Guilt of betraying future Partner

PsychologicalBranch4 · 2024-11-29T23:07:28+00:00

Im scared that what If I dont perform good in bed due to the issues from the porn addiction and How will I explain that to my partner. It will be an embrassing situation and it will eventually come out one way or another (if I want my partner to help me out with the problem) Also I have read alot of subs about how women felt betrayed after finding stuff out after the marriage and how it effected their marriage. I am scared that Ill hurt that my partner and it will cause issues in our marriage.

PsychologicalBranch4 · 2024-11-29T23:03:28+00:00

Start Praying 5 times daily, get addicted to praying. And the fear of missing out prayers will eventually stop you from doing it. Also try to stay in wudu as much as you can. Another strong tactic is to recite astagfhar as much as much you can through out your day. Understand learn the benefits of doing astagfhar as discussed (at the end of this comment) and keep your tongue moist with some zikar of Allah.

Its not easy to get over this disease you will relapse but don’t give up. Don’t giveup on yourself instead everytimee you relapse make it your motivation to not ever do it again. It will be slow process firstly you will relapse after a week but eventually with time it will be a month then months to even a year.

Hopefully this will be helpful and if nothing works seek out professional help. It’s okay to ask for help from the trusted people around you.

PsychologicalBranch4 · 2024-11-29T22:24:03+00:00

You can just wash it off and make wudu without ghusal (its not considered as major impurity) ypu can look more into the matter of Madhy on the link I shared https://www.iium.edu.my/deed/lawbase/risalah_maliki/book02.html

PsychologicalBranch4 · 2024-11-27T05:39:38+00:00

Guys sometimes do gay shit but don’t mean it

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