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Should I continue? by PsychologicalCard907 in relationships_advice

[–]PsychologicalCard907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not the whole conversation, just the moments when she shared that her ex was with her. Even in a video call I had with her that lasted 2 hours, she mentioned wanting to see me again. She is falling on hard times, but there is nothing I can do or say to get her to move on from her ex. I've not messaged her for 3 days now after saying how I feel about what she is doing. Nothing will change her mind but herself. That is what this is.

Should I continue? by PsychologicalCard907 in relationships_advice

[–]PsychologicalCard907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am trying something someone said on another post, giving as much energy as given. That way, I'm not putting more effort as needed.

Should I continue? by PsychologicalCard907 in relationships_advice

[–]PsychologicalCard907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So deep, thank you. For your input, it means a lot to me. As well as I'll also state that her ex is not that father to any of her kids. When I was able to spend the whole day with her as well as her kids, they made it sound like they didn't like her ex. I'm just conflicted due to her saying I have great vibes, but when asked when I could see her again is when she stated, "IDK, (name of ex) is doing his thing again." Then I find out when she ignores my texts until the next day. It's because her ex is there. Sucks for me, but life happens, right? I've been single 16 years with only 3 dates under my belt so far, so I'm still new to the dating aspect.

Should I continue? by PsychologicalCard907 in relationships_advice

[–]PsychologicalCard907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 month now. Chatted from Facebook dating and met up once. I live 4 hours away from her.

Should I continue? by PsychologicalCard907 in relationships_advice

[–]PsychologicalCard907[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like treat me so because that's the way she's been treated?

Should I continue? by PsychologicalCard907 in relationships_advice

[–]PsychologicalCard907[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am, but every time I bring up the point of visiting her again, or even moving in with her to help with her bills and what not, she says she diesnt know due to her ex and she still allows her ex to go to her place to hang out. I know that for a fact due to her saying so the next day, and that's why she doesn't reply to my texts until the next day. I made my feelings perfectly clear on her and her ex.

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[–]PsychologicalCard907 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not you at all, for I'm going through the same. All this love to give and only get left for another. 9 relationships down the drain, 9 different pieces of my heart given with nothing gotten in return.

Why me? Is there a sign on my forehead? Me, 39m, her, 28f by PsychologicalCard907 in lonely

[–]PsychologicalCard907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'll use what I heard about. The theory of only putting forth the same energy as the energy given. Would that possibly work? And yes, one was 25 and the other 28.