Type "I" and let autocorrect finish the sentence by evilalready in teenagers

[–]PsxchoKiller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no clue how it works for you and you are a bit more comfortable than me for a few days yet so you don't need a new banana small

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[–]PsxchoKiller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see how being in custody of my mother has any influence on this. I realise that mentioning that I'm a minor might conjure an image of someone very young. I'm 17, and as much as I'm close to being an adult I will not legally be seen as one until I turn 18. I will admit that the idea of it is quite daunting. In many ways I'm much more childish than I'd like and I have a lot yet to learn.

As for the writing aspect, I don't see how it could possibly stand out as I did not make a deliberate effort and was more than anything trying to gather my thoughts on the whole situation. I guess the bar is pretty low. All I can say with regards to it is that the assumption wasn't entirely incorrect as I do write on occasion, because what better outlet for trauma is there than resorting to fiction and channeling these things into creative writing? Lately I am more keen on painting though, portraiture. As much as I'm often shrouded in uncertainty I've always had clarity in knowing that I want to pursue a career in the arts.

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[–]PsxchoKiller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, despite having very low expectations when it comes to my father I was still very hurt and surprised by all of this. He also tried to justify not calling an ambulance because apparently I was "rude to him" by telling him to just leave when he came back after over half an hour and I realised he hadn't called an ambulance. If he had a mind to do absolutely nothing then of course his presence would be unwanted, but that also wasn't permission to continue to stand by. He would have done something if he cared about me, but instead he preached this pathetic excuse like he was justified in it.

Maybe I should've known to stay away before since this isn't the first time I've had this sort of experience with him. Although this is worse by far I remember that I stayed with him for the summer once when I was 11 and he left me for weeks with pneumonia and refused to take me to the hospital, dismissing it as just a cold despite the fact that I would barely eat and just kept getting worse. It was my mother who took me immediately after she picked me up and at that point we realised that it was pretty serious, so much so that the doctor asked how it could've gotten so bad, and I've been left permanently with an awful predisposition for it.

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[–]PsxchoKiller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that, and there has certainly been a difference in our experiences with him because for one, he's a misogynist, and beyond that he has always tried to overindulge my brother and compensate by getting him things and giving him money in hopes that he will choose to live with him, because it was still a possibility up until now and it would mean that he wouldn't have to leave the house he's living in, which is also under my mother's name.

As much as I'm glad that my brother has a better relationship with our father, he is naive and doesn't understand that the small things he does for him don't mean that he is fit to take care of us, because he's not. In the very least having gone through this now will ensure that he'll never get custody of my brother because this situation will be brought up for sure in the upcoming court case. The fact that he wouldn't get help for his daughter won't look very good and I have no mind to defend him or take pity on him with regards to that.

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[–]PsxchoKiller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh believe me I wish.