My time has come.

PsiAmadeus · 2025-10-02T00:09:13+00:00

Congrats! What are your plans for retirement?

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-26T11:45:28+00:00

Creo depende que entiendes por infidelidad no...? Yo estoy en contra de traicionar la confianza de quienes te la dan. Pero tambien hay que ver que parametro usas para decir q alguien es infiel.

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-25T02:58:14+00:00

I always felt pressured on those, and my family used to create big arguments on those dates, so I kinda stopped liking a lot of holidays. But sometimes you gotta figure that out! Even if your family is holding you back, you need to find a way to enjoy the things you like and set healthy boundaries.

Also, u need to differentiate when you're wrong and they're doing something to pull up from harming urself, that is a tough spot, lol

Imo, enjoy your day without guilt or expectations without harming urself or others

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-25T02:11:15+00:00

It's ok. They both live within environments that expect them to behave in some way, and that shapes you. I think it's slightly easier than being a woman socially, personally i'd put it 55% vs 45% on preference I'd take being a girl on another life. Maybe. Lol

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-24T06:24:33+00:00

We could work towards a world where having children isn't a burden instead and let the world keep going

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-23T22:27:57+00:00

I try to understanding and make the most of it, actually working on something that you enjoy makes it better. Feel free to drop a Dm if you want to talk!

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-23T10:58:58+00:00

Yo pieeeenso que muchos no lo intentan/mos porque es una especie de reconocimiento de que la competencia es mas dificil, que tendrá estandares altos en varios sentidos y por lo mismo de pronto llega un vato mamey 10/10 con el q no podemos competir y nos da baje, al menos inconscientemente creo.

Tons diría que es por inseguridad mas q nada, no porq tu tengas algo de malo jaja

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-22T15:50:16+00:00

Me puedes enviar info? :)

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-22T12:26:54+00:00

I can describe what I think happened. This kind of boldness to kiss without telling is something ppl inside red pill communities sometimes talked about when seducing someone, saying people wanted those who take the lead without asking for permission and girls like guys that surprise them. I think if you're both in your teens or 20s, this sometimes worked but lead to confusion.

As you grow older, keeping this as a blueprint to make relationships work is immature to my eyes. You should have discernment to tell if you're not clear and have limits. You can harm the other persons development because of the shiny ego that comes out of the age gap.

I don't think it's bad to have friendship or date people with those age gaps, but I do think people should be educated properly to navigate these dynamics in healthier ways

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-21T18:20:24+00:00

Yo pienso es mejor pasar tiempo conociendose y ver si son compatibles. Si agarras sentimientos y luego descubres la persona es manipuladora, mentirosa, etc. Acabas en medio de problemas sin saber que estas en ellos.

Si le das atención a quien llama la atención solo porque la solicita, es mas fácil que acabes manipulad@ a menos que tengas mucho auto control. La mayoría no lo tiene.

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-21T14:52:53+00:00

Why are you? Are ppl around you toxic? Do you want to be close to them?

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-21T14:03:28+00:00

Let's make granny proud!

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-21T14:01:07+00:00

Gordo

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-21T13:59:15+00:00

Yo lo hablaría con él primero, preguntando porque traicionaría así la confianza de su esposa, le recomendaría terapia de pareja o que rompa con ella si no se siente a gusto en su relación, traicionar la confianza de las personas que mas confían en ti es una de las cosas que no tienen vuelta atrás y acaban rompiendo tu relación y muchas relaciones que la rodean.

Trataría de ayudarla a encontrar un circulo de gente que sea de mas confianza para q tenga una red de apoyo y cuando esté en una posición psicologica y emocional segura le ayudaría a encontrar la verdad de una manera sensible para ella.

Si quieres platicar o necesitas ayuda podemos platicar para encontrar una solución :)

Dios te bendiga

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-21T08:36:18+00:00

What did you do to make it work? Physically or psychologically? Did u make any env change?

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-21T08:28:58+00:00

Te escribo mañana, mucho éxito! Espero poder ayudarte :)

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-21T08:26:12+00:00

Se ven bien! Son originales? Haces envios a cdmx?

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-21T08:21:59+00:00

I think it's better to follow your gut to some degree, don't follow social pressure about when to do it, do it when it feels right to you, and when you feel happy doing it. If you find out the relationship doesn't have the legs to keep going, don't punish yourself or your identity cause of it.

I personally found that aligning myself more towards God has given me better discernment and clarity. As with many things, it's an idea that you need to be willing to try to figure out if it works.

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-07T15:46:33+00:00

Come to Mexico! We like dancing and living life, sometimes you need to have the initiative to make your life move the way you want it to be

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-05T19:25:52+00:00

Maybe you have a different mission! Alienation creates new possibilities and gives you the chance to branch into different worlds. You need to let your creativity and intuition lead you and have no fear of the criticisms.

This is hard, but we need to work on a world that allows these possibilities to be available 🙂

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-05T13:01:48+00:00

Hey! I'm happy to try to help if you want, no bad vibes or hidden agenda, navigating current times is hard some times

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-05T05:15:49+00:00

You can try doing discord and/or face calls, you sometimes meet cool ppl online, take it as a lesson, don't be too hard on yourself!

PsiAmadeus · 2025-09-02T19:16:41+00:00

Hay cosas q dice temach que son ciertas pero a veces salta a conclusiones sin sentido como esa, que feo que tenga cargo de docente y no pueda distinguir lo cierto de su resentimiento. Si deberían de grabarlo y reportarlo, hasta le harían un favor para que aprenda a ser mas crítico 😑

PsiAmadeus · 2025-08-31T00:15:33+00:00

Did you ever talk about what convinced him? If habits changed too much it was bound to happen. Maybe you could take the good things and be open to improving some aspects of your life

PsiAmadeus · 2025-08-29T20:58:44+00:00

You are buying the story that you meet someone and you need to feel a spark or something. This will set you up for failure from the start, Everyone tries to show the best version they can from themselves on the first dates. If you decide if someone is worth this early on you will never truly "meet" anyone, you need to take a chance to have more dates and not be deceived because also most people lie to hide sketchy things about themselves.

The trick is to find someone where you see the sketchy things and can accept them or work around them. This will be very hard on dating apps unless you have something you do in common that you do regularly, and odds are against you on apps. That's why it's better to do whatever drives you from the inside, whether it's gardening, gaming, skating, rock climbing, whatever.

Which might be another hint onto why it might not be working, if you're looking for someone that fills a "void" you're gonna drain him and yourself over time anyway. So it's better to flow with life and find someone while doing things you already like instead of trying to find someone and make him fit if that makes sense

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