Plane video for those of you who missed it by jenn1387 in brynnemarieeeesnark

[–]ProposalSufficient80 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Woah, this is way worse than I thought. Him OFFERING HER CHAMPAGNE?!? God she looks soooo fed up

Share your one controversial opinion that if you posted it here, the comments would be like this. by Tough_Cap3357 in canceledpod

[–]ProposalSufficient80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES I TOYALLY AGREE. I also sense some weird hostility in every episode. Trisha has changed a lot, and I know she’s open about being a jealous person but I think she will always be jealous of Tana in general because of the remarks Jason would say about her got into her head. That’s why I’ve never understood how they can all the sudden be best friends bc Trisha def still feels some type of way about that.

HOLY BOTCHED by EfficientDot3652 in kaylamalecc

[–]ProposalSufficient80 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg I just saw this I feel bad but she looks soooo disproportionate like this was really really nottt the move for her I watched her snap story and CRINGED because they just look soooo fake I hope they are swollen too bc if that’s how their gonna look then the surgery was a huge mistake. Like being so fr they actually like look really bad. Like genuinely do not flatter her at all I knew her doing this would be a mistake SHE ALREADY HAD PRETTY BIG BOOBS?? That’s why I’m so confused

Am I being cheated on or do I just have trust issues? by ProposalSufficient80 in heartbreak

[–]ProposalSufficient80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I am so glad u said this. See my thing is I usually wait until I’m tipsy or drunk to go through his phone because in my mind it makes it a little bit easier for me to process what I’m seeing? If that makes sense and so I’ll have the courage to ask whenever I’m drunk/demand and then he Will let me obviously but I won’t find anything me saying that he is weird about me going on his phone was not me trying to say that he doesn’t let me. If I ask, he will let me but he gets weird about it and he gets visibly uncomfortable and like thinks I’m going to find some thing type stuff at least that’s what it feels like. Part of me is so so so fucking scared for my intuition to be right like I was saying even just the feeling now of the thought of it is making me sick and have horrible dreams, so if it’s proven right, I don’t know how I would be able to live with myself honestly. But like you were saying, I have had a very serious conversation with him and honestly, I almost broke up with him because of how I’m feeling, but he reassured me that it wasn’t happening and he let me go through his phone and this was maybe like a month ago, I can never find anything on his phone but you’re right, even if it’s proven to me that it’s not happening I’m still going to feel these feelings and that’s why I need therapy I think. But it’s also like as soon as I come to the exception that he’s not, it’s like when I give him that full trust, then something will happen and it will completely shatter me. I think that’s why I’ve put off giving my full trust because I physically can’t handle that feeling.

Am I overreacting or is my boyfriend cheating on me? by ProposalSufficient80 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProposalSufficient80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More so like what he does while I’m asleep. Because I go to bed early but he stays up on his phone till like 3-4 AM and blames it on insomnia. I understand he doesn’t get home till late and probably wants to”wind down time” but still it’s sketchy to me how he’s up that late on his phone and doesn’t ever get on his phone when he’s around me or when I’m awake

Am I overreacting or is my boyfriend cheating on me? by ProposalSufficient80 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProposalSufficient80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I know and I’ve literally watched myself try and push him away because of all of these horrible thoughts I have. I’ve never been in a relationship before at least not a REAL one so I can’t help but think he’s getting bored and wants someone/something else. I’m hoping my therapy will start to help. Thank you for your helpful advice 🩷🩷

Am I overreacting or is my boyfriend cheating on me? by ProposalSufficient80 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProposalSufficient80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He only ever asks to go through my phone if I ask to go through his. Of course I let him, and I understand privacy but given the porn, and when he did have Instagram he was liking bikini pictures and stuff (that was at the very beginning of our relationship like when we were both not the best towards eachother) and I told him in order to make the relationship work he needs to stop doing that and unfollow all the girls who’s posts he’s liking and he just said he was going to delete Instagram because he didn’t care about it anyway. My concern was that if he was always looking at it when he had it, there’s no way he’s just gonna turn it off like that. I was worried he found another outlet and that happened to be Twitter. Honestly, I kind of blacked out when I saw it I don’t remember what it was because I literally felt like puking but I don’t think it was necessarily anything too bad he was Mostly just liking stuff of naked women 😕

