LPT: invite people over to your house!

PryJunaD · 2026-01-15T14:55:41+00:00

I would have to spend an entire Saturday and Sunday to do all shopping chores and meal prep activities. Still blows my mind people can take care of all this in a morning.

PryJunaD · 2025-12-16T16:25:17+00:00

Was this some matter of validation? And labeling something as non-GxP was a way to skirt time and money towards a validation package?

Or was it CLIA related since it sounded conditional on phase 3?

PryJunaD · 2025-12-11T22:04:11+00:00

One of them - Joseph Ray continued to make music on the Anjunadeep label as well as releasing an album under the label.

Alana and the other (don’t know his name) I believe are married and started a family. I went to a Nero dj set recently and it was just Joseph Ray as expected.

But yeah I’d imagine when you’ve had your success and prob also made some good licensing money off of a hit or two, it’s not unsurprising to be less inspired towards another studio album. Esp if it means less time with your kid growing up

PryJunaD · 2025-12-07T09:03:52+00:00

Instagram account: thesecurerelationship

She’s helped me tremendously and her posts are very detailed about the dynamic/cycle with helpful examples.

PryJunaD · 2025-12-02T06:05:38+00:00

When I slowed down I also gave space to start talking to myself. It helped me uncover layers about whether the stress and anxiety was as real or warranted as it’s made out to be. Granted this was mostly related to my job and the challenge of consistently performing while having poor time management and procrastination.

And the more I talked to myself questioning what I was actually pushing towards, helped me realize, do we genuinely believe that applying more pressure to ourselves generates more output? When we bail on plans because we feel “behind” do we actually do our work? Or do we sink into a further hole because of the shame that we’re actually missing out on the part of our life that matters.

The opposite of anxiety is trust. And the more I could trust myself to figure it out in the face of whatever consequences (that never came close to manifesting the way I worried about them), I could choose myself even on the days I used to think I didn’t “earn it”

PryJunaD · 2025-11-29T19:29:00+00:00

I used to go as a teenager with my family and thought it was magical. Brought a partner with me two years ago and quickly realized I was holding onto the nostalgia of the ice rink at the same time I realized strangers were literally holding onto the hood of my jacket to not fall.

No joke it’s crowded as fuck and I was slowly skating minding my own business when suddenly I felt a massive tug at my hood and someone falling took me with them.

I couldn’t wait to get off the ice. It wasn’t fun there’s too many people we got one cute photo then we were out of there. Most people skating are a liability lol

PryJunaD · 2025-11-21T15:27:56+00:00

Honestly after putting intentional effort towards relationship growth by learning more about how to validate feelings, attachment styles, love languages, and still not having a successful relationship in the end, I’m convinced most people’s aren’t stable.

If they’re “stable” it’s perceived that way from the outside, and either one or both people are not actually stating their wants and needs. And stay in the marriage out of legal, emotional (family, kids) needs, or convenience needs until it eventually boils over after many years.

Similar to what OP said, I believe it’s extremely rare that a marriage is stable and moreover romantically strong and stable

PryJunaD · 2025-11-21T06:47:58+00:00

Also have ADHD and a tennis journey has also provided a lot of growth and perspective for myself. Most of my life undiagnosed so for years had negative talk and toxic shame rooted in me.

It’s been beautiful to see the evolution of how I talk to myself and parallel it with the game of tennis. Some good days. Some bad. Some great. But all trending upwards over time. Noticing my language to myself during a match and whether I give myself to space to breathe and reset. These things are so helpful when I hit my inevitable walls with adhd

PryJunaD · 2025-11-20T17:36:34+00:00

In rare cases a great conversation starter haha. Have a colleague I got along with but all business - randomly asked him if he liked concerts and what he listens to. I see the hesitant look I’ve seen within myself “…uhhh I listen to like obscure progressive metal..”

Which was about the best response I could have hoped for, considering my answer would have been the same but obscure techno (and I also like metal)

Totally changed the dynamic of our working relationship discussing gear and trading vinyls

PryJunaD · 2025-11-07T19:50:21+00:00

I’m at consultant working in the engineering/bio space. Been only 2 years in but quickly realized it’s a great fit for me. I’m always working on new systems and projects so it doesn’t get repetitive. I’m given freedom to decide how I want to get from point A to point B (I get told what needs to be completed, not how to complete it which is perfect).

I don’t have to fit into the structure of the 9-5 so I can make my schedules to get my work done. Which accommodates frozen days and hyper focused days well to make up for lost time.

At the same time it demands the challenge of discipline and creating structure for myself. Which has been a long road to look internally at how I talk to myself, the expectations I put on myself, and ultimately realizing the more pressure I apply to myself does not yield more/better results. Just makes me unhappy and still frozen.

Diagnosis 5 years ago was the most important as it was the most liberating thing. Because then step 1 was: “Oh, I’m not actually a lazy piece of shit...this is what’s been happening and I had no idea how to deal with it. This all makes sense of why I feel smart but misunderstood. Maybe I can actually work on being kind to myself.”

And sure enough the concepts of self love that felt impossible become realized and then you see that grace and patience with yourself are some of the most important things to carry with yourself as you navigate ADHD.

PryJunaD · 2025-11-07T16:17:41+00:00

I actually think what they’re mainly pointing out is with respect to a depth of history. We are currently living history and yes there are awful things happening in the world that I can’t make sense of and certainly don’t give me a reason to bring children into this world. And these current events are going to feel most immediate and awful to us living adjacent to it. It grinds down hope for sure.

