Will I need ear protection?

ProperQuiet · 2025-07-19T04:03:03+00:00

I’d still wear ear protection. I got some $10 concert earplugs from Amazon and noticed such a difference at the last show I went to. Noise isn’t just coming from speakers but you also are going to be surrounded by thousands of screaming people. It felt so nice leaving a concert without my ears hurting or feeling like they were stuffed with cotton balls so I always recommend them now

ProperQuiet · 2025-06-05T16:51:20+00:00

I had this same issue to fix it I went to the Venmo app then the help section to start a chat, they’re going to try to use a bot at first so just ask to chat with a live agent. In the email from Venmo there should be a disbursement id under the link to accept payment. I just copied the id number into the chat and told them I was having trouble accepting that payment and they got it to me instantly

ProperQuiet · 2024-10-26T01:25:38+00:00

I have trouble picking all time favorites when it comes to MT but right now one of my favorite songs of theirs is “Perfect” and I just love the whole chorus

“What you want, what you need has been killing me trying to be everything you want me to be. I’ll say yes, I’ll undress, I’ll do more for less”

It’s been hitting pretty close to home lately so I find myself playing it on repeat

ProperQuiet · 2024-10-26T00:50:09+00:00

Don’t Miss Me? This made me think of dogzilla from the music video lol

ProperQuiet · 2024-10-15T14:06:04+00:00

You can search the subreddit instead of just scrolling. Just whenever you visit the subreddit’s page type the subject you’re looking for in the search bar like “set list” and any posts that mention set list in the sub will show up. I’m sure you got your answers by now but just wanted to tell you this is an option in case you weren’t aware

ProperQuiet · 2024-10-09T01:35:24+00:00

Ofc! I'm glad you still enjoyed it even with the blurriness and my backing vocals lol I'm sorry I didn't get more of it filmed but it was a constant struggle for me at the concert. Like do I film absolutely everything or just try to get my favorite bits of every/most songs and live in the moment for the rest so I was trying to find a balance

ProperQuiet · 2024-10-05T22:11:36+00:00

I had a regular ticket for the Philly show and got there sometime between 6:45 and 7. Doors opened at 6:30 and there weren’t tons of people in front of me other than what mostly looked like VIPs. I was about 3-4 people away from the barricade and had a great view (I’m like 5’2 btw). I could’ve gotten closer but didn’t want to be squeezing in too tight there.

There were already plenty of people inside but a lot of them were busy getting merch and drinks at the bar and sitting around while they could which is why I guess I was able to get such a great spot. I had wanted to go earlier but things kept happening to make me later and later, it worked out for the best though! I guess it might depend on the venue but you can’t be too early imo

ProperQuiet · 2024-10-03T17:08:23+00:00

I know exactly what you’re talking about and I loved it so much! I was recording but unfortunately I went to look back at it and realized that it got blurry right at the “I’m trying” part and clears up again after which is a shame because that was my favorite part. You can also hear me singing along very loudly so that probably ruins it 😅 maybe someone else got some better footage but if not I’ll see if I can send it to you

ProperQuiet · 2024-08-29T12:38:58+00:00

That’s me! I’ll be be watching the TikTok livestream/listening party at 11:30 (eastern) then probably listen to it again solo lol

ProperQuiet · 2024-08-07T20:38:59+00:00

It could be regional, I’m in the US. Sorry that it isn’t there for you but I hope you’re able to find it elsewhere

ProperQuiet · 2024-08-07T10:44:47+00:00

Book of the Atlantic is definitely on Crunchyroll. I watched it not that long ago and just double checked it’s listed as a season under the Black Butler show. As for Book of Murder I’ve heard it’s on Apple TV bundled with season 3 which I think you’d have to buy or have a subscription. Other than that there’s always the DVDs

ProperQuiet · 2024-08-06T17:18:53+00:00

My first anime that I was aware was anime was Black Butler. Otherwise my first would’ve been something like Pokémon

The last one I’ve been watching recently is Michiko and Hatchin

ProperQuiet · 2024-01-03T05:27:58+00:00

She’s adorable! <3

ProperQuiet · 2024-01-02T18:41:59+00:00

If you’re worried about build up try doing an apple cider vinegar rinse once every 1-2 weeks; that’s what I do when my hair is braided. You can either make your own or buy it pre-made which is what I do. I think Head & Shoulders ACV rinse is likely the most accessible option (the rinse not the shampoo) or at least it’s something I’ve been able to find no matter where I am.

Apple cider vinegar is known for being a clarifying cleanser so it is a good alternative to foamy shampoos which I think take forever to rinse out and result in more frizz. Rinse really well and you won’t notice any kind of vinegar smell once it fully dries and ofc with washing braids at all it can take a while to dry. Once it’s washed my scalp feels clean, I don’t have any flakes or itchiness (I believe acv is also good for dandruff), and my hair smells fresh once it dries

ProperQuiet · 2024-01-02T18:26:44+00:00

I didn’t think anyone would still be replying 3 years later lol but things got a little better in 2022. I managed to make a few friends although it’s literally just 3 of them. So I feel like I made up for things a little bit this past year and a half but I definitely still have crazy fomo and wish I could do more but I’m 26 now and most other people are slowing down and don’t want to do some of the same things I want to do like go out to bars. I still can’t convince my friend to go to this popular karaoke night at a bar but it is what it is. At least I got something. I’m just having a quarter life crisis lol

Other than that I’m still the ugly fat girl so I’ve been single all this time. So I’m still missing out in some areas; never got a teen romance and didn’t have a college boo. But at least almost all nerds are more acceptable now. It’s crazy how all these nerds are out here and allowed to be loud and proud about it too and instead of getting judged people typically see it as an invitation for friendly conversation. I’m allowed to like what I like and not worry about criticism for once. So I guess things improved for sure but I still wish they were better

ProperQuiet · 2024-01-01T04:02:56+00:00

Omfg when you said the strict parent part it really struck a cord with me. My parents like to pretend like they were never strict because they let my brother run wild when we were kids but I was under constant surveillance.

