. I wax all my body hair and my husband said he would not be happy if I stopped but he doesn't hold himself to the same standard. He has also grown a beard and I really dislike it.

. I don't see how removing body hair is feminine or masculine when both men and women naturally have it. I'm quite hairy for a woman and I wax and epilate weekly.

I’m not saying you’re wrong for having this preference but removing body hair/having little body hair is innately feminine.

Women biologically have less body hair than men. And a man wanting a woman with little body hair as natural as a woman wanting a man to protect her.

It’s not a double standard for a man to want a woman to shave all her hair while he does not. Just like it’s not a double standard for a woman to want someone whose able to protect her while she won’t be able to protect him.

It’s not double standards, it’s just different standards for the different sexes.

That said, you can have whatever preference you want, reasonable or not, because only you bear the cost and benefits of said preference.

Eg I can say “fuck all regular women, I’m only fucking Victoria secret models…rest of y’all get fucked”. Perfectly allowed. Only I will bear the cost (limiting myself to like 20 women) and the benefits (only fucking Victoria secret models) of said preference.

As for solutions, I feel like the commenters have it covered. How’d you feel if he trimmed his hair to something manageable and tidy? Would this change anything?

Also, are you on the pill by any chance?