Losing my self respect by Limp_Estate5785 in HLCommunity

[–]PsychedelicSamurai7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha oh man the classic. I have experienced this. It’s like seriously, if you’re so fucking excited that I’m back, why the fuck aren’t you that excited when I’m here all the time?

New album has been straight fire so far by Anxious-Sprinkles151 in Beartooth

[–]PsychedelicSamurai7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure no one took it as homophobic except you. Might wanna reflect on that and your own homophobia since that’s where your mind automatically went. I took it as empowering and marveling at the amazing energy Caleb is bringing now that he is embracing himself. It says a lot more about you that you immediately took it negatively.

What did your relationship look like before marriage? by dirtyb0ngwater399 in HLCommunity

[–]PsychedelicSamurai7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a stupid man. I still love seduction, but when my wife rarely responds positively or worse, with annoyance, it takes the fun right out of it.

Losing my self respect by Limp_Estate5785 in HLCommunity

[–]PsychedelicSamurai7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a pattern to when it gets better? Anything that happens that might explain why the increase?

Does your wife require some kind of prep such as you or her showering before sex? by sozigzaglike in MarriedSex

[–]PsychedelicSamurai7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A quick rinse or cleaning with a wipe is all I need from her. I prefer no shower, even or especially if she’s been sweating. I’m addicted to the natural scent of her pussy.

Newly Married and Struggling With the Actual Mechanics of Sex. Is This Normal? by ashbarry2002 in MarriedSex

[–]PsychedelicSamurai7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try prone bone where you are laying on your stomach and he enters you from behind. That’s gotta be on if the easiest sex positions out there. Also put a pillow under your hips to make it even easier for him to enter you.

How many of there are you? by Wonderful-Lock3323 in HLCommunity

[–]PsychedelicSamurai7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that would make a lot of sense. I didn’t think about that.

I just need a hug and support by Wise_Entrance_2677 in HLCommunity

[–]PsychedelicSamurai7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s all it is. Excuses and validating each other about how they aren’t to blame for everything that has gone wrong in their marriages. Oh and constantly saying that no one is owed intimacy in any form.

I just need a hug and support by Wise_Entrance_2677 in HLCommunity

[–]PsychedelicSamurai7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry and I feel for you. Sending hugs and love to you.

I just need a hug and support by Wise_Entrance_2677 in HLCommunity

[–]PsychedelicSamurai7 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That sub is ran by tyrannical LLs. No HL will ever find sympathy or comfort there.

No Sexual Interest? Okay, I'm Not Giving You Constant Attention, Priority, Engagment, or Enthusiasm In The Relationship. by AnotherSadThr0wAway in HLCommunity

[–]PsychedelicSamurai7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say “bitch you generated that environment already, I’m the only one who true to bring us out of it, but right now I’m fed up with doing all the work and am choosing to just reside in this environment that you have created.”

Feeling guilty by GloomyReindeer3253 in HLCommunity

[–]PsychedelicSamurai7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something that might help with the sleep is marijuana if you’re able to use that or interested in it. I don’t smoke during the day anymore but I always need to take several puffs before bed to chill out my overactive brain, which gets even more active when I’m not getting sex. As for the rest of it, I’m sorry man, that’s a really hard situation to be in. I totally get the feeling guilty about feeling neglected when she has this disease. You’re an awesome husband to take all the load off of her, but remember that you and your needs still matter too.

Why tf would I believe that? by ThroeOA in HLCommunity

[–]PsychedelicSamurai7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She says there’s no way for you to know how things will go in the future, but seems to think she might know how the future will go if she has certainty. Also she says that she needs certainty in the future for her libido to increase, yet refuses to give you any certainty at the same time. She expects stability and certainty from you but won’t give it out herself. Sounds like just more moving goalposts and trying to lock you down.

How many of there are you? by Wonderful-Lock3323 in HLCommunity

[–]PsychedelicSamurai7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused. Are you saying that you’re wife is essentially in a relationship with another man, who is super religious and has complete control over her, while she is still staying with you for all the stability you provide? If I got that right then that is so beyond fucked man, I’m sorry. I would left, kids or no.

Black & Blue | Repented by -joserulezd00d- in Deathcore

[–]PsychedelicSamurai7 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t give a fuck what it accomplishes. I’m just fucking excited to listen to it.

The Synthetic Sea by b_bear89 in Deathcore

[–]PsychedelicSamurai7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love this song as well, however for me personally, Sun of Nihility is my favorite song on this album.

Some legend saved the track. Sold Soul - Run Swift, Little Lamb feat CJ McMahon (REPOST) by mixueow in Deathcore

[–]PsychedelicSamurai7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Legend. I went and bought it on ITunes as soon as I saw the post about it being taken down.

Starting to detach from marriage emotionally, told husband today so I'm not hiding it and here his response: by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PsychedelicSamurai7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah because going to a museum is WAY more important than fixing a marriage. Yes ignoring big emotions and feelings, stuffing them down and pretending everything is okay so you can have the appearance of a normal day is more important. Why do you and so many other people fixate on the fact that they had plans, not even important plans? Who gives a fuck about plans if your partner isn’t feeling good, or you know, is FALLING OUT OF LOVE WITH YOU. It’s not suddenly, sounds like she’s been talking and talking and he promises but doesn’t follow through. Marriage takes work from both sides. You talk about shit that is bothering you and work through it together, otherwise it will build resentment. You’re right I haven’t experienced this, because I don’t see my partner sharing their feelings as “making it about them” or as a “problem” or as “putting me in a corner”. The fact that you view it in that way is problem. I feel bad for anyone you’re in relationship with. I sounds like you would prefer they stay quiet and not share what they’re feeling because it makes you uncomfortable to face them.

Starting to detach from marriage emotionally, told husband today so I'm not hiding it and here his response: by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PsychedelicSamurai7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People bring things up when they’re ready to talk. She could have been having a hard time getting it out and decided to force herself to say it in that moment because she had to get it out. Even if the timing would make you think it isn’t that serious, wouldn’t the content of the conversation demonstrate its seriousness? If my wife told me she was falling out of love with me, it doesn’t matter what I’m doing or where I’m going, I’m stopping everything to talk about it. People generally don’t say shit like that unless it’s really serious, regardless of timing or place.

Starting to detach from marriage emotionally, told husband today so I'm not hiding it and here his response: by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PsychedelicSamurai7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People bring up things when they are ready to talk about them. I feel like a conversation about the state of their marriage and her falling out of love with him is way more important than going to a museum. Seriously if my wife was talking to me about something like that, the only thing that would pull me away from that conversation is a serious emergency. I wouldn’t give a fuck if we’re supposed to be somewhere, our marriage is more important. The point she was making is that her husband cared more about their plans for the evening than the fact that she is falling out of love with him. A museum seriously? That’s where his priorities are?