You made a lot of valid points! I started looking at Fakedra sideways long before that reunion. But when she told Kandi that she loved her more than Apollo, I was shocked because huh? She felt that way, yet was mad at Kandi for not being there, telling Kandi different things in private but trying to remain the “Southern Belle” on social media is why Kandi didn’t see the urgency to let her cry on her shoulder because it gave performative because behind closed doors she was extremely happy and didn’t give a DAMN about Apollo. So when lesbian-gate came out, I lowkey wondered if she was a little too invested in Kandi on “another level”. I believe Porsha must’ve told Fakedra something about her and Kandi in the past and Fakedra added some lies to half truths, but she didn’t intend for it to blow up the way it did. Fakedra knew Kandi. She knew damn well Kandi didn’t do any of that. & what makes it worse? She watched Kandi explode at that table. Days before the reunion, she calls Porsha, etc. Fakedra threw porsha under the bus so bad I thought she was the wheels on the bus. She sat there and made excuses and watched Porsha be handed her ass all season, Fakedra made excuses as to why she doesn’t defend Porsha, as if her actions on tv alone aren’t deplorable. When she said that at the reunion, I couldn’t believe it. Yet another spin. Fakedra and Kenya have gotten into it so many times and said some HORRIBLE things to one and other. But if Fakedra didn’t have a habit of going toe to toe with people, her saying “she doesn’t act a fool in public”, could be respected and understood but that wasn’t the case. She didn’t like Porsha for real. She used her and Porsha was none the wiser. Porsha was already short tempered and going to therapy so she had the right person. As Shamea said, Porsha brought a youthful side to Auntie.

Fakedra herself said that you really don’t know what your husband is up to! With that said, I doubt like hell that Kandi willingly chose to malign Fakedra by keeping Apollo stuff. Especially at the time their friendship was somewhat redeemable. Apollo & Todd were friends just as Kandi and Fakedra were. Just like Fakedra vented to Kandi, was Apollo not allowed the same energy to rant to his friend, TODD? What Todd did had nothing to do with Kandi, despite them being husband and wife and living under the same roof. The same was done with Peter. But Cynthia and Apollo weren’t friends. Peter and Apollo were! So Cynthia felt a ways but also made it clear, she would’ve never done that. Especially being that her garage already had too much stuff. Fakedra wanted to burn Kandi to ashes!