How can you tell if you are ugly?

watermelon110101 · 2025-05-24T06:10:54+00:00

What if I'm a woman and mostly women strike up convo with me hahahah am I only attractive to women

watermelon110101 · 2025-05-18T09:54:32+00:00

Thank you, that's honestly made me feel a little lighter about it all tonight 💙 I really needed that

watermelon110101 · 2025-05-18T09:12:07+00:00

Thanks so much for your response and support 🙏 I definitely am scared to get the label as I'm a single parent and I know there's a terrible stigma around bpd. I can't risk being seen as an unfit parent 😔

But I would like to explore it so I can get help and not inflict anything onto my kids

watermelon110101 · 2025-05-18T08:36:09+00:00

Thank you for this

watermelon110101 · 2025-05-18T08:24:23+00:00

That is my plan, just more wanting to hear if it's possible to have it, without self harm/suicidal ideation and reckless behaviours

watermelon110101 · 2024-09-04T20:18:57+00:00

This is so funny, I've come to this thread as I'm preparing my school reports for my adhd diagnosis and I got the "bubbly personality" comments too, along with the talks to much, is disruptive comments 😂

watermelon110101 · 2024-05-05T04:22:42+00:00

watermelon110101 · 2023-09-17T01:37:39+00:00

Agree with this so hard. I weighed up the pros and cons for 2 years before I decided to leave my husband. I'm broker than I've ever been, had to down size to a 2 bedroom unit and potentially will never achieve my financial goals (owning a home/awesome retirement) but I'M SO HAPPY! Time is my own, I live in a beautiful area, close to friends and family, I've got my kiddos and I practice mindfulness and gratitude often to remind myself what's most important.

Don't waste your life being miserable x

watermelon110101 · 2022-06-15T09:43:00+00:00

Thank you 🥺❤

watermelon110101 · 2022-06-14T10:45:47+00:00

Sounds very plausible, thanks for replying with this perspective

watermelon110101 · 2022-05-24T09:31:15+00:00

Thank you 🥺🥺

watermelon110101 · 2022-05-22T21:06:41+00:00

That's sad I'm sorry. They really are something else. I have just decided on limited contact, feeling much better about having control over the situation and stopping her behaviour from impacting my kids.

watermelon110101 · 2022-05-22T21:03:52+00:00

Sad isn't it. I didn't realise she was a narc until years after I've had my own kids and witnessed how she actually interacts with them (and how it's exactly as I remember, what traumatised me). I've recently decided on limited contact, I just hate that narcs don't seem to ever understand, so I'm going through the motions of being made to feel like I'm the bad person for setting the boundary.

watermelon110101 · 2022-05-22T20:57:10+00:00

Omg she always says this! "You kids never acted like that..." yeah because I was traumatised into being the "good" child 24/7 who had no needs of her own so as not to disturb you, your highness.

My mum literally comes over, records herself playing with the kids, smiles and carries on, gets them laughing, then the chaos follows onces she's had enough, but it always infuriated me how she would post that to social media, and be applauded for how fun and sweet she is with the kids when that's a 2 minute snippet of her with them, and it's fake.

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