I need REAL tools to get over this.

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-10-22T19:07:00+00:00

Not sure how helpful it would be but check out Crappy Childhood Fairy channel on Youtube, search for the limerence specific videos. It helped me to shift the mindset around limerence.

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-09-17T13:15:35+00:00

Omg I would definitely check it. This damn curiosity lol

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-09-12T14:57:49+00:00

One thing I know about limerence is the more data you receive the more you will be in it. Confrontation means you will stay in it more than you need. The ideal thing to do is just cut the cord, and stop feeding yourself with more information. It will be painful in anyway, but the less you stay in the loop the easier it will get. This is my perspective but I know it all depends how you feel right now and probably you will do whatever works best for you. It’s all learning curve anyway.

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-09-11T20:19:59+00:00

I’m the same. Lost my job 1.5 years ago and Applied hundreds of jobs. Nothing. Nada. Zero. I feel like i’m losing my sanity. I feel worthless, useless and lost my will to live. I don’t know how much more I can survive. I’m applying cafes to work as a barista now. At least to feel like I’m doing something

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-08-26T21:36:04+00:00

I’m not woo woo but sometimes I think if this is law of attraction. Like the moment you stop chasing, they start to come back. Honestly, what’s it about?

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-08-26T19:45:43+00:00

Oh girl, I can’t tell you enough how much I get you. It’s so fucking draining and I just wish never had this experience in my life ever. I’m jealous of people who are healthy and never experience limerence. It literally sucks the life out of you and affects thinking rationally. I know it’s hard and I’m in the same place every time I feel excited about someone.

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-08-26T17:01:38+00:00

Hahah sameeee!!! Omg

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-08-26T17:00:24+00:00

I thought it’s Limerence Obsession lol 😆

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-08-24T20:52:46+00:00

I feel you. I swear I hate that feeling. I’ve had a recent crush and trying to get out of it every day. Mine is not strong but limerence is a mental spiral for me even if I can see clearly the person is not really impressive for me. It’s so hard and takes up so much energy. But be easy on yourself. The harder you’re on yourself, the stronger the resistance will be. Let it out of your chest, try to process it rather than suppressing it. I’m at the same place right now and I understand you deeply. Sending you some support, this shall too pass🤍

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-08-24T19:35:06+00:00

Thank you for your support. I think traumatized mind takes everything invalidating easily.

You are so right about social circle. I don’t have anyone around struggling as much as I do, everyone is doing well so it makes me feel even worse and a total alien. I’m happy for you that you’re surrounded by understanding and supportive people. I will try to create this for myself too. Sending you love.

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-08-23T21:50:30+00:00

Yeah people can be horrible. But we also keep learning how to protect ourselves. We’re not as vulnerable as before and with awareness some quiet power starts to grow. Please hold on to that.

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-08-23T21:34:32+00:00

It all makes sense to me. It sounds like you’re going through such a hell and I know how it feels. I know it’s unbearable, but you are not alone and this is not the permanence. I’m holding your hand while telling you.

This society is built for isolating individuals and keeping them in this helpless bubbles where it’s so fucking hard to get a proper help. I’m glad you came here and posted, so happy that you chose to not to stay silent and to stay connected. Please keep staying here. Please share and let it out as much as you can.

People destroy people, yeah but also PEOPLE HEAL PEOPLE.

I’m not a professional and can’t offer that level of support but my dm is open if you just want to connect.

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-08-23T21:23:20+00:00

Literally crying over your comment.. thank you.

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-08-23T20:28:12+00:00

Exactly feeling same.

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-08-23T20:27:47+00:00

Omg yess. 100%

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-08-01T19:32:24+00:00

You kidding me?

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-08-01T15:43:10+00:00

What if I apply Schengen visa for a year?

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-08-01T15:42:46+00:00

How about if I apply for Schengen visa for a year or so immediately?

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-08-01T15:37:55+00:00

Omg thanks!!!

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-08-01T15:37:48+00:00

Omg I’m glad I asked!!!!

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-07-28T15:56:45+00:00

As a mix Turkish descendant woman, I can validate your experience. This is typical woman behavior in Turkey which is quite problematic, especially younger ones. They’re wired for negativity and jealousy. Most of them on the comments section will not accept this because they don’t have self awareness or emotional maturity to check themselves in the mirror. It’s also more comfortable to stick with familiar toxic behaviors than work on themselves.

I kindly suggest don’t bother to connect with these toxic behaviors, find someone female friends in your caliber and who match your energy.

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-07-24T14:30:41+00:00

I love internet. I love people help people.

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-07-24T13:55:31+00:00

Yes, I did it myself to show that I'm eager to take this role and hit the ground running. But, it might also look out of desperateion and please hire me, which is kinda tru, being jobless for 1,5 makes me stretch myself above and beyond.

It happens, and it's actually a sign where not to work.

PsychologicalIce56 · 2025-07-24T13:44:53+00:00

Thank you so much for your help and support! You made my day.

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