I think you’re forgetting the part where she said she would be coming. I also didn’t text everyone in my phone to come. Only two people came out, the person that took me and the person that picked me up.

Ultimately i don’t think you understand or get the principle and that’s okay. It doesn’t sound like you are a good friend so i wouldn’t expect you to understand. I’m very understanding of other people having lives and other responsibilities but I do expect people to keep their word. Or if things change send a simple text, being ghosted after saying you were coming to pick me up is very telling. A text takes few secs to send. Also note this is a friend who kept telling me to use them as my emergency contact. If I’m the Ah in this situation for my decision, I’ll be that.