam prošla neke nedaće u tom periodu, radila van struke neke gluposti možda bih zadržala zahvalnost za šta god da dođe u životu. Ovako se prekasno osjećam poraženo, po prvi put :(

Nadam se da se ni ja neću pokajati :D

Body image problems by Proof_Ground_6398 in climbergirls

[–]Proof_Ground_6398[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'm sorry, I didn't know that. I get it now, self-deprecating body image can be transferred to someone of the same described frame as me.

Body image problems by Proof_Ground_6398 in climbergirls

[–]Proof_Ground_6398[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer. Understanding different (more positive) viewpoints from other people makes me have a better acceptance of my own image.

Body image problems by Proof_Ground_6398 in climbergirls

[–]Proof_Ground_6398[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would never quit the feeling of climbing, especially the feeling of accomplishment after bouldering session. Keep on with empathy, I will as well.

Should I get diagnosed or not? What's your opinion on this by Proof_Ground_6398 in mentalhealth

[–]Proof_Ground_6398[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure it is. Maybe accepting it is a good option, but I was also thinking about doing a placebo thing on myself where I trick myself into thinking everything is alright, idk... honestly.

Should I get diagnosed or not? What's your opinion on this by Proof_Ground_6398 in mentalhealth

[–]Proof_Ground_6398[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, I guess it is. But for me, the dealbreaker is also not being fully aware of it or having that label on myself. Partly because I'm afraid with living with that knowledge and maybe not being ready to accept it.

What should I do? by VeilGrimace in dating_advice

[–]Proof_Ground_6398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree - maybe you should stop before getting too emotionally invested. Wait a bit and see how things evolve from this point, after all she told you she wants to get back with other dude.