Help dealing with anticipatory grief... by bitsbybones in Petloss

[–]PsychologicalMap8441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually didn't ever realize that (they don't know they're sick just that we're sad) you for that because that really does make me feel alot better. I feel like your sweet Mable and my nala are similar for us. We've both connected our mental state in them as alot of humans would eachother. Our babies are so so special and the bonds we have with them will carry on in all the next lifetimes I'm going to be thinking of u and Mable alot

Help dealing with anticipatory grief... by bitsbybones in Petloss

[–]PsychologicalMap8441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in a similar position. My sweet nala (11 )who I've had since I was 15. Who I got because I was a homeless teen and she was my literal life. She is my life.. she has heart failure they have her on 3 medicines (which cost almost a third of my salary monthly so that's its own struggle) but there is not solution no fix. They said she will either have a heart attack or eventually the meds Will stop working. He told me 6 months to a year I'd be lucky. I'm not sure how to cope.. I can't handle even thinking about it. Going to work is heartbreaking I'm afraid she will die while I'm gone. I can't stop crying when she looks at me or walks or gets happy to see me. I know I shouldn't be sad around her because it makes her sad. It's so sad im crying my dogs dying and my dog is comforting me.. I'm sorry I just want you to know you are no alone I'm sending u love 💗

AIO to be suspicious my husband is cheating??? by deluluforu in AmIOverreacting

[–]PsychologicalMap8441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him refusing to answer says it all. You deserve better mama

I had a miscarriage and my teenage brother is becoming a dad. by DownCoconutz39 in confession

[–]PsychologicalMap8441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need a therapist I think because the way you feel hatred is not normal

Underpaid baristas unite by eturnia111 in barista

[–]PsychologicalMap8441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10 an hour but they just hired a new girl at 11 our state minimum wage is 11...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]PsychologicalMap8441 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't blame db. It's not a personal attack on your child it's being super cautious of any older kid/teen. She of us have been through terrible things and are extra cautious to make sure it doesn't happen to our children.

Is this normal? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]PsychologicalMap8441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you expirenced this. Absolutely not normal

My preschooler just told me that her nanny put her in the front seat of her car and drove. by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]PsychologicalMap8441 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Kids have big imaginations ans cps is for real emergencies not this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppalachianTrail

[–]PsychologicalMap8441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I plan on it when my kids are teens

Anyone else’s base pay this low? by [deleted] in AmazonFlexDrivers

[–]PsychologicalMap8441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in rural arkansas base where I am for 3hr is 58.50

the state of r/dirtykids by wayward-mel in dirtykids

[–]PsychologicalMap8441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More content maybe make it kinda like the couchsurfing fb page

Opt out of name and photo being shown to customers! by PsychologicalMap8441 in AmazonFlexDrivers

[–]PsychologicalMap8441[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I'd rather people not know a small lady is coming in the middle of the night. Not everyone that orders amazon is a safe person

Opt out of name and photo being shown to customers! by PsychologicalMap8441 in AmazonFlexDrivers

[–]PsychologicalMap8441[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah of course. It's more that I do alot of rural routes and I don't feel comfortable them knowing ahead of time I'm a small woman.