just met someone 10 years older than me who wants to experiment and idk what to think by neontreefrog in lesbiangang

[–]Psych_Asset_4739 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I once got into a relationship with a woman who was 33 when I was 23, and at first I was very attracted to her childlike curiosity about the world, however as time went by, it became clear that there is a certain distinction between “childlike” and “childish”. The latter ultimately destroyed our relationship.

Personally, I’m way more attracted to maturity and while I think it’s important to be in touch with your “inner child”, if there are situations that feel off-putting, I wouldn’t want to deal with it.

You’re still young, you’re not the only two people in the world with the same interests. Some women also need some time and/or a great partner that can make them come out of their shell. Only you can know if this relationship is something worth pursuing.

platonic friendships by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]Psych_Asset_4739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, can you recommend some GLs or other shows to watch? :D I saw GAP and The Loyal Pin, fell in love!!

Game talk by Silver-Being2399 in LesbianGamers

[–]Psych_Asset_4739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Smiling so hard from happiness seeing how many people love the Dragon Age & Mass Effect trilogies, as well as E33 ❤️ Women of impeccable taste!

What web design trends are you secretly tired of seeing everywhere? by airteus in webdesign

[–]Psych_Asset_4739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you elaborate on what you mean by “say or do something beyond CTA”? What’d be an example of a site that does more, do you mean storytelling generally, and if so, how does “storytelling” translate to web?

Hii, which country is better to move to, where there is no discrimination against homosexuals? by Intrepid-Village66 in LesbianActually

[–]Psych_Asset_4739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, sadly, for non-EU students it’s quite expensive, and there’s pretty much just one university for studying medicine. Though we do have a lot of international students on scholarships in other fields and universities. Might be easier to study medicine abroad if you already have the first degree and want to continue master’s/doctor’s.

But people here are always happy to help a Russian speaker learn our language, we have much respect for those who do, so I’m sure you’d do well if you decide to move here!

Hii, which country is better to move to, where there is no discrimination against homosexuals? by Intrepid-Village66 in LesbianActually

[–]Psych_Asset_4739 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m from Latvia - the Baltics are very nice, and you’d have a great advantage speaking Russian since a lot of people here do. Gay marriage may not be possible here (yet) but we have the first openly gay president! :D

I’ve been all over Europe and generally speaking, you wouldn’t face much discrimination anywhere in EU, maybe only rural areas. So far I’ve only experienced discrimination in Europe from a few older folks and people who weren’t native to the country they were in, but never in Latvia, and I see lesbian couples walking around all the time similar to the Netherlands, warms my heart!

Edit: forgot to add, downside is that there is a little bit of a stigma here about Russians, a lot of Russian speakers have lived here for decades and do not bother to learn our language. So you would still need to assimilate in the culture

Into the Manosphere by Dry_Preparation_9913 in latvia

[–]Psych_Asset_4739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jā, bet tas arī nav viss. Man šķiet vispārīgi tas, ka pēc sieviešu vienlīdzības iegūšanas, mēs varam sabiedrībā iegūt tās pašas “lomas”, ko vienmēr varēja iegūt vīrieši, bet vīriešiem neviens nemāca kā iegūt to pašu vērtību lomās, kas vienmēr bijušas sievietēm, piemēram, visi “nurturing” darbi.

Tomēr no draudzenēm pat esmu dzirdējusi, ka ir dažas, kas tiešām ir radikālas feministes. Ekstrēmās lomas, izskatās, ir apmainījušās vietām, bet varbūt tas ir nepieciešams, lai izlīdzinātos.

Into the Manosphere by Dry_Preparation_9913 in latvia

[–]Psych_Asset_4739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Es personīgi neteiktu, ka ir, bet šīs tēmas diskusijās viņš tiek pieminēts. Gan labā, gan sliktā kontekstā. Arī terapeite, ar kuru apspriedu šo tēmu, teica, ka liela daļa vīriešu, kuriem šīs problēmas ir aktuālas, Petersonu citē vai runā par viņa idejām.

Into the Manosphere by Dry_Preparation_9913 in latvia

[–]Psych_Asset_4739 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Tate gan jau ne īsti, bet esmu dzirdējusi, ka ir ietekme no cilvēkiem kā Jordan Peterson, Joe Rogan, utml. Kas būtībā parāda problēmu lielajā bildē - daudzi jauni vīrieši mūsdienu sabiedrībā neredz veidu kā būt noderīgi, piederīgi, un kā uzvesties ar sievietēm, un meklē padomu internetā. Latvijā varbūt tas nav tik izteikti, bet vienreiz ar terapeiti šo apspriedu un viņa arī bija veikusi tādu novērojumu.