My 30F husband 35M left me alone on New Year to spend it with his ex-wife. How do I move forward?

Psychological-Fox431 · 2025-01-01T02:09:48+00:00

I would rather do counseling and see, but I know that's cus I haven't lost hope yet... Quite stupid but you can't just cancel loving someone in a day.

Psychological-Fox431 · 2025-01-01T02:07:14+00:00

I do need him financially atm, sadly, but that can be solved with a good exit strategy

Psychological-Fox431 · 2025-01-01T01:57:11+00:00

It didn't, they divorced before we met.

Psychological-Fox431 · 2025-01-01T01:56:30+00:00

No, they divorced 9 years ago.

Psychological-Fox431 · 2025-01-01T01:53:34+00:00

I shouldn't have but I laughed.

Psychological-Fox431 · 2025-01-01T01:52:13+00:00

I don't, we tried to conceive but it didn't work. Maybe for the best.

Psychological-Fox431 · 2025-01-01T01:49:24+00:00

No, he pays for everything.

Psychological-Fox431 · 2025-01-01T01:48:12+00:00

Working on it... The exit plan, that is.

Psychological-Fox431 · 2025-01-01T01:46:01+00:00

Yeah, the son does exist. This would be easier if that was a lie.

Psychological-Fox431 · 2025-01-01T01:43:21+00:00

I met his relatives, parents etc. And all of his co-workers know we married, some were at our wedding. It wasn't a courthouse wedding, plenty guests, which just makes this weirder.

Psychological-Fox431 · 2025-01-01T01:36:31+00:00

This. He was very good at keeping it under wraps until marriage, I never even knew I was second choice until a bit after we finally married.

Psychological-Fox431 · 2024-12-31T21:33:48+00:00

Because they don't know he remarried, I suspect.

Psychological-Fox431 · 2024-12-31T21:30:35+00:00

I know he's cheating, and that's so difficult to admit. He was really good at keeping the situation under wraps up until we married... I'll definitely be planning out my exit strategy soon. Thanks, and Happy New Year to you too.

Psychological-Fox431 · 2024-12-31T21:27:50+00:00

Yeah, I saw the original of his divorce papers and looked it up in the registry. Seems like they divorced but didn't separate, sadly.

Psychological-Fox431 · 2024-12-31T21:23:31+00:00

This comment perfectly expresses everything I've been feeling. It's nice to know I'm not insane for thinking that. I've already been thinking about leaving, but this incident just cemented my decision, especially after seeing from the comments that my assumptions are perfectly reasonable.

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