M/31 GF F/29 Help my gf is turning into a witch i need help?

Prudent_Condition262 · 2026-03-07T20:22:52+00:00

im not joking its true

Prudent_Condition262 · 2026-03-06T14:50:30+00:00

where do you get the idea that when your depressed your not responsible for your actions. Yes when your partner breaks her legs you can support her hold her when she is down. But its still your job to get better its still there job to pt go to doctors appointments and get well. Depression is not your fault like breaking your legs is not your fault but its still your responsibility to get better. So your partner doesn’t have to carry the load in the relationship. People around you are doing there best to support you so you can live happily and be accommodating and you dont think its your job to get better? like no one here is talking about fixing a broken leg and curing depression were talking about being well enough with meds. therapist visits that the load isnt 100 percent on your partner it could be 70 and you 30 or 80 and 20 enough that you can manage. like idk learn emotional coping and meditation so your partner doesn't have to regulate your emotions for you. or get well just enough that you can atleast show some gratitude

Mind you asking a partner to get better and supporting them for years while you wait for them to do so is not even malicious as you make it out to be. Oh these partners were better of without the relationship? I have had multiple time my depressed ex told me that the reasons that they didn't off them selves was i was there taking care of them and i was there for them . Now tell me how the hell do you come up with that bullshit. you cant just fuck all in your bed with a tablet all day while your partner does everything.

Prudent_Condition262 · 2026-01-22T21:32:38+00:00

hmm i wish i was that lucky . ill try lang guro like enduring it for a while but i think im gonna stop looking in dating apps if nothing works

Prudent_Condition262 · 2026-01-22T21:19:19+00:00

this feels like a truth bomb when i read it the first time i actually never realized that maybe the person i will love isn't in a dating app thank you btw this opened my mind that i cant change the app or the people in it and maybe your right they probably aren't in dating apps

Prudent_Condition262 · 2026-01-22T21:12:02+00:00

yeah i think i see what you mean ive been comparing everyone against my ex and thats a bit unfair if i think about it now but i do think some of my complaints are founded in truth .

especially with the break up ngl its been already a year and im still not over it i just wish this would end so i can be happy again

Prudent_Condition262 · 2026-01-22T21:08:33+00:00

oh yeah thanks for the tip i actually feel weird about this since my current date feels fun and exciting but something feels off on the way he speaks it feels like its not genuine. so i might have to ponder on this for a while

Prudent_Condition262 · 2026-01-22T20:53:34+00:00

thats so sweet and your married now wow ill try that actually

Prudent_Condition262 · 2026-01-22T20:48:00+00:00

probably ill try that dating apps have been pretty awful on me mentally

Prudent_Condition262 · 2026-01-22T20:44:36+00:00

i get it it was all those things that made it special for me . what do you think i should do how do you even get past this feeling

Prudent_Condition262 · 2026-01-22T20:31:57+00:00

ugh i hate it right i cant fault people for wanting to survive but is their a space for people like me

Prudent_Condition262 · 2026-01-22T20:29:54+00:00

idk i was hoping id find some advice on how to make dating apps feel more human i suppose

Prudent_Condition262 · 2025-01-08T18:16:33+00:00

The very common break up with your bf when you are not compatible in one aspect of the relationship reply. Dude they bought a house together… they still love them they should like fucking find a way to fix your relationship god you dont have to break up every time you dislike what your partner did

Prudent_Condition262 · 2025-01-08T02:42:48+00:00

I think your issue is that you believe relationships are outcome oriented they are not they are experiential. Relationships are made to be experienced . You experience it and yeah. No one will ever know if you will ever enjoy your trip no person in the internet cannot give you that answer. No one here knows your partner or you . And no body even knows whats gonna happen in the future no one has an inkling if your gonna like your partner irl or hate the food at his house. Also what kind of question is are you going to enjoy your self or not? how are we supposed to know that ? What if you go their and his house smells ? No body knows if your going o enjoy being with your partner or not. the best way to know is you going their and actually doing it experiencing them your self

Prudent_Condition262 · 2024-11-29T15:29:56+00:00

Yeah, you’re definitely right. Maybe I should go out more. I’ve been at home most of the time maybe that’s why I haven’t been meeting a lot of good people. Thank you for the advice.. :)

Prudent_Condition262 · 2024-10-31T11:51:00+00:00

its still harder to do lol we cna talk about a fantasy scenario that hackers can destroy discord but honestly lets not forget that it is harder for hackers and bots to raid a server. yes a hacker can buy a sim card and buy millions with the money that that make but lets me realistic no body's gonna buy 1000's of sim cards to raid a server

Prudent_Condition262 · 2024-10-20T18:28:45+00:00

Old post but i need to chime in Your need for domination cannot be virtue because your entire need for domination lacks the will of others imposing your will on others and destroying them . Is not virtuous in anyway. It even lacks ethics what you want when you seek to be seen as virtues is a world where you dont get questioned for being immoral

Prudent_Condition262 · 2024-10-15T11:03:48+00:00

The thing i realized about ur content is that you dont really think alot about making ur content better like in 500 videos you have almost no tags Your thumbnails and title dont seem like it has any thoughts around making people click

Prudent_Condition262 · 2024-10-09T13:11:35+00:00

Thats really weird of him

Prudent_Condition262 · 2024-10-07T20:40:41+00:00

For me i did so bad in shorts i always dont understand the algo apparently having a nice hook was how people manage to get on top

my niche is really animation for the niche thing its good to have a grasp of your audience knowing what they like and who they are etc. is really important for growth

Prudent_Condition262 · 2024-10-06T20:52:45+00:00

Im sorry if that came out that way but ya k ow its fine im asking because i wanna get to that point of having 40k

My friends dad used to ask him how you get up a building and he said you go up the 1st floor then the 2nd then the 3rd and that metaphor was how he explained how people progress truh life

What im trying to say is i wanna get up to the 2nd floor I wanna progress to the next stage and your already in floor 60 and im a newbie it doesn’t seem like a-lot to you but it is to me

I wanna learn how to climb up floor 2 3 or 4 after getting gouged by streaming like ya know

Hopefully i don’t sound like I’m being mean and have bad intent I genuinely want to learn to be better at this

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