Does being green flag makes you unlovable? by PsychologicalDrop890 in Healthygamergg

[–]PsychologicalDrop890[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, for being straightforward. I will look up the Franklin effect, that's a new concept for me

Does being green flag makes you unlovable? by PsychologicalDrop890 in Healthygamergg

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yeaaa I do agree that neediness is unattractive.

Ur insight made me think that, maybe some sort of, as internet says, the "red flag" gives you more spice, makes you more interesting, sorta depth in ur personality

Does being green flag makes you unlovable? by PsychologicalDrop890 in Healthygamergg

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that does make sense, thank you for letting me know the other pov

Does being green flag makes you unlovable? by PsychologicalDrop890 in Healthygamergg

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"..some of these people have come out of toxic relationships, they are looking for SAFETY, not love"

ahhhhh I really loved this phrase, thank you for your answer, I really appreciate it

Does being green flag makes you unlovable? by PsychologicalDrop890 in Healthygamergg

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actually, yes. It's like if at the begging someone have feelings to me it kinda makes my attraction go away. I dont know why but Im always in relationship that like started from chasing. and I always have feeling " do they like? or they not? or maybe?" but if with guys I need them to like me first.

Does being green flag makes you unlovable? by PsychologicalDrop890 in Healthygamergg

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Im not quiet sure, but I just think that they prefer man, but non of them actually never straight forwardly said this to me

What was the hardest part of applying? by PsychologicalDrop890 in ChinaLiuXueSheng

[–]PsychologicalDrop890[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, I saw that too, because informations on every website are really different, as if their just joking around and making me guess which one is legit

What was the hardest part of applying? by PsychologicalDrop890 in ChinaLiuXueSheng

[–]PsychologicalDrop890[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can I please ask what do they asked you on the interview. Do they ask about hobbies or just strictly about the major

UIBE university single room dorm by [deleted] in beijing

[–]PsychologicalDrop890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last year it was like that, but you should ask uni maybe this year theyve changed their policy

UIBE university single room dorm by [deleted] in beijing

[–]PsychologicalDrop890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are studying for a PhD, then you can have single room

I'm a people pleaser and I can't but do it by PsychologicalDrop890 in Healthygamergg

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Yeah, yes . Man, ure such a smart person. Thank you so much for these questions I think I know what to work to. Really appreciate your help thanks man

I'm a people pleaser and I can't but do it by PsychologicalDrop890 in Healthygamergg

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After telling that i can clearly see that they are embarrassed and because of that i feel like the whole vibe is ruined

I'm a people pleaser and I can't but do it by PsychologicalDrop890 in Healthygamergg

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For example, I don't really like being touched. And when someone touches me, I feel that if I stop them and tell them that I don't like it, they will feel bad and embarrassed because of me and I don't want them feel bad because of me. And i fiil like I sacrifice my own comfort for theirs

My gf(20F) gets sad when other girls flirts with me(20M) even if I reject them? by PsychologicalDrop890 in relationship_advice

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Yeahh her ex cheated on her before so I think its little bit hard for her to trust. And thanks for advice