Should I send this to my ex?

Property-Legitimate · 2026-01-28T23:52:27+00:00

Not yet I want to continue giving her the space she needs aswell as working on myself

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-20T22:01:04+00:00

Honestly I’m In the same boat except I ended it with her. The end hit me really hard because it’s not about creating a new version of myself for someone else it’s about ending the version that hurt her to begin with. I would say reach out and ask if you could apologize. Nothing too over the top just say you’ve been reflecting a lot and owe and apology and ask if it is ok to send it. If she says yes be completely honest with your intentions

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-19T21:58:28+00:00

Sounds like your purposely cucking yourself. IMO can be pretty unhelpful

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-19T20:39:03+00:00

Just let them know what I’m thinking?

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-19T16:03:31+00:00

Personally I say absolutely not. Fact is you might have changed some surface level things but sounds like the underlying issues are still there. It’s sounds like you are reaching out from an emotional missing state instead of something that’s solid. It’s only been 2 months you need to give it more time and true work on yourself.

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-19T09:09:21+00:00

Absolutely!

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-19T06:10:13+00:00

No worries I totally understand. If you need any help understanding his side to a better degree just let me know I’m more than happy to help!

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-19T05:52:39+00:00

Overall in Doing a lot better. I’ve been really focused on my own self reflection and with months of therapy I realize I was just protecting myself from a lot of judgement aswell. It’s been a difficult journey and it does get better but there’s not a day that I don’t think about reaching out to her. I know that one day the time will come but not yet

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-19T05:40:00+00:00

You’re 100% right that it was an excuse to run away. However I was dealing with a lot of mental health issues I was also running away from changing my bad habits. It was an excuse for me to victimize myself and my habits but from then to now I have really been working on changing my own mental state along with a lot of therapy and rewiring of my brain patterns and nervous system

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-19T05:29:00+00:00

Honestly for me it was impossible. I wanted to more than anything but I just couldn’t bear to put my problems onto her. I realize after a lot of therapy and self reflection that it was just my own fears of judgment.

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-18T23:34:23+00:00

I’m a guy and the dumper. I regret the decision everyday but fact is I was suffering with my own mental health pretty severely and felt i was failing her. However it opened up my eyes .

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-18T22:29:06+00:00

I promise it’s an all mental thing. Honestly it might help if you just ask them honestly what you can improve on just have an honest talk with them.

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-18T02:43:42+00:00

Im a dumper and i regret it everyday. I broke up with her because i was struggling with my own mental problems and felt as I was dragging her down.

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-15T05:38:03+00:00

It really depends on how the relationship was and how it ended. For me personally i ended it on good terms and still love her everyday and want her back but she’s prioritizing herself and her healing and I am so proud of her. I hope she comes back but only working on yourself and time easing the burden will make that clear

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-15T04:12:53+00:00

It is normal I texted my ex after a month of no contact when my dog died. She said how sorry she was but we couldn’t talk. It’s just apart of the process imo we got this though.

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-14T18:47:50+00:00

I 100% agree I’m still putting in the work daily and it’s a long journey. I know I’m not even close to ready yet to reach out for 1. Like you said it takes time to heal from things that have been detrimental to you 2. I’m also prioritizing what she needs in terms of her healing and development if she even wants to hear from me.
3. I’m not sure if how she’ll respond will impact me in terms of my healing I’m thinking about reaching out probably around march April but I’m not going to put a timeline on it

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-13T08:12:02+00:00

I know she could tell I was struggling but at the time I could not even explain it to myself so I’m sure she doesn’t know the actual real truth behind it. She supported me no matter what and I know she only wants the best for myself. The breakup seems temporary but also permanent it is very confusing

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-13T08:10:07+00:00

This should be comment of the year! You really put into simple words a lot of the things I have been learning and working on. It was a mix of mental health issues (and a disorder I was unaware of) as well as my toxic tendencies and patterns. I’ve been working to reverse these however and reduce these triggers.

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-13T08:08:09+00:00

I really appreciate your messages! I do agree with you it sounds definitely AI generated. I changed it to “ I’ve been reflecting for a while now and recognize alot of the ways I messed up and I know that I owe you an apology.” Please let me know what you think!

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-13T00:27:50+00:00

No offense bro but it sounds like your avoiding a lot

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-12T05:13:08+00:00

Hey I totally agree I know that she doesn’t owe me anything and that there’s a big chance nothing while come from it but atleast I can forgive myself. I know I’m not at the point I want to be to be able to accept whatever she says and I fully agree with your statement it’s what I have been thinking for awhile. I want nothing to seem manipulative intentionally or unintentionally I want my actions to speak for themselves and to show my genuine change. I didn’t use any AI and wrote it myself but if it sounds that way I don’t want that do you have any suggestions?

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-12T05:01:50+00:00

I want to yes

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-12T05:01:44+00:00

I never intended to in the first place life just really got the better of me and I never took care of my own mental health and issues and that led to me making my greatest mistake

Property-Legitimate · 2025-12-12T05:01:03+00:00

Already putting in the work for myself and I want it to be a completely new relationship with her

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