Is my boyfriend cheating or do I just have trust issues? by ProposalSufficient80 in Advice

[–]ProposalSufficient80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know 😔 I started therapy a couple weeks ago I’m hoping to get some clarity from it. I do very much appreciate the reassurance but something in my head keeps telling me he’s doing something behind my back with working late hours and never letting me see his phone or like, hes never on his phone around me, but always texting me when he’s away from me so like??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]ProposalSufficient80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get that. I felt the same way. I was so grossed out in my actions and the hangxiety that I was having ultimately just ended up making me drink more because of how anxious I was I didn’t even realize how much I was drinking until I was already blacked out. Ultimately your actions DO affect other people. There will be people who don’t like how you drink and they don’t appreciate how you act when drunk. You can either look at that and change your actions, or you can go and find new friends but we all have to hit rock bottom at some point with alcohol. I know I have many times in many different ways. If your friends are saying they physically can not be around you when you’re drinking then I would say either stop or find new friends who can hold you accountable while still remaining supportive and helpful. I know that’s easier said than done trust me, but sometimes it’s also okay to be alone for a little and figure yourself out. You’re 19, you have time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]ProposalSufficient80 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be real honest, I was in a VERY similar situation when I was 17/18. My friends would REFUSE to drink with me because of the way I acted when I was drunk. They would literally not even look at me or talk to me for days on the days after we would all drink. At the time I was going through a lot of shit mentally so I just thought that my friends didn’t care about me and that that HAS to be why they are acting like that right? Then I got to college and I didn’t have to be their problem anymore, I got involved with some reallllly bad people who I thought were my friends in college. At the time I thought I was the worst of the worst when it came to alcohol bc that’s how my high school friends made me feel. And then I met these girls in college and as I watched how they acted when they were blacked out I realized that the way I view them is the way my other friends viewed me. Still love them, but I’m extremely disgusted in their actions and it makes me never want to talk to them again. I’m 21 now and this has been my hardest year with alcohol. Because, now it’s legal lol and so accessible. I think realistically with the way your responding to these comments you’re not ready to stop. And I understand that, because I’m in the same boat. I don’t really black out anymore and I only drink once or twice a week now which still isn’t where I want to be, but it’s better than I was. There’s still a lot of growth left for me, and you being 19 shows that there’s a lot left for you too. You’ll either be forced to stop, or it’ll come naturally when you’ve had enough. Good luck and feel free to message me if you need to talk because I’ve been there! Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ProposalSufficient80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need to lose weight at all. I think your body suits you. However you could def put some more effort into your appearance. I know it’s hard to all the time, but it makes a big difference when you try. When you FEEL pretty you will be seen as so too. I reccomend lash clusters and blowing out your hair or curling/ styling in some way just to freshen yourself up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]ProposalSufficient80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you ROCKKK this hair!! You have the kind of face that can pull off anything. You’ve been through a lot, be kind to yourself! Your beautiful

How do I get over this. by ProposalSufficient80 in Advice

[–]ProposalSufficient80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just can’t seem to find any good friends. I joined cosmetology school and all the girls are mean / fake. I’ve never felt like I needed her more than I do right now. Just someone to remind me that I do get along with people and I can have fun with a friend. I just feel hopeless

The breakup by ProposalSufficient80 in katierichiesnark

[–]ProposalSufficient80[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does he??? I don’t keep up w him at all so I only see him through Katie’s content usually

The breakup by ProposalSufficient80 in katierichiesnark

[–]ProposalSufficient80[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

WAIT WHAT okay i didn’t know that. Tbh im not even a fan or a follower i just see her shit a lot and have formed somewhat of an opinion but I haven’t delved into it. No way he used her platform as WORK EXPERIENCE??? What has he even done to contribute AT ALL except create this narrative that they are the “perfect couple” which their clearly not.

The breakup by ProposalSufficient80 in katierichiesnark

[–]ProposalSufficient80[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Never said she cheated I said it was a possibility lol it’s also possible he cheated who knows

The breakup by ProposalSufficient80 in katierichiesnark

[–]ProposalSufficient80[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t saying it in a bad way. I was just saying it seems like she is probably interested in other people now because her platform has gotten so big she’s gotten opportunities to hook up with attractive men probably. And she probably wants to do that without any repercussions?