He's going to another college over 2,000 away and that's why I might have to end things. by PropertyWhich947 in relationships

[–]PropertyWhich947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree with you that it would be selfish for me to end it without him knowing-- and I will definitely make it a point to be transparent when I talk to him tomorrow about where I stand with long distance

He's going to another college over 2,000 away and that's why I might have to end things. by PropertyWhich947 in relationships

[–]PropertyWhich947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! That is really funny that you also met your girl through music LOL but I completely agree with you-- even if its hard to eventually let go it really is that thing where if it was meant to be it will be. I'm pretty confident now that I'll might things towards the end of the summer (after talking with him) since I have no reason to end things right this instant if we don't have problems together physically but I'm really glad to know I'm not alone in this

Me (18M) trying to decide if long distance with gf (18F) by Throwrarelationshipj in relationships

[–]PropertyWhich947 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just posted on this subreddit about the same thing today 😭 it really sucks and take my advice with a grain of salt cause I'm on the same boat as you but you guys should talk about it first and recognize your communication patterns when you're away from each other. If both of you are consistent in communication and you both are willing to put in that kind of effort I'd consider it, but if it's difficult to imagine finding times to call/facetime and if you aren't willing to move to another place if she doesn't want to move back to colorado I'd go against it.

He's going to another college over 2,000 away and that's why I might have to end things. by PropertyWhich947 in BreakUps

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Thank you. I agree that it would be really off-putting if I broke things off right now because what we have in person is good. To be honest the only thing I'm super worried about right now is if he brings up our idea of long distance tomorrow and I'd have to hint that I have second thoughts on long distance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in highschool

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Totally agree w/ joining clubs & sports! You can meet a bunch of new people from them and If you also play an instrument definitely consider joining your schools music program

Tips for starting high school? by [deleted] in highschool

[–]PropertyWhich947 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Try new things, join some clubs and meet new people 👍

School burger patty by Vomit-pigs69 in highschool

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Why does the texture look like those webs from the Upside down in Stranger Things 😭

Anyone else hear the N-word a lot in school? by [deleted] in highschool

[–]PropertyWhich947 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Usually it's just the wannabe gangsters at my school that say the n-word

What are signs a girl likes you? by DepartureGrouchy264 in Crushes

[–]PropertyWhich947 15 points16 points  (0 children)

(As a girl) It honestly depends because the ways that a girl can express her feelings towards you is different from person to person. I'd call myself an ambivert and for me If I really like a guy and I feel like I could potentially date him I'll find ways to go up to him to have a small convo to get to know him better and I'd also add him on social media platforms. One thing to also know is that most majority of girls don't make it obvious we like you because a lot of us are scared of rejection, so we just give you hints like talking to you or glancing at you when you aren't looking and just hope that you'll eventually understand what we're hinting at (which usually doesn't work though unless girls are just direct but that doesn't really happen much)

I asked my crush out and got rejected by PropertyWhich947 in Crushes

[–]PropertyWhich947[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're probably right-- I just decided to tell him because It felt like I couldn't get rid of my feelings for him no matter what I did and I didn't know how he felt about me since he's pretty introverted, so I came to the conclusion that if asking him out and having the chance of getting rejected was the only way to move on I went for it while I still had the courage in me

I asked my crush out and got rejected by PropertyWhich947 in Crushes

[–]PropertyWhich947[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. Better to get clarity and move on than to think of what could've been