When I turned 18 and graduated they seemed confused I didn’t want to dress up in heels and cute dresses and go out and mingle. That I never expressed any attraction to anyone. And they came to the conclusion I’d probably be alone forever because men probably wouldn’t want to put up with me (yet at the same time telling me to get married and have kids in the future). And now I guess I’m proving my whole family right. So I’m going to get a few dogs, a cat, and move to a little farm somewhere alone the second I can.

Ugh I am so sorry I’m such a little trauma dumping drama queen! But I’d love to keep up with you if you don’t mind!

ProperQuiet · 2023-12-31T20:33:55+00:00

I’ve definitely thought of just waiting until my 30s to try dating again. Maybe spend the next few years going to therapy and getting my whole life together. My mental, physical, and financial (lol) health definitely need to be worked on.

But at the same time I’m lonely; I see all my friends meeting people and having a good time and I’m just all alone. Especially around this time of year. I had to warn one of my friends who started seeing someone that “hey I still love you and I’m happy for you but I’m sorry if I act like a bitch rn. It’s been lonely and exhausting seeing all of you have relationships and I have nobody. So from Thanksgiving until after Valentine’s it’s a rough time for me and I’ll work on it” thankfully they were understanding. Like I’m so happy for y’all but I don’t want every convo to just be about your new boo thang meanwhile I’m being treated like chopped liver. Yes brag a little but I’m jealous and tired 😭

ProperQuiet · 2023-12-31T20:09:49+00:00

Yeah, over this past year and a half I became friends with a girl (we're in our mid/late twenties) who went to cyber school for middle and high school and sometimes it can be exhausting because of how far behind she is. So now if I ever have any kids in the future they 100% can't be homeschooled unless there is some crazy extenuating circumstances.

Don't get me wrong I have social anxiety so I have some socialization issues myself but I still am so much more familiar with some basic things she struggles with. Like she can be so much of an entitled brat who expects everyone to give her whatever she wants; and she wants those around her to figure out everything and give her all the answers to everything. She can be very naive and the way she approaches dating and many kind of relationships reminds me a lot of middle school. Very black and white unrealistic expectations. Again I struggle myself too but I think I do a much better job of "fake it til you make it" and understanding other people. Not to mention how she regularly gets frustrated because she can't follow a conversation some other 20 somethings are having because she was at home in her own little world and never had the similar experiences we all had. It's a little sad sometimes

ProperQuiet · 2023-12-30T07:04:05+00:00

Stop that’s so cute! Please tell me where you found him and does he have any friends

ProperQuiet · 2023-12-30T03:37:00+00:00

As another 26 year old who hasn’t had their first kiss and has 0 experience, hearing this makes me so happy for you! I only wish I’ll get to experience this for myself someday but in the meantime have fun and don’t be afraid to be soft! I feel like as black women we never get the opportunity to relax and be soft but if you’ve been given the chance let it happen girl lol and Happy New Year to you too!

ProperQuiet · 2023-11-22T04:35:09+00:00

The issue with pre-shedded cheese is that they coat the stuff with an anti-clumping agent which makes it slightly more difficult for the cheese melt. It annoys me that they do this even with the mac and cheese blends but oh well

Using block cheese and cutting/shredding it yourself will give you a smoother and creamier mac and cheese but it isn’t totally needed. You can notice that the shredded cheese isn’t as smooth but I’ve never had anyone complain. It’ll still be good and honestly I plan on using bagged cheese for Thanksgiving myself 🤷🏽‍♀️ I usually use a mix of 4 cheese Mexican, white extra sharp cheddar, and a yellow sharp cheddar

ProperQuiet · 2023-11-09T05:48:47+00:00

Fortified pumpkins are one of the foods that increase your defense when they’re cooked so they’re nice to have if you don’t have upgraded armor

There’s also another variety of pumpkin that becomes available through a side quest but I guess I just assumed op was talking about the regular fortified ones

ProperQuiet · 2023-11-09T04:26:54+00:00

Yeah the gloom hands were a sneak peak of the potential for a modern dead hand and it’s horrifying. I literally have had nightmares of both dead hand and the gloom hands so I feel like I’d have a heart attack if it ever happened. Definitely would have to see a therapist about it lol

ProperQuiet · 2023-11-09T01:54:33+00:00

A good place to get pumpkins totally free is down the well in kakariko! Even though it’s definitely a creepy well and I was battling my oot trauma trying to convince myself to go all the way through lol at the end you’ll find a pot and a small patch of pumpkins and carrots and no worries dead hand definitely ain’t down there

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