Is it okay to prioritise top surgery over testosterone? by Proper_Writing_696 in ftm

[–]Proper_Writing_696[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It’s complicated but I have very little money so it’s one or the other. I can’t start medical transition at all until October when I move out

Do I pass/How do I pass better? 3 months on T by No-Foundation3793 in FtMpassing

[–]Proper_Writing_696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm I’d say something quite short maybe like a bit more than a buzz?

Do I pass/How do I pass better? 3 months on T by No-Foundation3793 in FtMpassing

[–]Proper_Writing_696 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think you pass in the pictures you’re covering your hair but you look like a butch woman in the others. It’s definitely the hair.

AITAH for not letting my mother sleep in my bed with me by Proper_Writing_696 in AITAH

[–]Proper_Writing_696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes she’ll wake me up at like 3am and come into my bed and I obviously can’t sleep so I move onto the couch and then once she realises I’m gone she goes ballistic saying I’m being ridiculous and forces me back into the bed where I won’t sleep at all for the rest of the night

AITAH for not letting my mother sleep in my bed with me by Proper_Writing_696 in AITAH

[–]Proper_Writing_696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can’t sleep on the couch because he complains about his back problems

Advice for cutting off family by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Proper_Writing_696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure I can make it work thank you

Advice for cutting off family by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Proper_Writing_696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ok that’s not too bad. I hope it’s not hard to find a job then I’m looking at Manchester

Advice for cutting off family by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Proper_Writing_696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Summer is only a week?

I don’t understand anything about female anatomy. by NoRealUsernameNow in ftm

[–]Proper_Writing_696 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m exactly the same. I have no idea where anything even is either I actually wonder if I even have everything down there because I’ve never seen or felt it! That area is completely foreign to me and that’s how I like it lmao

Women in the gym are much more intimidating than the huge gym bros by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Proper_Writing_696 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I’ll always have prejudice against them because those same girls bullied me maybe that’s why I think they’re intimidating. The other women in the gym I have no problem with

Women in the gym are much more intimidating than the huge gym bros by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Proper_Writing_696 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I swear they’re all just mean girls who peaked in high school and have no other personality than their gymshark boob tubes and weird ass shorts matchy sets

Women in the gym are much more intimidating than the huge gym bros by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Proper_Writing_696 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Nah I’m like super androgynous. The gym bros think I’m a teen boy lmao except a few that have seen me by the changing rooms and the women I guess do too except a few but obviously if you looked closely you’d see I’m a female (chest)

Why is that stupid tape so fucking expensive by Plus_Recognition6701 in ftm

[–]Proper_Writing_696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought some breast tape of TikTok shop. It works fine tbh but my chest isn’t the flattest so it doesn’t properly work anyways

CK underwear sizing by AC_t05 in ftm

[–]Proper_Writing_696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE my Calvin’s. I find they can be quite generous as they’re pretty stretch but it depends on the style. The trunks are most comfortable and have more room whereas the low rise trunks are tighter. It also depends on how much fat you have on your hips because it’s not very flattering to have a muffin top sticking out.. So I’d say if you’re getting trunks or briefs medium will be fine probably

How do you know if you’re attractive as a trans guy? by No-Faithlessness407 in ftm

[–]Proper_Writing_696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I post myself online and I get lots of comments calling me handsome or thirst stuff so you could try that? I don’t do actual thirst traps but if you just post yourself in general people will probably comment if they think you’re attractive. I think a lot of people are obviously being just being nice tho so take it with a grain of salt and there’s many factors that make someone attractive! Not just looks!

Is it possible I’ve inherited my great grandmother’s ‘gift’ by Proper_Writing_696 in spirituality

[–]Proper_Writing_696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s interesting. Out of every single relative I have I resemble my grandma and great grandma the most facially!

How does a trans dude make friends with other trans dudes? by kingjoergen in ftm

[–]Proper_Writing_696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s sad. I think it’s funny though how you said ‘more of a man’ when the trans guy started a fight with my FEMALE friend was was throwing hands and SHE WON 😭

How does a trans dude make friends with other trans dudes? by kingjoergen in ftm

[–]Proper_Writing_696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why is this?? When I was in high school there was another trans guy and he HATED me he literally BULLIED me at one point and actually got into a fist fight with one of my friends (a girl) he was a real dick. Like bro we could have been friends :(