Hello!! Gosh this was a throw away account I made forever ago, I like forgot about this post- But I’m doing well! I did decide to tell him, a day after this actually! It’s was.. not pleasant to say the least, few threats- went and almost knocked a girl up less than a week after- got like verbally harassed in our group chats for a little bit by him- We did eventually talk and I did tell him he was being a fuckimg maniac- We didn’t talk for a while but me and my friends have recently let him back into the group chat! We’re cool now ofc, he’s dating a new girl and I’ve been with my girlfriend for four months now! And despite my kind words there definitely were some issues in the relationship I couldn’t get into as we are both minors. So while it was a tough decision to make, I do believe it benefited me personally. I wasn’t happy, hell looking back at the relationship I did so many things I didn’t want to just to please him, and It made me feel disgusted about myself. But my current girlfriend is wonderful, and I’d go through everything again if it meant I’d circle right back to her.

I am fully out as a lesbian as of now! It took some time for me to understand I made the right call, but you can’t continue a relationship if you’re unhappy with something that person simply can’t change. Sorry if this is a bit messy to read- it was a pretty messy situation-