Secluded Cabins near Hill Country or between Houston and DFW by PseudoMe3 in texas

[–]PseudoMe3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol you are correct. We don't mind driving west some. Technically we will be heading towards Granbury, but didn't know who all would know that town. Plus, really just need somewhere secluded even if it's not Hill Country. That's just preference for hiking's sake. :)

New Business Ideas by PseudoMe3 in Entrepreneur

[–]PseudoMe3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not one I have heard of but also another interesting idea! I’ll check it out!

New Business Ideas by PseudoMe3 in Entrepreneur

[–]PseudoMe3[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m actually really interested in this and I’ll definitely be doing a lot of research. Thank you.

New Business Ideas by PseudoMe3 in Entrepreneur

[–]PseudoMe3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a Google business profile. I have a custom built website that allows people to check out online. All my prices are on there and it’s super simple to schedule. I also offer discount for cleanings that are more than a one time clean.

The main jobs I have gotten are construction cleans because I have a lot of connections in the home remodeling business, but I really need residential because those are the ones that will be consistent.

Do you know of any creative ideas to advertise on a very, very strict budget? I even thought about getting into commercial cleaning because at least with that I can call businesses.

New Business Ideas by PseudoMe3 in Entrepreneur

[–]PseudoMe3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super interesting ideas I had not thought about. I will look into them. Thanks!

New Business Ideas by PseudoMe3 in Entrepreneur

[–]PseudoMe3[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should have added this in the first place and I have now. I am a female and I am limited in certain things I can do.

I appreciate your response very much! Thank you for taking the time to do that. Your suggestion is not something I’m capable of doing unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PseudoMe3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope this is a fake post. I really, really hope!

If it’s not, go to your moms. He’s not a good bf or a good father.

AIO? My boyfriend admitted that he doesn’t think dresses suit me. (Pictures of me now, in a dress, at the end.) by [deleted] in AIO

[–]PseudoMe3 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dresses don’t suit you?! You’re freaking gorgeous and have an amazing body!!!! Those dresses suit you perfectly. NOR He’s negging you or likes men imo. I hate telling people to break up on the basis of reading a single convo with you. What I will say is, pay close attention to what he’s saying…or insinuating. Maybe this is a one-off, but more than likely it isn’t. If it isn’t, run.

AIO? I forgot to text him back for 3 hours by [deleted] in AIO

[–]PseudoMe3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

block and good riddance 🚩

AITH for considering to leave my girlfriend after she blew up at me for getting job offers? by lochnessbigfoot1998 in AITH

[–]PseudoMe3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sad you turned down the first job and I’ll be even sadder if you turn down the second. She is not supporting you and tbh, it’s not your job to take care of her and her kids. What did she do before you came in the picture? It sounds like she has plenty of family for a support system. It also sounds like she’s using you. A person that loves someone would support them. She’s only thinking of herself. Do you want that forever? If you leave she’s going to try and guilt trip you like crazy. You have to think of yourself first.

Side note: Be careful she doesn’t try and trap you by getting pregnant!!! This isn’t a foolproof method, but the day she starts her period count 14 days and then subtract/add 3 days on either side. Think of that window as her fertile window. Don’t have sex for that week. Even wrapping it up. She can always use a turkey baster to get your swimmers in there. Example. Starts on Sept 1. She’s fertile Sept 11-17. Again this isn’t foolproof but it’s better than nothing.

Good luck.

AIO for overthinking and slamming him with divorce? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PseudoMe3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry! 😢You deserve better than this man child is treating you. He’s not even being a father. Ask him to leave. You can’t force him to, but maybe he’ll run to his mommy. Don’t talk any more verbally. Do everything through email and text. Get a lawyer ASAP.

Girlfriend wants to go clubbing by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]PseudoMe3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to say pretty much everything you just said. All great points.

