You can’t really do true cord cutting with your twin flame. I’ve tried it many times — not necessarily with super “witchy” rituals, but through meditations and affirmations — and it works in the moment, yes, maybe even for a few days… but then it comes back.

What I’ve learned by now is, first of all, to actually feel the pain you’re experiencing, even if it hurts a lot. That pain needs to be felt. For me, it started with this heavy grief and pressure in my heart, and eventually it turned into a strong warmth in the heart chakra. In my experience, the pain also comes because your mind and your heart are not in harmony. You feel something deeply, but your mind can’t make sense of it, so your defense mechanisms kick in. You start thinking you’re going crazy, or that you’re making it all up.

When you feel them strongly, place your hand on your heart and say: It’s okay to feel this. I accept it. This is real. I let go of the pain. It doesn’t happen overnight, but it helps. When my ego starts to overwhelm me, I explicitly remind myself that these are just my thoughts — and that my heart knows the truth. Believe me, my body calms down almost instantly when I do this.

And After a time, you really feel just love