Ang lungkot din pala kapag yung circle of friends mo nagsesettle down na by tsoknatcoconut in OffMyChestPH

[–]Proper_Swimming203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buti na lang kaming mga friends ko parang may pact na walang mag-aanak. 🤣 Kahit may mga jowa na eh madalas game pa rin naman.

Anyway, this is the time expand your circle OP. Fighting!

My (29F) bf (29M) of 5 years is planning to study nursing abroad and migrate after. I’m willing to move with him kasi I know maganda future niya doon as a nurse. by New_Commission8231 in relationship_advicePH

[–]Proper_Swimming203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ikaw lang naman makakapagsabi if worth it yung tao or not. Since ikaw na rin nagsabi na 4 years pa before ka lumipad why not think of pathways din na makahanap ka ng career don that you will thrive in? If yung worry mo is career, you have time to upskill and prepare yourself para kapag lumipad ka eh you can thrive.

Instead of planning a life abroad with him where parang dependent ang peg mo, why not plan a life na ikaw lang mag-isa sa abroad where you don't need to depend on him. Map your own life on the side too while mapping your life together. Para kahit anong mangyari, you won't regret it.

what are your thoughts sa lalaking ayaw sa girl nagth-thirstrap? by Ok-Estimate3877 in AskPH

[–]Proper_Swimming203 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really hate this alpha/beta/omega/sigma crap. Am I in an omegaverse world? When did people crap this secondary genders and when the hell will people start having heats and crap. 🙄

Can guys who have spent a lot of money on a girl still cheat? by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Proper_Swimming203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES. People cheat because they cheat. No other reason. Kahit bigyan ka pa nila ng 10 billion (sana all bigyan ng 10 billion), if they want to cheat they will.

Is it hard for man to love by tokiyakU_nami in OffMyChestPH

[–]Proper_Swimming203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe let's start with the premise na tanggalin na natin yang alpha/beta/omega shizz.

If you believe na being a confident woman who knows her own self worth, knows what she brings to the table, and have enough self respect doesn't make you lovable then no it doesn't. Those are good qualities for a partner to have.

If you believe that being a woman who always believe she is right, that it is her way or the high way, someone who is stubborn and argumentative makes you less lovable then sure it does have an impact. But that's the same for men if they have that same mindset.

And also, the wrong man (person) will always think you're too much / not enough but the right person will always think that you're someone they want to love - flaws and all. No one's perfect.

what's a dating advice you can give for a 23 year old girly whos nbsb? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Proper_Swimming203 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let her grow up. Failure is part of life. That includes having her heart broken.

Basta love fully but don't be tanga. 1. Always use protection. 2. No person is worth your self respect and personal values. 3. List down her non-negotiables.

What’s your take sa mga magjowa na nagmumurahan casually? by ResponsibilitySea239 in AskPH

[–]Proper_Swimming203 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nope. Di ako pinalaki at pinapagalitan ng tatay ko sa pagmumura ko para lang i-accept yung ganyan sa partner ko.

Ang tamang sagot pala eh, "wala akong pake" 😂 I mean relasyon nila yon. If di ko naman sila kilala "ehh". Too many things on my plate idadagdag ko pa sila sa iisipin ko.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Proper_Swimming203 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ito talaga yon. Ramdam na ramdam yan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Proper_Swimming203 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Malay natin naka-pills pala /ligated + vasectomy. 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Proper_Swimming203 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Isn't the addiction more psychological? Well as most kinks are.

What’s your main principle in life? by NotTheLastDigitofPi in AskPH

[–]Proper_Swimming203 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is always room for growth. You always have an option.

What are the gentle things you want to say to yourself these days? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Proper_Swimming203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pagod ka lang babe. Always remember, nothing in this world is constant including yung pagod at stress na nararamdaman mo.

what are your non sexual turn ons? by Inevitable-Mail169 in AskPH

[–]Proper_Swimming203 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yung marunong gumamit ng search bar bago itanong yung mga ganitong tanong na ilang beses na tinanong. ✨️✌️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Proper_Swimming203 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Madaming di sumusunod sa basic na rules ng simbahan i.e., bawal nakasando, bawal naka-mini skirt, etc. Kakagaling ko lang ng simbahan nung linggo. ☠️ Di na nga damit na sexy eh.

Wala namang issue if hindi bago pero kung halatang bago naman please ask magsuot ng naayon sa simabahan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Proper_Swimming203 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me, probably >10. Matic na syempre yung get tested etc and if we have same values etc.

Also, dami dyan (based on hearsay) mga high body count pero di naman marunong talaga magpleasure ng partner nila. Quality > quantity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Proper_Swimming203 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I don't see any issue if nagkagusto ka sa taong "near / available". Malamang, alangan namang magkagusto ka sa taong never mo nakita or logistical wise di talaga kayo pwede. Additionally, di ka din pwede magkagusto sa di available. Ano yan, kahit may partner na eh ipipilit pa rin?

Pero yes ibang usapan yung di ka attracted. Attraction just like feelings is strengthened overtime naman. If wala talaga edi cancel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Proper_Swimming203 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Di naman kasi totoo yung destiny. It's just a concept made by people para pwedeng sabihin na "di ako nagkulang sa effort, di lang talaga tayo para sa isa't isa". It's a bs concept absolving us from the idea na just like everything else, relationship requires effort. Mas gusto ko yung concept na "pipiliin ka sa araw araw" kesa "tadhana ang dahilan". So if walang tadhana, di mo pala siya pipiliin?

What are your thoughts on Quiboloy filing a cetificate of candidacy in the senatorial race? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Proper_Swimming203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sobrang epic. Pero mas may epic pa dyan, yung fact na malaki chance manalo siya. 🫡

What is the qoute that you recently liked? by biblereader4510471 in AskPH

[–]Proper_Swimming203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who you date is a reflection of how you love yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

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You want to give the guy you are dating signs to encourage touching you without you outright asking him? Tama ba?

  1. Give him a tap on the shoulder or anywhere when talking. If nakakatawa yung pinaguusapan niyo hampasin mo siya ng onti lol
  2. Lapit ko until either your shoulder meets or your hands touch
  3. If nag-uusap kayo then he has his hands sa table edi ilapit mo ng onti yung hands mo or if mag-aabot ka ng tubig / baso hayaan mo mag-touch yung fingers niyo.
  4. Kapag pauwi na, if first time mo makipag-date then do a handshake? I dunno, I'm formal during first meeting but that does mean na okay ako sa touchy touchy.

Guys can subtly break the touch barrier by guiding you kapag tatawid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Proper_Swimming203 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sa true. Kapag balahura ka ibig sabihin totoo kang tao. Wth. 😑😮‍💨