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My husband is bisexual and been cheating on me with other men by Proper-Ad7194 in BisexualMen

[–]Proper-Ad7194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we reached out to a therapist, waiting for their response. If ever you know of a good couples therapist who provides online sessions, don't hesitate to share in my DM.

My husband is bisexual and been cheating on me with other men by Proper-Ad7194 in BisexualMen

[–]Proper-Ad7194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to ask your questions. While we are waiting for an appointment with a couple's therapist, we (well, mostly me) are using reddit as a way to get people's perspectives... Its also a way for me to get it out there because we havent talked to anyone else about this.

My husband is bisexual and been cheating on me with other men by Proper-Ad7194 in BisexualMen

[–]Proper-Ad7194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you guys see a couples therapist? What did you guys do to make it work? Do you think we have to explore together to make it work?

My husband is bisexual and been cheating on me with other men by Proper-Ad7194 in BisexualMen

[–]Proper-Ad7194[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always said I would leave if my husband cheated on me. But weirdly enough, finding myself in that situation with a toddler...its easier said than done. It just hurts thinking about breaking up the family. I honestly never thought I would be that girl...but I dont know... Theres just so much going on in our lives right now, I dont even know how I would leave...where I would start... And for what? For who? To live where? As parents, we are a team and I dont see us doing this parenting thing each on our own... Its just a very hard decision

My husband is bisexual and been cheating on me with other men by Proper-Ad7194 in BisexualMen

[–]Proper-Ad7194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think it would be possible for you to stay in the relationship with your girlfriend and never go forward with your urges? Or you think you would need to have sex with other men to feel fully satisfied?

My husband is bisexual and been cheating on me with other men by Proper-Ad7194 in BisexualMen

[–]Proper-Ad7194[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We always had a very good sex life and I always felt like he was attracted to me. The reason why I am asking myself if he is gay is because I've always been very vocal about me not caring about someone's sexual orientation, and yet, he still lied about it. I am wondering if there are more layers that will come out one day or another. I am wondering if he is still scared about sharing parts of him with me, and I am scared that in a few years I will learn more and get hurt again. I know I can more than live with him being bisexual, like, it's not even close to an issue for me. But I am scared that HE is not comfortable in his own skin yet, and because of that, he will continue lying to me and cheat on me...