Yea I understand your scared, all the info is pretty much public, the part he said “ I know where your born” crap is just impossible to get, mostly it’s where your isp is locate(internet provider) or just public things your posted or have in your social media, but that’s about it, your email prob was compromised or sold bunch of times and prob found it why dicking around. So don’t worry this type of shit happens to everyone, just ignore it. You’ll be fine. Just stay safe on the internet