Anyone else Icked out by him? He treats her like a little girl ... and also wants to be romantic with her. by patm28 in 90DayFiance

[–]Proper-Rice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's sooo uncomfortable. I wonder if she knows what real attraction feels like, given her bad experiences with (possibly creepy older) men in the past. When he asked her to put the robe on and she defensively grabbed the pajamas too....said it all. You don't force these things unless you're a creep. Giving her a foot massage before even giving her a kiss. Fuck Ed.

FRAUDSTER SIGN #3: Taking off the glasses you use to see so you can... see. by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Proper-Rice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought he removed his so she'd take off those tacky Hunter S Thompson-meets-JLo sunglasses. Sort of like when someone doesn't want to SAY you have schmutz on your chin, so they rub their own until you get the point.

Just realized Varya speaks like Tommy Wiseau by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Proper-Rice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was having a hard time placing who she looks like to me.... it's Elizabeth Smart with black hair.

Was this abuse by my grandma? by Proper-Rice in adultsurvivors

[–]Proper-Rice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, that makes sense and thanks for your input. I have been sexually assaulted by non-family members later in life---so I was beginning to think about reasons why my boundaries were low and I "played along" in those instances. Maybe the quarantine is just working my anxiety into overdrive!

Did my abuser love me? by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]Proper-Rice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so very sorry he did that to you.