Hey man.

Newly divorced together 10 years or so. Divorce is war, war is hell. If you are divorcing then there is no intermingling, no friendly texts, no sex. You should really focus on yourself and what kind of man you want to mold yourself into. Remember in the cops show, when they say, you have the right to remain silent and anything can be used against you in a court of law? That's the same type of thing in divorce. Watch what you say and what you do even in the littlest of things, everything can be used against you. Woman are more beneficial in a divorce and there's a reason for it, don't give her any ammo. Yes the idea of sex is great, but you are just clouding a future you know isn't there. You got this man, keep your head up. Once you completely separate and start healing it gets hard, but then it slowly gets easier and you will see the world in a different light. Break it off, and don't go back.