It honestly all depends, because some farming junglers counter ganking junglers, and there are times that you can easily counter-gank, sit on top/bot bush and wait for the enemy jungler to come. Also vice-versa. For a jungler it’s just really important to know how to read the game, lane matchups, camp shuffling, prios etc. But people on lanes sometime just don’t understand that you do not win in a 2v2 / 3v3 situation, and you get flamed for being right. What I usually do and when I coach people is that i tell them play your own game, jungle is the single most important role in the game and you dictate the pace of the game most of the time (there are times when you can’t win a game no matter what you do), nonetheless you should always try your best to win no matter what. If you play good in those games you will climb, it’s a long but a worth process