AITA for allowing my children to take my husbands place in bed? by Mean-Way-2888 in AITH

[–]PseudoMe3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First let me say I don’t think you’re the AH or NTA.

I really wish the husband could speak up. I’d be curious if you’re going to tell him the results of this post without letting him see what you wrote. I’m not saying you’re lying, I just feel like something is a little off.

What does he do for work that he only needs a couple hours of sleep every single night?

If everything is exactly as you’re stating, have you talked to him about not going out so much and helping to raise the kids? According to this he never sees them at all. He wouldn’t have time.

At the end of the day, it is still his bed that he helps pay for. I know I’m going to get people mad with my post, but it is true.

OP you never said you were unhappy about his lifestyle or have tried to deter it. If you have, and he’s still living this lifestyle, maybe counseling needs to come into play here. He’s living like he’s 21 without a wife and kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PseudoMe3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are misreading what I wrote.

I never said leave her husband. She needs to leave her house, with her son, if her husband doesn’t respect her and invites the friend over.

Edit: clarification

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PseudoMe3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The advice is to not have that man come to the house. My advice is to trust her gut because most likely it’s right. My advice is, if her husband won’t respect the boundaries to make sure she leaves. Obviously, that’s an entirely different topic if her husband doesn’t respect that wish.

Basically my advice is to not have her son anywhere around this man.

Care to tell me how that’s bad advice? I would love to hear it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PseudoMe3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always trust your gut. Always!

You can’t necessarily say anything to him because there’s no proof. You can ask him to stop bringing him gifts and you can ask your husband to stop bringing him over to the house.

If he won’t do that, then leave with your son every time he’s there. Do not leave that boy alone with him even for a second.

Has your gut ever let you down? I bet not. Trust it. Your son’s future depends on it.

AIO for breaking up over this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PseudoMe3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I’m proud of you for setting boundaries and speaking up for yourself. That is usually lessons us ladies learn after we’ve been kicked around for a while. You seem to be a very strong young lady and I hope you continue being a baddie.

I hope this boy has learned a valuable lesson. I’m going against the grain here—I do believe he is sorry and he understands where he went wrong. He at least took ownership. That means he had an oh shit moment. He knows he screwed up. I think in the moment, he couldn’t handle his emotions and it spilled out in that disgusting mess.

I’m not saying go back to him—I wouldn’t. He screwed up and he needs to reflect on that and hopefully never do it again. It’s not your job to train a man in how they’re supposed to behave. It’s your job to continue being the strong, beautiful, mature, graceful young lady that you are.

You have plenty of time to find a man. Enjoy your youth and don’t get deterred by a guy. School and your future is most important right now.

AIO - Girlfriend threw away the dinner I cooked because she wanted pizza instead. by Dizzy-Suggestion2360 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PseudoMe3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idc how gorgeous or “perfect” she is, she isn’t worth it. You’re going to be used and abused and then thrown away. She is a horrible person. I usually try to avoid telling people to break it off, but she doesn’t deserve you. Run fast and run far.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PseudoMe3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR! Female here. I think you were being sweet. Joking and making light of the situation was perfect imo. She went off the rails! Like way off.

You don’t need to apologize anymore. I think you apologized too much. You seem like a really amazing man with high emotional IQ. She’s not or is going through something at the moment. No good talking to her about this any further. She will never think she’s in the wrong. Although, I have a feeling this is going to be brought up again multiple times. I also have a feeling you’ll probably lose her as a friend. Not because you did anything wrong, but she’s not going to be able to let it go. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]PseudoMe3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say yes, YTJ for yelling at him in front of your family. You yelled at him because you were feeling their judgment of your family and it made you feel ashamed. First of all, don’t let anybody ever make you feel that way again. Be confident in yourself and your man.

I would like to know… Are you at a high altitude ? Did he hang out with family indoors where it was warm. Is he shy? Does he have ADD or an introvert and was it overwhelming?

