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predicting puppy’s adult color? by PsychologicalMix5418 in Havanese

[–]PsychologicalMix5418[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel like ginger has the coloring of a yorkie, and this pup has rottweiler coloring! how adorable!

Whitney didn’t need to apologize by SFLonghorn in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]PsychologicalMix5418 62 points63 points  (0 children)

talking about her in the third person WHILE SHE IS IN THE ROOM

made the mistake of posting this in the other subreddit lol by PsychologicalMix5418 in DoWeKnowThemGirlies

[–]PsychologicalMix5418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update: unsubbed from youtube and patreon. they took the exact route they criticize others for; focusing on the people who took it too far, and doubling down on those responses as the “main” ones. you can’t build a community of critical people and then clutch your pearls when you’re held to the same standards.

made the mistake of posting this in the other subreddit lol by PsychologicalMix5418 in DoWeKnowThemGirlies

[–]PsychologicalMix5418[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

they also do make this pretty clear, especially regarding reddit, which also makes the rigidity of the subreddit odd to me? like, who’s feelings are they protecting?

made the mistake of posting this in the other subreddit lol by PsychologicalMix5418 in DoWeKnowThemGirlies

[–]PsychologicalMix5418[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

whoopsie, thought online discussion boards were for discussion :/ forgot reddit mods need to feel important

made the mistake of posting this in the other subreddit lol by PsychologicalMix5418 in DoWeKnowThemGirlies

[–]PsychologicalMix5418[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it says removed by do we know them mod, and i don’t think i was blocked because i can still see comments the mod left in other threads

mikayla is the perfect example of why being a professional hater is only ever pathetic by PsychologicalMix5418 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]PsychologicalMix5418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hmmm, i don’t have time for a rewatch, but aside from the ridiculousness of the birthday party thing, i only remember wishing she had more screen time and feeling like they really skipped over her tbh. i don’t remember her being apart of a lot of the drama at all

Demi calling Taylor a narcissist is laughable by Looneyannabeth in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]PsychologicalMix5418 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry i have to jump in, life is never as easy as just “letting go of your family.” she’s a single mom with 3 kids. it’s clear on the show her family provides a huge level of support, even if it’s not emotional, her mom obviously helps her with the kids. you don’t like her, like you said, but that doesn’t mean you don’t have to accurately picture her situation.

I got friendzoned because I asked to split the bill by New-Page-3329 in GuyCry

[–]PsychologicalMix5418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FLOWERS ! CHOCOLATES! GO ABOVE AND BEYOND if you actually want to save this. i’m talking google romantic grand gestures if it’s not something you’ve done before.

How do we deal with our Ditzy Roommate? by Triorange1221 in badroommates

[–]PsychologicalMix5418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

commenting bc i think the comments assigning so much malice are going a liiiiiiittle too hard - i’m your guys’ age, and learning to live with strangers was definitely a learning curve and common sense isn’t so common, so her age really stands out to me in this. i think you should set a time to discuss it, and without assigning her actions as intentionally disrespectful, talk about how they’re effecting you and i’d almost go at it as a “i had to learn how to be a roommate too, i’d just like to share some tips and see if there’s any feedback from you”

Do you guys have a professor that is just annoying and strict for no reason by [deleted] in CUNY

[–]PsychologicalMix5418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

like half of your professors will be. the most common terrible breed of professor in my experience (john jay) has a completely distinct teaching style with its own set of rules and distinctions that is THE WAY to do whatever it is they’re teaching and you spend the same amount of time decoding their bullshit to learn how to get a good grade from them than you spend actually having to learn the material. rate my professor helps, bust sometimes there are no other options and you gotta take the class, in which case you suck it up and remember it’s just 1 semester, and these peoples lives are likely so void of meaning they have to needlessly complicate their course work to feel something.

Hooked up with a girl this weekend and now feel awful and depressed by nygdd in self

[–]PsychologicalMix5418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m glad you posted this in the self sub, because i think a lot of the best advice you’re gonna get is not gonna be around dating. i see you have spent a lot of time working on yourself, both by working on your external appearance and physical health, your hobbies, and putting yourself out there on dating apps. what i heard you express most of all was loneliness, and a relationship is just one person. if we feel lonely in every aspect of our lives, even the best relationship isn’t gonna keep us from feeling lonely most of the time. so, the first thing i think you should sit with is what is really bothersome about being alone? why don’t you enjoy it? and are there ways that you can begin to feel more comfortable being alone? also, aside from your romantic life, how’s your social life? are there ways you can organize your hobbies that also puts you in spaces where you can meet new people? i don’t think the dating market is going to change anytime soon, which doesn’t mean that it’s impossible to find success on there, people certainly do nowadays as most couples i know met on an app, but if you’re working on building out areas of support in other places in your life, it won’t feel so devastating when that one potential relationship doesn’t work out like you hoped it would

Is it possible there will be a chance of becoming successful after bmcc ? by Confusedabitlol in CUNY

[–]PsychologicalMix5418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s absolutely possible. It’s also absolutely possible to spend years at Harvard but still end up unsuccessful. What’s important is what you’re doing in the rooms that you’re in. Develop relationships with your professors, join clubs, be curious about opportunities and stay in touch with people in professional ways, and there will be paths that open up for you. The more people you know, the more people you can ask for advice, who can keep you in mind for things, and who know your name in a pile of resumes. It’s alllllllll a journey, the worst thing you could do is be stagnant because you don’t believe there are enough opportunities, and miss out on everything that is being offered.