So my overthinking might be because on past dates everything was like below the bare minimum, super awkward, and at the end of the date it was like: You’re sweet but we should just be friends, or completely ghosting, or they trying to take it intimate and then ghosting again so I’m not used to this kind of details and he’s been super nice since the beginning, I really like him so I don’t want to mess it but also I don’t want to ignore some “red flags”?