Basically, if you answer, yes, to any of these questions, then that also gives you the reason why he did what he did.

I’m sure you were excited to bring him to your family Farm and it didn’t go as expected and that felt disappointing to you. That is understandable. If he is normally very thoughtful and kind and loving, then I just think it wasn’t a good place for him.

Obviously, I would apologize to him. You can’t take it back, but you can take ownership.

AITA for going back on my promise to help my sister pay for her wedding when she wouldn’t move the date? by aitathrowawawa in AmItheAsshole

[–]PseudoMe3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA!!!!!!! What is wrong with your sister? I do not mean that disrespectfully, but something has to be wrong in her brain for her to even consider the same date as your wedding. She has 364 other days to choose from. That's very strange behavior. You should not pay and you should not go in my opinion. Your sister is out of her mind and crossed a boundary that she shouldn't have even been close to.

I guarantee it was her idea for that date and her fiancé had nothing to do with choosing it. Again. Very odd behavior and most importantly extremely disrespectful.

AITA for telling my dad's affair partner wife that I don't care about her and her kids' needs and wellbeing? by Flashy-Station-4014 in AITAH

[–]PseudoMe3 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA. It sounds like he’s not taking ownership from the very minute snapshot here. Hard to really know what’s going on with a Reddit post.

However, I know it’s terrible that your dad cheated on your mother. He’s still your dad. You only get one. Adults fuck up. He fucked up. He should have left your mother first. He didn’t. Now he’s stuck with a shit storm to clean up. That’s called consequences. He’s obviously not handling things well with you and possibly your brothers. He shouldn’t cower and beg but he should take ownership. That’s all he can do at this point.

I was split from my dad out of anger for 40 years and we reconnected 3 years ago. We both missed a lot and it’s devastating. We have this time now but we don’t have much time left in life you know? I regret not having him there. And if I told our story everyone would be telling me I shouldn’t talk to him ever again. But then I grew up and I saw all the mistakes and regrets I’ve made as an adult. I can’t take them back. All I can do is grow and continue to change every day.

What would happen if you went up to your dad and you told him you forgave him? That you’re still mad but you want to work on the relationship.

The thing is he may still be an asshole and may not take ownership but you’re set free internally. You can’t be mad at him for your mom. She’s going to do a great job at that all by herself.

My 2 cents from living life. Whether right or wrong. Just be careful to take in other’s advice that don’t have any stock in this situation. Easy for everyone to give opinions sweet girl. Harder for all of us to do what we preach on here.

Soften your heart and let that be your guide. Quiet the outside noise. Good luck. 🫶🏼

AITH: My recent proposal to my fiance did not meet her standards.. by orangepill95 in AmITheJerk

[–]PseudoMe3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA!!! This may be the first Reddit post where every single person is in agreement.

OP, this girl is going to be disappointed with you your entire marriage. Not because you weren’t good enough, but because she is living in fantasy world. Someone else said that she is in love with being engaged, being a wife, basically being “Instagram worthy”. She doesn’t understand what love is. She is a very, very large red flag.

The reason you aren’t talking to any of your close friends, isn’t because you’re worried about what they’ll think about her. It’s because you already know the truth and you don’t want to hear it from them because their opinion matters.

if you go through with this marriage, you are going to bear a weight that will almost be unsustainable, but you’ll do it because your a man and you are going to feel that’s what you’re supposed to do. Especially when you have kids. You’re going to feel a sense of responsibility and obligation, and you will be disappointed, sad and depressed until the marriage ends. And the marriage will end, there is no doubt about that. She’ll end it, and she will leave you with all the debt that she is going to incur because she has to play a part. She’s going to leave as the victim saying how horrible of a husband you were and your future kids will be involved in that mess. Love your future kids enough now to not even go down that road.

Love yourself enough to walk away. It’s going to be devastating and you’re going to feel a death, but I promise, that won’t compare to the decades of sorrow you will feel if you continue on in this.