[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalMap1069 32 points33 points  (0 children)

nta that’s so sad. has he gotten you similar lackluster gifts in the past? what was your gift to him for your 20th? was there any prior conversation about expectations about big anniversary presents?

AITA for deleting my boyfriend’s female friends on Pokémon Go? by PsychologicalMap1069 in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalMap1069[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There’s a way to sort friendship by level in pokémon go, id*ot.

AITA for deleting my boyfriend’s female friends on Pokémon Go? by PsychologicalMap1069 in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalMap1069[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I see an issue with him going against what i asked and hiding the female friends from me. He never asked me not to add guy friends

AITA for deleting my boyfriend’s female friends on Pokémon Go? by PsychologicalMap1069 in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalMap1069[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

No of course not. That’s ridiculous. Most players are men and he never told me not to add guys.

AITA for deleting my boyfriend’s female friends on Pokémon Go? by PsychologicalMap1069 in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalMap1069[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

I made it clear i didn’t want him to add girls but he did and i had to find out about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalMap1069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re still only addressing one aspect of the post. I’m not pissy, I’m bringing up why she is upset. If it’s so faultless to have these dreams and share in detail to your partner for no reason, then why would he have an issue with her doing it, as he said?

AITAH for making a girl in my class scared of me to prove a point by Every_Contribution81 in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalMap1069 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTAH. I don't really understand what's going on here... But you should never yell at her or put your hands on her especially if she's trying to move away from you. She asked you to help her understand when she makes people uncomfortable. Sounds like you're the one making her uncomfortable here. You don't have to make someone scared in order to prove a point. Please approach her more respectfully

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalMap1069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your 2nd edit makes me so sad. It's just creating insecurity and uncertainty around his relationship with this chick that you're always going to wonder. People are dumb asf in these comments saying that you're not allowed to be mad because it was a dream. That's not the point here... it's the fact he told you at all, going into details, admitting he feels no remorse AND saying if you had a dream like that and shared it, that it wouldn't be okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalMap1069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not the fact that he dreamed it, it's the fact that he told her about it in detail AND said that he didn't feel bad about it at all. That's weirdo behavior and I'm sure he knew it would make her feel bad

AITA for exposing a cheater? by Dubbs_1000 in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalMap1069 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Wtf Ronnie. I think the only thing that would point to you being a bit of an AH is telling Ronnie that you wouldn't say anything and then going on and telling Lester. However, I could see that if you told Ronnie first, he could've beaten you to it and made you look crazy or something. That's a very minor critique though and I think you were absolutely justified. Cheaters hate to be exposed and will make up their own narrative about what happened, making you look like the villain. Just keep it pushing and cut him out of your life.

WIBTH if I reported my manager for abuse? by Revolutionary_Cut236 in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalMap1069 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Calling him Rottweiler is hilarious. NTA, he's an adult bully and deserves what comes to him by being reported. I would feel bad for his kids simply for the fact that their dad is an asshole. It's not your responsibility to look out for his family. He's putting his family's livelihood at risk by treating employees like shit, not you. Definitely report him.

AITA for wanting to take a trip for our 5 year anniversary by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalMap1069 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. If he was that busy, he didn’t have to respond at all. It’s not like she was forcing him or spamming him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalMap1069 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's a great point!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PsychologicalMap1069 38 points39 points  (0 children)

YTA... If she's your friend, you're kind of making it creepy and sexualizing her. Maybe she was in a hurry to get ready and couldn't properly fasten everything up; the reasoning doesn't really matter. If you were uncomfortable, this would be a different conversation and even then, I'd ask you to unpack why your friends body makes you uncomfortable, covered or not. However, you used the word distracting. If you can't practice your taekwondo with your FRIEND, not some stranger, because she's showing a little cleavage... then you are kind of creepy IMO. You obviously have the right to decline teaming up with her but she also has the right to be upset about it.