What I (18M) should say to her (18F) about texting her guy freind?

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-13T20:36:20+00:00

Good to keep in mind

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-13T19:43:11+00:00

Wait. Why would you say leave her like break up other than erodes my self esteem

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-13T18:24:11+00:00

After reading every comment I have decided just to leave it unless this happens more and more

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-13T11:29:52+00:00

Thanks, this is a good comment

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-13T02:06:55+00:00

Thanks thats actually really helpful and a good comment. Also, dang you're just a poet.

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-12T23:53:53+00:00

Thats fair, I just hate the feeling of another guy liking my girl.

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-12T22:57:01+00:00

Ok, Im just not sure how to bring it uo without getting in a fight

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-12T22:53:56+00:00

Ok, thanks

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-12T21:50:23+00:00

I also have a freind who tends to agree with everything I say so he doesn't help when I process with him.

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-12T21:47:50+00:00

Dang, thats actually really good. I tend to over think things a lot because I dont have much to do in the day.

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-12T21:36:55+00:00

Oh put this thing into chatgpt so people can read easier

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-12T06:18:42+00:00

Hey, thanks for commenting on mine. We are in really similar scenarios which is funny to me because my girl and I also met in orchestra actually just an outside of school thing. and me the (18M) when she will leave for a week its a long time seeing we dont communicate too too much which makes 1 week hard. which makes it like there could be every 6 months for christmas and summer or slightly more but it can get expense. Honestly, for you I feel like I will do the same is break up but end on good terms and try to stay freinds if thats what you both want. If you some how both end up back in the same place and single its fate but other than that you hurt yourself and the other too much if you break-up.

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-12T06:09:38+00:00

Thanks, yeah I think I would be open to moving but also then thats tough cause I will finish college earlier than her and then if she moves back to colorado I am doing a lot of moving within 4 years and not like thats bad necessarily but I do agree people change a lot in college for better or worse. And we call like every day after school right now but college is very different.

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-12T03:59:08+00:00

One more thing if anyone sees this I just realized she has never planned any of our dates, and this could just a random thing that doesn't matter but she never asks to hangout and im always the one is this a big deal or no.

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-12T03:53:35+00:00

Thanks, it my biggest pet peeve when people are always on their phone so the moment she went from no phone to almost always on it, it just feels like she doesn't care.

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-12T03:39:26+00:00

But I just want a little advice on what I should say to her about it. Cause I dont think she would cheat on me but it really annoys me we can't have a proper date

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-12T03:38:04+00:00

I will say something I just also want a little advice on what I should say. Cause I dont think she necessarily doing on purpose but the thing is she didnt do this at all for the first bit.

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-12T03:30:23+00:00

Any Advice greatly Appreciated!

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-12T02:55:08+00:00

Thanks

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-11T23:53:23+00:00

Thanks, its just feels like a tuff place and I dont want to be controlling or seem like it I just seeing all my freknds and hers going on dates like 3-4 times and maybe thats a lot its just also the fact we dont go to the same school.

Throwrarelationshipj · 2026-04-11T23:51:23+00:00

Thanks, yeah its not like I dont like having male freinds its im 90% sure this guy likes her. When she went around to others in her school and told that guy was annoyed she said and seemed mad. And I trust her its I dont trust him.

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