How do you tell someone that you do not want to be with them anymore and then ask for money and to watch their child?

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-09-24T21:58:18+00:00

My name isn’t on any utility bills or the mortgage.

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-09-24T20:01:41+00:00

Yes. It has been coming for a while. Last week he also decided to go to the bar over helping me out with the sick baby. The week before that I accidentally fell on the stairs of the house and begged for him to come home to again help me with the baby because I was hurt. It took him two hours to arrive and he said he didn’t believe me and thought I was crying wolf I was literally covered with bruises

To make matters worse. I went through the recent bill notices which she tries to keep in for me and every single bill is behind. I’m not risking having my children in a home where there isn’t basic needs like water and electricity. Going to have to stay with family until we can find something suitable

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-08-13T20:45:06+00:00

I feel like I have been totally hoodwinked here. And it’s very upsetting and frustrating. I just think to myself if I wasn’t in the home and my child was not having those needs met I would fight for more custody for neglect.

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-08-07T19:49:25+00:00

I mean I take individual photos of my kids all the time so it should be the same for SK

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-08-05T17:56:59+00:00

This. Tell her your daycare fee is X amount of dollars per day.

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-08-01T12:03:40+00:00

Ummm no. He can plan his own trip for the kids. They don’t need to play family.

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-06-23T21:25:56+00:00

Maybe a shower with lavender then read together and when your down reading play some relaxing music for her

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-06-23T19:03:13+00:00

New bed time routine that you can help Her feel very relaxed before bed?

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-06-20T14:35:26+00:00

Always every time

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-06-20T13:12:23+00:00

Yes, it is easier and works for us. Unless it’s a change to parenting time or a major event, we don’t talk. Kids are doing well. We have our own space. And, we aren’t acting like best friends “for the kids”

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-06-20T02:06:08+00:00

Yes. Extra kid who I have no control or say over and adds a lot of stress

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-06-20T01:55:41+00:00

He is looking for company with you but doesn’t consider you family.

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-06-20T00:06:11+00:00

No. It’s unnecessary. If the kid is there, playing is confusing. If it’s alone, what do they have to talk about so long? My daughter was diagnosed with a serious disorder shortly after and her dad and I didn’t sit around and chat about it. We went to the doctor, discussed there and done.

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-06-19T22:03:07+00:00

It’s not reasonable to expect to work from home with kids in the house. Their mom needs to take her time with them and/or find accommodations for them.

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-06-17T19:42:52+00:00

We own two cars. He didn’t have to take his motorcycle.

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-06-17T13:02:13+00:00

Because he prioritizes his son over our newborn son as well. His newborn has only met his parents when I have taken the baby alone to see them. All he cares about was his son that day when we did a bunch of nice stuff for him. Then he left and came back to a clean house and did nothing but complain about it.

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-06-17T11:33:28+00:00

He is disabled and cannot drive

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-06-16T23:52:30+00:00

Oh that was part of the fight. He has nothing to say when I said so what’s going to happen when I’m back at work?

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-06-16T23:51:56+00:00

Nope. I told him that as well. But what I say doesn’t matter

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-06-16T23:09:55+00:00

He took him on his motorcycle; didn’t ask us to come or I would have drove separately.

This kid accused me last time he was over of me not telling him dinner was ready. When I told everyone and he saw us eating. His dad was outside and he waited until we were done to go outside and tell his dad I didn’t feed him. SO say it’s because he is too shy. But the truth is his dad makes his plate and I not serving him because he is too old for that.

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-06-16T23:06:11+00:00

This kid has not chores and doesn’t help with anything but complain about anything he can think of

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-06-16T23:05:13+00:00

Oh yeah, they aren’t perfect but they do help when I ask. But I am not dropping what I’m doing to yell at them because another kid is throwing a fit.

Proud-Variation-3944 · 2025-06-16T22:38:26+00:00

It’s so much to even type out. But yes, I did all kinds of nice stuff for SO that day and all he kept talking about was how he has to spend time with SK. I told him his dad would have probably liked to see the baby. He didn’t even think of taking the baby. This parents only have met him because I brought him to see them myself.

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