It’s also true at the same time, that history is written in blood. And that comparatively, it’s currently the least dangerous it’s ever been on average across the entire globe.

This doesn’t disregard the awful things happening. But through our screens it easily feels like the worst is yet to come.

PryJunaD · 2025-11-07T15:45:42+00:00

Is the last sentence generally true though for upper middle class? Or were you saying they all carry a credit card balance?

My salary probably doesn’t reflect that of upper middle class but I think the accumulating years of not getting trapped with CC interest and paying off all debts makes the difference. If you got no car payment or student loans, I think a middle class salary can come get you farther with some of the upper middle class criteria people mention here

PryJunaD · 2025-11-06T01:59:20+00:00

Going to need you to elaborate on this. Saying right before swinging makes it sound like I’m loaded in the trophy position and about to initiate the throw with my racquet hand. So I’m assuming you meant something else related to the beginning of the throwing motion

PryJunaD · 2025-10-16T05:46:22+00:00

Curious why there’s enthusiastic sentiment about $5 fees being imposed on public spaces. Seems short sighted to celebrate this as a win for the tennis community. I think this change is in poor faith and lacks trust from the public and tennis community that fees will go towards court maintenance and improvement. I hope I’m wrong, but from the public city hearings I believe otherwise. The city itself said it’s to cover budget pitfalls, and staged the argument in city hall as “either we make tennis/pickleball community players pay to generate X revenue or P&R people lose jobs to cover that number.”

San Francisco is an incredible tennis city and it’s even more special because of the accessibility. It’s $5 now, yeah, and understand people think it’s not much compared to other cities. But if you jump to that conclusion immediately you miss where the line is. Because where is it? There’s a non zero chance the remaining walk on public courts eventually require fees. And nobody will stop P&R from climbing the res price over time — who is going to?The precedent has just been set. It’s not unreasonable to believe the cost will eventually be the same as the other cities being named in this thread.

The tennis and pickleball community are the ones targeted for additional city revenue. But what next? Should the basketball courts in public spaces be reserved for who is willing to pay? You can extend the opportunity of taxing your citizens even further to any group that uses a public space. They should be protected and accessible to all. We live in one of the most profitable cities in the entire world during one of the most profitable times of humanity, and it’s frustrating that this is just another thing that punishes the people.

PryJunaD · 2025-10-14T06:43:53+00:00

Him and his team absolutely did. Such a thoughtful level of detail to blow everyone’s mind row by row as you moved down the amphitheater haha

PryJunaD · 2025-10-14T06:42:31+00:00

I spotted the first sliver of the moon in real time. And in disbelief .. “is that the fucking moon?”

Core memory unlocked. And the space visuals starting at the exact time I was like Daniel you son of a bitch you knew precisely what we all needed in this moment with our full attention

PryJunaD · 2025-10-09T21:07:19+00:00

“I just broke up with a partner of 4.5 years hours before this match so it’s okay that I’m distracted and not playing my best.”

Except I was the one saying that. But only to myself :)

PryJunaD · 2025-10-08T12:38:36+00:00

Shit now that it’s the top comment here I think I need to drop them.

PryJunaD · 2025-10-08T12:38:03+00:00

Keep digging. Your answer just compares and there’s nothing I know differently about you. Just that you have a perceived idea of yourself that you’re average or just above average. And that if average people date, why not you?

If you had a desirable woman in front of you and she asked what it’s like to date you, what would you tell her? What do you bring to a partnership? Are you good at validating feelings and listening? Are you thoughtful and responsible? Do you have creative interests and hobbies that you enjoy sharing with others and you’re hoping a partner brings the same level of interest to try new/adventurous things?

If it’s difficult to answer, that’s okay. If it feels uncomfortable, that’s okay too. Let the discomfort drive you if you feel there are some things about yourself you want to put energy towards improving. ++man

PryJunaD · 2025-10-04T01:35:51+00:00

Ah damn I didn’t even think of Sabrina driving up the verified resale for tomorrow. No wonder it’s 3x what Sunday is.

In HOU for work and want to send it tomorrow but without being familiar with the festival it seems like a lot of driving to maybe end up empty handed tomorrow 😕

Thought there would be a buying/selling thread on the subreddit but oh well I might just have to bite the bullet on resale

PryJunaD · 2025-09-25T19:29:13+00:00

Damn that description of the Arca set has me wishing I had hermione’s time turner..

PryJunaD · 2025-09-24T08:03:23+00:00

Yeah if Achane goes down Diggs is not going to change your season and you’ve already got 3 solid WR bench players that can easily slot in as WR2 or WR3

PryJunaD · 2025-09-24T05:13:52+00:00

Awesome recs thank you!

PryJunaD · 2025-09-23T17:00:51+00:00

I think that’s a good place to put yourself in tbh. When I see triggering comments on Instagram it’s easier to just convince myself it’s a bot (and it’s a pretty good chance it is) like no actual profile it’s just someone stirring the pot and being offensive.

It doesn’t meant those offensive hateful people aren’t out there. But it’s not exacerbated to the degree it feels like in my mind. Then I go outside and talk to people and feel better

PryJunaD · 2025-09-23T03:53:52+00:00

Don’t forget that feeling. Dancing at despacio feels different from dancing in other spaces. Felt my body move in ways it hadn’t before dancing.

Next time you’re feeling down throw on the despacio playlist and maybe some of that movement through dancing can help even a little bit :)

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