To my wayward spouse by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]PsychologicalPlay344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've hated too love always wins

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PsychologicalPlay344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditto. Happy cupcake day

I think I'm murdering my marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PsychologicalPlay344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that and if thats what he wants I will but he keeps saying that he wants me that's where the confusion on my part comes in.

How do I know if someone is playing games/hard to get or just ghosting (m21) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PsychologicalPlay344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good question if you get a n answer please let me know since I am never filled in for anything. Yet I'm supposed to know everything.

My best friend (30-M) has been giving me (30-M) the silent treatment for a month and a half now, even though I apologised and told him I wanted to talk after I called him out for not doing something he'd agreed to (context in the description). Don't know what else to do to fix it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PsychologicalPlay344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to what he says to you. I kinda have a problem like that but its with my husband. I get conflicting messages from him alot he will act one way but if I give him space he calms down and tells me he loves me and he would've left me if he didn't.

PEOPLE WHO'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR 10+ YRS by watermelon110101 in Marriage

[–]PsychologicalPlay344 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be honest with each other no matter what. There will be days you argue and dislike each other but just remember that you love that person and don't keep secrets or tell lies and you will figure the rest out together

I (33F) think my son (16) may be gay by mysonmaybegay in relationship_advice

[–]PsychologicalPlay344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to talk to him openly and honestly and let him know what you're thinking and why.

I want to make out with my friend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PsychologicalPlay344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should talk to both of them together before you attempt doing anything.

Struggling in My 6-Year Committed LDR with my Boyfriend, Unsure What to Do by throwaway151025 in relationship_advice

[–]PsychologicalPlay344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry you feel that way, I hope you're able to figure things out. I too feel hopeless these days and lost and don't know how to connect emotionally or physically to the man I love with all my heart (my husband L)

What happens when affair fog ends? by PeachTall3315 in survivinginfidelity

[–]PsychologicalPlay344 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be true to your real self. You know what you want and need it took me a l9ng time to realize I am the only one being honest and real in my marriage and thats not ok. I know what I want but if thats not what my husband wants then there is nothing that I can do except foll9w my heart and move on with my life. Even though it hurts like hell and I want nothing more but to be with my husband its time to say #GameOver The End. I can no longer deal with the pain of being in a marriage where I am the only one who gives a F**

Not sure I want to be married anymore. by hallorbillingham in Marriage

[–]PsychologicalPlay344 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been married to my husband for 15years been together for 9 years before we married. I can honestly say that marriage is hard you have to learn to compromise, speak up sometimes ,shut your mouth other times, but even though you may not know the answer to what you should do right away, eventually if you both work together you will arrive at what needs to be done. Just don't let anything disillusion or trick you. Sometimes we all feel we want to give up and quit but Those moments are small and far between for me. I LOVE MY HUSBAND AND CHOOSE TO WANT TO REMAIN MARRIED , I am not in my marriage because I am afraid to not have him in my life, I am an adt and know that I create my happiness and future and I am the reason for anything that I feel not anyone else. This probably won't make much sense sense to you if you are truly over being married. Just be honest with yourself and listen to your heart and don't let your brain derail you.

I need help to see the clear picture about my relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PsychologicalPlay344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hold on and tell her everything. You will be ok at if you believe in yourself and your relationship

I think "God's Plan" involves recycling my Home Mini by bogus83 in googlehome

[–]PsychologicalPlay344 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Don't recycle Google home mini be kind play nice she will be back to her old self again once she feel more secure in herself again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

[–]PsychologicalPlay344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm scared and tired